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Posted: 8 years ago
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I felt Dev was very honest in today's episode.

When his maa questioned him about why he called Sonakshi, he very sincerely answered her instead of avoiding the question or giving some lame excuses ... Atleast that was the 1st step he took in right direction .. although he has a long way to go.


Also when he was having a conversation with Sonakshi, he was the one who looked more sincere and honest. Whatever he said to her might not exactly be what she wanted to hear but it was the truth. He also told her that he knows he was wrong ... I wish Sona will have a straight conversation with him instead of bashing him every single time.


Sona knows very well that Dev was wrong but she also knows that that he was very scared for his mother when he took that impulsive decision. She also knows that he has no one to talk to or guide him .. cause she was his only friend.

I wish they will sit and talk face to face like mature adults.


Sona is right now taking all wrong decisions. Its silly of her to marry Ritwik when she herself has not even come to terms with the break-up.



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Posted: 8 years ago
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maybe.. but the jury is still out.

the fundamental problem is that he is focusing on Sonakshi. The wrong person. He must focus on himself and his feelings for Sonakshi. i am getting irked by his - Sona is making a mistake, Sona don't do a mistake.. big deal, what are you doing my friend? You made a mistake, set the damn mistake right.

also, he should stop telling sona, you love me... he needs to say - i love you!

Dev needs to get real and confront himself first..Sona is his and will remain his.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes today Dev was honest
But i'm confused with Sona's behaviour rushing into marriage
She was always the matured one but now she is taking decisions that can hurt her and Ritvik.
Dev on the other hand has only realized that Sona will be married soon and gone , he still has to realize his impulsive behavior of breaking off has hurt her , he needs to realize whether he truly wants her in his life or not will he be able to stand in front of his mother and say he loves only Sonakshi and wishes to marry her .
Both are wrong and from yesterday I just felt they mocking at their very own love instead of working through the issues , they pointing fingers at each other
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Agreed,a slightly diff , saw him take a tiny step to speak abt what he thought to his mom...but I felt his thoughts are still not in the right direction...There are a lot of question he needs to ask himself - why is he so bothered abt her moving on? why does it bother him about her taking wrong decision? Why , seeing another man in her life is affecting him so much? After all they have broken up and decided to choose their own path and why is that he keeps reminding her that she loves him and no one else ? Why is he stopping her from marrying another man saying she will get hurt?? Is she the one going to get hurt or is it hurting him?
The day he says all this is hurting him and he is doing it for himself as he loves her and cant think of a day with out her ...I guess that will be a huge step..

At least his response to his mom's question was a good beginning.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dev took the 1st step today in the right direction. He admitted in front of Sona that he was wrong and admitted in front of Iswari "Usko takleef hogi .. uske parivaar ko takleef hogi .. AUR USS TAKLEEF WAJAH MAIN HOON"


By now he knows that he was wrong .. but he doesn't know how to .. or perhaps doesn't have the guts to rectify his mistake.


But at the same time he also knows that Sonakshi is also making a mistake ...



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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jade0001

Yes today Dev was honest

But i'm confused with Sona's behaviour rushing into marriage
She was always the matured one but now she is taking decisions that can hurt her and Ritvik.
Dev on the other hand has only realized that Sona will be married soon and gone , he still has to realize his impulsive behavior of breaking off has hurt her , he needs to realize whether he truly wants her in his life or not will he be able to stand in front of his mother and say he loves only Sonakshi and wishes to marry her .
Both are wrong and from yesterday I just felt they mocking at their very own love instead of working through the issues , they pointing fingers at each other

@bold i guess he realises that he have hurt sona coz of his decision , yesterday he told that too mamaji and today to sona also...
@blue.. with today's baby step... his next step should be this realisation that he can't live without sonakshi...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: SoniSoni12



I felt Dev was very honest in today's episode.

When his maa questioned him about why he called Sonakshi, he very sincerely answered her instead of avoiding the question or giving some lame excuses ... Atleast that was the 1st step he took in right direction .. although he has a long way to go.


Also when he was having a conversation with Sonakshi, he was the one who looked more sincere and honest. Whatever he said to her might not exactly be what she wanted to hear but it was the truth. He also told her that he knows he was wrong ... I wish Sona will have a straight conversation with him instead of bashing him every single time.


Sona knows very well that Dev was wrong but she also knows that that he was very scared for his mother when he took that impulsive decision. She also knows that he has no one to talk to or guide him .. cause she was his only friend.

I wish they will sit and talk face to face like mature adults.


Sona is right now taking all wrong decisions. Its silly of her to marry Ritwik when she herself has not even come to terms with the break-up.




If left to his own devices Dev wouldn't broach the subject with Ishwari let Sona be a secret lover for his entire lifetime. He needs to be pushed to the brink if his sanity for him to even contemplate discussing Sona with Ishwari.


The only person who can do that is Sona and she is doing exactly that.

Currently Dev isn't matured enough or strong to break his moms apron strings. If Sona tried to calmly discuss with him he would agree but do nothing to change the status quo.

Sona getting married or the threat of it is the only solution for this problem.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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He gave some convoluted reasons to Ishwari about why he's harrassing Sona with no less than 15 calls , it was only half baked truth at best. He couldn't tell his mom the entire truth because,
a, He's plain terrified of the dreaded topic Sonakshi , his love, it's like a elephant in the room or a "She-who-must-not-be-named." as much terrified of discussing any thing related to Sona with Ishwari is as much I'd be terrified if I've to talk with my mother about po*n .

b. He couldn't even tell himself the truth . He avoids using words like it's me who couldn't see her moving on because I need her for myself n I love her , even when alone , because then the ball will fall in his court and he'll be accountable for his actions like continuous unashamed stalking and sabotaging R's career , but his sentences are always along the line of , " Sonakshi galat kar rahi hai. " " She won't be happy in this marriage. " " She can't do this with me." She's saying all these doing all these in anger only to hurt me.. " etc. etc. because then it's Sona whom he can blame n pretend to save , n there goes guilt n accountability for his actions out of the window.😕😆
It's always so much easier to blame others than held ourselves accountable.😉
Frankly speaking , I couldn't see any progress.🥱
Sona practically yelled at him as rudely n as sharply as is possible for a good girl like her, (what else would she have to do to drive the point home ?? Slap him ?? Use slang ?? What ?? ) that leave me the f**k alone , but as usual he's stalking her and planning to do more acutely embarrassing acts coming monday , with her words falling on deaf ears totally.
Mom- son both have selective memory and hearing n filtered thinking.
Make no mistake he only stopped short of calling her once again at night , because of Sona's , " I'll complain to your mommy. " which is the only thing Dev is terrified of , n of course there goes his spine to call her out of the window , n NOT because he respects Sona's wishes.
If this is called progress , then I'm probably watching altogether another show.
Edited by AnnaPaquinFan - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnnaPaquinFan

He gave some convoluted reasons to Ishwari about why he's harrassing Sona with no less than 15 calls , it was only half baked truth at best. He couldn't tell his mom the entire truth because,

a, He's plain terrified of the dreaded topic Sonakshi , his love, it's like a elephant in the room or a "She-who-must-not-be-named." as much terrified of discussing any thing related to Sona with Ishwari is as much I'd be terrified if I've to talk with my mother about po*n .

b. He couldn't even tell himself the truth . He avoids using words like it's me who couldn't see her moving on because I need her for myself n I love her , even when alone , because then the ball will fall in his court and he'll be accountable for his actions like continuous unashamed stalking and sabotaging R's career , but his sentences are always along the line of , " Sonakshi galat kar rahi hai. " " She won't be happy in this marriage. " " She can't do this with me." She's saying all these doing all these in anger only to hurt me.. " etc. etc. because then it's Sona whom he can blame n pretend to save , n there goes guilt n accountability for his actions out of the window.😕😆
It's always so much easier to blame others than held ourselves accountable.😉
Frankly speaking , I couldn't see any progress.🥱
Sona practically yelled at him as rudely n as sharply as is possible for a good girl like her, (what else would she have to do to drive the point home ?? Slap him ?? Use slang ?? What ?? ) that leave me the f**k alone , but as usual he's stalking her and planning to do more acutely embarrassing acts coming monday , with her words falling on deaf ears totally.
Mom- son both have selective memory and hearing n filtered thinking.
Make no mistake he only stopped short of calling her once again at night , because of Sona's , " I'll complain to your mommy. " which is the only thing Dev is terrified of , n of course there goes his spine to call her out of the window , n NOT because he respects Sona's wishes.
If this is called progress , then I'm probably watching altogether another show.


@BOLD : So true, when I see Dev's behaviour these days I think he is no different from his mom .
@ BOLD : When I watched that scene I thought he did it because she asked him not to..I guess I was wrong ..." I'll complain to your mommy. " was the catch point...

I still feel today he did say something on behalf of his behaviour towards Sona at least told her that he was the reason for her misery and that" I know her"..when he said that I really liked because that is not something Ishwari had expected from her son.

Edited by WeRockTheWorld - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: rash2222

@bold i guess he realises that he have hurt sona coz of his decision , yesterday he told that too mamaji and today to sona also...
@blue.. with today's baby step... his next step should be this realisation that he can't live without sonakshi...


yeah.. agreed.. guess daru will make him blurt out everything.. waiting for that scene.. where he ll say his subconcious out.. shayad jald hi..


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