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Let me start this post by applauding Dev's Mama. The only person in his family who can tell the truth. And what brutal truth!!!In answer to Dev's same old lame excuse to the tune of, There was no way I could have a mother and a girlfriend/wife too. Everyone in the world can have both. But since my mother behaves like a jealous possessive girlfriend, how can I have a wife?Mama's slamdunk answer: Tu itna bhi bechara nehin hain.BULL'S EYE!!!Ishwari passed on this victim mentality to Dev. Her "Woe is me. In the whole wide world only I had a hard life. And since Dev also had a hard life with me, we will both be single until I die" song that she keeps repeating got into Dev's head.However, our Mama probably as irritated with pacifying Mother and son duo that he had to speak up.He gave excellent advice. However, Dev with his selective hearing only heard the part where he can continue to do what he had been doing, but doesn't have to do what he should be doing.I can bet you, he will continue to try to break Sona's marriage but won't try to get her forgiveness for treating her like a piece of furniture which he got rid of because his mom didn't like the style.Now Sona should also tell Ritwik about what Dev did to him. But knowing Sona, she will tell it to him soon.Ritwik also took an honest step when Bijoy asked what's wrong. He clearly stated that he is worried for Sona because of Dev's harassment which Bijoy should know being Sona's father.Now the day we have been waiting for. Bijoy wasted no time to let Ishwari know that her son has been calling Sona behind her back which lead to Ishwari confronting Dev.There could only be two things that will happen now.1. Dev will come clean how he had been suffering in Sona's absence (Unlikely outcome) or2. He will trivialize his love again by lying about its importance in his life which will lead to Ishwari searching for suitably docile, submissive, doormat girl for Dev to marry. (Most likely).I know what I am wishing for. Ishwari to get a slap on her face and be forced to confront the fact that Dev will get destroyed if Sona is not in his life.But the show needs to run longer. Hence I don't think that will happen.On a completely different note, why didn't the detective mention in his Ritwik report that Ishwari brought that ideal guy in Sona's life? Adha report kyun diya?Or may be he did give the full report. Lekin as usual, baat Devi Maa ki hain to woh portion Dev skip kar gaya hoga.
@bold. Yes!! This woe is me attitude annoys me to no end in both Dev and Ishwari. Your hard times are over, past is gone, get over it already! Instead of focusing on the present and what good the future might hold for them, they only choose to live forever in FB mode.
I don't understand what more Dev needs now😔Mamaji literally spelled out everything for him yesterday and out of the entire thing what did he choose to hear-Sona only loves me and she is taking a wrong decision(me-continues the head banging that I have been doing in the past several episodes)
Where is the character growth? Where is the introspection? How can Dev conveniently forget and ignore that it was HIM who ended the relationship and belittled Sona's importance in his life,dismissed his love in front of his mother as if it holds no value?
I always wanted Dev to realise these things on his own but when mamaji said everything that needed to be said and even then he realised absolutely nothing, I don't know what to expect and hope anymore.
You have rightly said, he will probably trivialize his love again when Ishwari asks about the calls.
Tired of watching Ishwari's melodrama and blind selfish love(more like obsession).
As @Pehchaan kaun and @ gemini rightly said, Dev is the only one responsible because he never once made an effort , never even tried, just gave up!
If only, all 3 (Dev, ammaji, Ishwari) had applied the honesty is the best policy with each other and themselves as well cos 2 of them are still happily residing in Denial with no plans to move(sigh)
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