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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: AnnaPaquinFan

He gave some convoluted reasons to Ishwari about why he's harrassing Sona with no less than 15 calls , it was only half baked truth at best. He couldn't tell his mom the entire truth because,

a, He's plain terrified of the dreaded topic Sonakshi , his love, it's like a elephant in the room or a "She-who-must-not-be-named." as much terrified of discussing any thing related to Sona with Ishwari is as much I'd be terrified if I've to talk with my mother about po*n .

b. He couldn't even tell himself the truth . He avoids using words like it's me who couldn't see her moving on because I need her for myself n I love her , even when alone , because then the ball will fall in his court and he'll be accountable for his actions like continuous unashamed stalking and sabotaging R's career , but his sentences are always along the line of , " Sonakshi galat kar rahi hai. " " She won't be happy in this marriage. " " She can't do this with me." She's saying all these doing all these in anger only to hurt me.. " etc. etc. because then it's Sona whom he can blame n pretend to save , n there goes guilt n accountability for his actions out of the window.😕😆
It's always so much easier to blame others than held ourselves accountable.😉
Frankly speaking , I couldn't see any progress.🥱
Sona practically yelled at him as rudely n as sharply as is possible for a good girl like her, (what else would she have to do to drive the point home ?? Slap him ?? Use slang ?? What ?? ) that leave me the f**k alone , but as usual he's stalking her and planning to do more acutely embarrassing acts coming monday , with her words falling on deaf ears totally.
Mom- son both have selective memory and hearing n filtered thinking.
Make no mistake he only stopped short of calling her once again at night , because of Sona's , " I'll complain to your mommy. " which is the only thing Dev is terrified of , n of course there goes his spine to call her out of the window , n NOT because he respects Sona's wishes.
If this is called progress , then I'm probably watching altogether another show.





I could not agree more. I was confused why some seemed happy that Dev was honest with his mom. If he were honest, he would have admitted he was struggling since the break up. But Dev can never be honest with his mom if he is first not honest with himself. Because if he is being "honest" now, does that mean if 6 months or a year from now Sona decides to marry he would be fine because she is finally moving on for herself and not to anger him? And then why would he, a couple of days back, say you (Sona) cannot stop loving me as long as I love you? And if he feels breaking up with her was not in his hands, then why can he not realize that his current stalker behavior is? And at the end of his talk with mom she said he needs to stay away from Sona and he said "haan", so why still go after her? Planning a "surprise" intimate date for your ex and soon to be fianc does not seem like progress to me, but rather regression. He is now neither listening to his mother or Sona... He seems to be spiraling out of control, I am only hoping the drunk encounter is rock bottom, because I cannot enjoy watching Dev sink much lower. 😕

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