Can we deny that men the top most species and women are second to them... No, right
But why they are first and we are not ...
1. They chose to hunt - made them physically fit, alert, good in navigation, making strategies and they learnt to work in group, taking orders from leader, reconciles with buddies after a spat and rough play. As they were imitating voices of animals they become good in imitating others voices.
2. We chose to stay at cave - made us loner, developed multitasking skills as we have to raise babies, cook and look after other small works etc. (Made us fairer sex as well - less uv) . We were raising babies so we become apt in sensing emotion and developed six senses.
3. Men wanted their gene to spread so they were polygamist and guarded their women so they were jealous and still that characteristic is evident in their behavior. T
4. Women had one arsenal - child and they make sure by producing children that man remains part of group.
Centuries passed _ we evolved ...
Men are still topmost species because they never given heed to their facial or body hair, boasted their infidelity as a prize and they were comrades ... standing for their own... their buddies. They were clear about their sexualities and never ashamed off it.
Women too evolved... become more powerful and started doing all the work. Suddenly we are everywhere, independent women who can leave behind baby to go for work and sometime choose not to reproduce as well. We have our girlfriends to look after us...
Now it was difficult for men to handle such women ... but they still got one secret weapon which still make us venerable as that is point out on character ... to accuse us of infidelity ... Directly or indirectly ...
They are still physically stronger than us ... manhandling - not good
Sharavan saying Suman ji kisi ke sath nahi jati the usko kaise taiyar kia - You have to prove your morality to get love - again stereotyping ( who is a good girl - one who never go out with boys)
* I am not sure but I heard middle class somewhere - so when Sharavn was folloeing chachi's demand he was also carrying the same belief of middle class, status and all ... abhi tak women raga tha but how she will mingle with bade ghar ke log ... Q
But nevertheless, I am happy to part of group of women who are aware of their personalities, can analyze, take sides, vocal , great buddies, vocal about their sexual fantasies, can keep secretes and great buds. Love you girls ... muah
Keep leaving fears behind for our daughters, granddaughters and greatgreatgranddaughters...š
In context to yesterday's episode _
Why we get affected by if someone says that she had a physical relation in past ... Or a boyfriend, husband judge our character by our verginity ... Before they stop asking us the these questions, we should break free our minds and convince our selves that no we are not guilty. We feel guilty of being women ... All the time.
We have covered a long distance ... Our great grand mothers fought for our rights to vote, to play in olampics, to work, to work in army , wearing what ever we want to wear. This is old rule of war that target the soft point of opponent ... So if you have to make someone angry abusive and taunt their woman folks ... If you want to belittle a women just point finger ... What is modesty ... It's state of mind nothing else .
Men, why they rule because they know exsectly where to hit us and unfortunately few women among us also do the same. A man will never say to another that you are characterless... Because it won't hurt him .
What if we become like them ... When someone point us about our past, present relations, sexual preference we deal it as a natural thing... Don't you think we will be more strong. We are no where less than them in any thing ...
In yesterday's episode ... Suman has every right to ask Sharavn why he lied about them ... Has every right to be angry with him ... But no one else including her family has right to judge her .
SEE NO ONE IS EVEN BOTHERED ABOUT SHARAVAN 's IMAGE ... THAT HE HAD PHYSICAL RELATIONS... ITS ONLY SUMANS REPUTION's WE ARE WORRIED ABOUT ... THIS NEEDS TO BE CHANGE...
Ye Hai Mohabbatein
