Atlast, thoda sukun mila...

"Mein apne dono bachon Ke liye, sahi maa nahi bann paayi" 😡 😡
This dialogue made me relieved, as I have been hating this character from long time now
I didn't felt any sympathy for her as of now.
Atleast, she agreed, that she was not a good mother for Shravan
She is the reason for all his problems in life.
He hates other women because of her
She is the reason for making him so insecure in his life..
I think Nirmala will be back after sometime
As usual she will bring another storm in shraman life,
But till then, I want Shraman to develop a good relation, with trust & love for each other, so that they can stand firmly , together, hand in hand, to face the next storm

Permissible age in life for everything is 18++... It means a person is capable of taking own decisions after that age and Niru left Shravan nearly at that age... she can't be a reason for every wrong deed that he would ever commit in his life... she held herself responsible for Adi's deed but there wasn't really a need of that... Adi is a grownup man and he's solely responsible for his wrong doings.

Originally posted by: --Amulya--

Permissible age in life for everything is 18++... It means a person is capable of taking own decisions after that age and Niru left Shravan nearly at that age... she can't be a reason for every wrong deed that he would ever commit in his life... she held herself responsible for Adi's deed but there wasn't really a need of that... Adi is a grownup man and he's solely responsible for his wrong doings.

Nirmala is my least favorite character. I hate her...I mean REALLY HATE HER.
The damage she has done to Shravan can't be easily undone. Even if Shravan forgives her, I never will.
Having said that, I too was satisfied when she said that she had failed both of her sons. It is true and I am glad she realizes it.

But, I did feel a twinge of pity for her when she was ashamed and had to apologize for Adi's dastardly behavior. For a short second there, I pitied her, but I have no deep sympathy for her. I maintain that I will never forgive her for abandoning Shravan whatever the reason.

Originally posted by: --Amulya--

Permissible age in life for everything is 18++... It means a person is capable of taking own decisions after that age and Niru left Shravan nearly at that age... she can't be a reason for every wrong deed that he would ever commit in his life... she held herself responsible for Adi's deed but there wasn't really a need of that... Adi is a grownup man and he's solely responsible for his wrong doings.

Shravan was more attached to Nirmala
But when suddenly she estranged him without any reason(he thinks so), it will affect him badly, and it did so.
It is not the age/maturity to take decision, but it is the shock that the betrayal gave him.
A wound that too in the teenage, made him more arrogant.
In that age, just think of a boy, whose mother is eloped with someone else, leaving him & his father behind, how insulting it is for him?
Ofcourse, Nirmala's that step made shravan such a guy, who hates women.
Before that, shravan was a good soul, poor soul.
Aditya got bonus in the form of Nirmala, at the cost of shravan's pain.
You can't compare shravan's feelings & Aditya's feelings.
The happiness she snatched from Shravan, she shared it with Aditya..
Ofcourse, the rude Shravan is the result of Nirmala's actions
As she said, she is not a good mother

Originally posted by: spnfan

Teenage is the most crucial age esp for guys... Shravan was extremly attached.to nirmala and.her.leaving .him without an explanation played a.huge role in.what he has become today.. In any age if the parents wrong their.children.it is always a big.deal and it changes you character a lot...

Well said..

Originally posted by: PlainJane

Nirmala is my least favorite character. I hate her...I mean REALLY HATE HER.
The damage she has done to Shravan can't be easily undone. Even if Shravan forgives her, I never will.
Having said that, I too was satisfied when she said that she had failed both of her sons. It is true and I am glad she realizes it.

But, I did feel a twinge of pity for her when she was ashamed and had to apologize for Adi's dastardly behavior. For a short second there, I pitied her, but I have no deep sympathy for her. I maintain that I will never forgive her for abandoning Shravan whatever the reason.

After Wednesday scene, when she asked Shravan to stay away, for the sake of Aditya, I lost the last drop of sympathy for her.
How could she do it, after hurting him so much, again putting masala on his wounds.
How can a mother be so senseless, to ignore his pain, and add more to it?