Do Shraman really have a Past which they need to hide??

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I am not sure what Shravan gonna tell Aditya today... but seems something to irk him even more...
But do Shraman really have any past to hide?

Of course we know they don't but just wondering what Shravan will say to Adi?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I want him to tell,

"Sumo aur main bandh ghar mein poora din atke huye the.
Main Sumo ke saath 10 din tak hospital mein tha.
ICU mein puri raat main uske saath tha.
Woh mere trust ke liye railing pe chadh gayi thi.
Woh humesha mera image theek rakhne ke liye family walo se jhooth bolti hai.
She hugged me several times.

Bro, you want to know anything more??" 🤪
Edited by Sadia.Ritu - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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They do not.
However the rate at which Aditya has been irking shravan , Shravan might say something unintentionally...which might lead Aditya to conclude there was something between the two.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Right...I don't think there is anything much to say about their past except that they were great friends. Even though they both know they love each other...they haven't confessed. But I am not sure if they had something as teenagers! Bhagwan jaane kya tha uss time pe. Otherwise why would Sumo not want her school friends to come?
Edited by puba - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Exactly they don't have anything to hide and honestly Sumo might have come straight on her stand or her feelings to Aditya had he been even slightly sensitive to her. But since day one he is taunting her and trying to play blame games with her that had made her go in a super defensive mode. Never did he even once give her the confidence that now she is his life partner and he just wants her to be sure that she is ready for this. He needed to tell her that for him her past doesn't matter until it doesn't effect their future. He is so impatient he wants everything ready-made. He doesn't understand that to make someone open about their past, it takes a lot of time and confidence in a relationship. If he is so mahaan he thinks he cant let two lovers separate why he doesnt go and find out more without playing these blame games. And if not, if he really has the courage to accept a girl who might have had feelings for someone else, then chuck everything off and start fresh. I think his behavior is similar to those men obsessed with a woman's intact vagina just that he is obsessed to a woman's intact heart...And honestly its worse 🤢 Its not that Sumo is meeting Shravan behind hsi back or spending time with Shravan and cheating on him. She just had one sided feelings for her school friend which is as common as being alive. I dont understand the need to make it so controversial.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sadia.Ritu

I want him to tell,

"Sumo aur main bandh ghar mein poora din atke huye the.
Main Sumo ke saath 10 din tak hospital mein tha.
ICU mein puri raat main uske saath tha.
Woh mere trust ke liye railing pe chadh gayi thi.
Woh humesha mera image theek rakhne ke liye family walo se jhooth bolti hai.
She hugged me several times.

Bro, you want to know anything more??" 🤪

She even thought that I love her when I ate karela made by her..
She made me J by telling abt some jairaj faiyraj guy.. 😆
She was trying to make my relations better with my parents.. though I trust on ramupapa blindly.. 😛 n hate nimmo momma.. both of dem blindly..
She even stood up n believed on my lawyer capabilities during khosla case.. n told her family that her friend will set all things right for all of us..
n last one.. though I know.. she is getting married to U.. but still I will be d one who will remain in her heart forever.. 😆 last one will be epic..
Edited by Teju_wkar - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Malika

Exactly they don't have anything to hide and honestly Sumo might have come straight on her stand or her feelings to Aditya had he been even slightly sensitive to her. But since day one he is taunting her and trying to play blame games with her that had made her go in a super defensive mode. Never did he even once give her the confidence that now she is his life partner and he just wants her to be sure that she is ready for this. He needed to tell her that for him her past doesn't matter until it doesn't effect their future. He is so impatient he wants everything ready-made. He doesn't understand that to make someone open about their past, it takes a lot of time and confidence in a relationship. If he is so mahaan he thinks he cant let two lovers separate why he doesnt go and find out more without playing these blame games. And if not, if he really has the courage to accept a girl who might have had feelings for someone else, then chuck everything off and start fresh. I think his behavior is similar to those men obsessed with a woman's intact vagina just that he is obsessed to a woman's intact heart...And honestly its worse 🤢 Its not that Sumo is meeting Shravan behind hsi back or spending time with Shravan and cheating on him. She just had one sided feelings for her school friend which is as common as being alive. I dont understand the need to make it so controversial.

MAin prob with all of them is .. they think..
Adi-Suman is marrying him becoz she loves him.. 😲
Suman- it's arrange marriage plaus Nirmala Aunty is der.. so she will handle everything.. (too much trust on nimmo aunty)
Shravan..- khush toh hain suman is shadi se.. so Suman cancer ka khushibahare chehare se mera peecha chute ek baar..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sadia.Ritu

I want him to tell,

"Sumo aur main bandh ghar mein poora din atke huye the.
Main Sumo ke saath 10 din tak hospital mein tha.
ICU mein puri raat main uske saath tha.
Woh mere trust ke liye railing pe chadh gayi thi.
Woh humesha mera image theek rakhne ke liye family walo se jhooth bolti hai.
She hugged me several times.

Bro, you want to know anything more??" 🤪

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Posted: 9 years ago
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shravan will gave khosla number to adi and khosla will show pics of shraman and told everything happened on that night
ADITYA :

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Copy-pasting my reply from another thread

While I do agree that the past is the past, & your partner has no right to probe further if you don't want to tell him. BUT there is a bit of difference in the situation between Suman/Shravan & Aditya.

1. Suman/Shravan's love for each other was not a thing of the past. Even if they never confessed, they are constantly in each other's sight & that pining & silent communication is obvious. Obviously, this would evoke any partner's curiousity. Aditya is no different. Had Shravan been out of sight & far away from Suman's life, I would completely blame Aditya for his insecurities. But he's right there & ShraMan's effect on each other is obvious. As such, he deserves the truth.

2. To add to that, Suman's obvious indifference & disrespect for him as a partner or towards the marriage celebrations does not help either. Let's look at this from Aditya's POV - she is clearly coming across as selfish & manipulative. Why? Because on one hand, she wants to get married (she did not say no for marriage) & on the other hand, she constantly keeps demanding for space in the littlest things & showing no interest in any of the functions. He is not wrong to want transparency & for her to speak the truth.

Having said all that, I feel that all 3 - Suman, Shravan & Aditya are in the wrong. Suman is in the wrong for hiding things & constantly wanting things to go her way without any compromise on her part like trying to give him a chance. Shravan is wrong for constantly provoking Aditya & poking in the wedding even after Aditya has made it obvious that he knows something is going on between ShraMan. Aditya is wrong for thinking that molestation & assault is justified for getting the truth out. And also for being so overposessive of Suman. All 3 of them are messed up individuals who need help IMO.

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