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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: _Payalj_

Dev badly needed a wake up call in the form of Ritwik. This pain will serve him well even after marriage. It will act as a permanent check Point for him to not to do anything that would make him lose Sonakshi again

Regarding Sonakshi's fault in this mess let me get a microscope. Maybe I will be able to see it then. 😆

Or should I go to 15th century with a time machine. In those archiac times everything used to be the females fault. 😆

Brand the jilted woman characterless and insensitive if she dares try to live again. Either she should commit suicide or sit by a lamp waiting for the man who ditched her. The man has the right to forget all the vows. Even in that case it is the woman's moral duty to fulfil all her promises 🤢

The only two people at fault here are the mad mother and the son who is refusing to man up. Hope this entire drama will help him emerge a stronger person.

I want Devakshi but with a strong Dev who has the capacity to walk with Sona with his head held high not the boy whose mother got him his favourite toy because he was howling for it.




@Bold - 👏👏 .I also want the same.

@Red - This comment deserves standing ovation 👏👏
Edited by VIMAL.M - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Dev's pain is creating so much heartache
But unlike Sonakshi, Dev never had to go through any pain when he realized his love for Sona he confessed and proclaimed his girl he did not have to chase for love as she was already in love with him.
Dev has taken Sona for granted he made it known to her his mother is important and she too made his mother an important figure .
When he broke the relation with Sona he was in control and could tell her anything again taking her for granted .
Now Sona has agreed with her parents for their happiness she agrees to marry Ritwik .
Dev now sees his love with someone else something he never expected he had thought Sona will still be there but now seeing her moving forward in her life jealousy pain and fear has gripped him
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Dev need to man up n grow.Instead of doing stalking,sulking n drinking.He need to sit n think.What he want in his life.If he wants Sona.What he has to do win her back.Self realization of Dev is imp.First he need to realize what he wants.Then convey to his mom.That he cannot live without Sona.So he will fight for her.

Seriously why CV's made Sona come to meet Dev when Tina called.She could have called his family members.But CV's want to make Sona feel sympathy towards Dev.I hate this kind of sympathy track which will lead to patch up.Shaheer is good actor.But I don't feel sympathy towards Dev.He himself created the mess n he need to clean it up.Should not wait that some one will come n clean.CV's should not show this.

CV's should keep this point in their mind.DevAkshi Patchup should not happen at the cost of compromising Sona's self respect.Also instead of trying to create sympathy for Dev.They need to make him grow as a man. Take his own decision on his own.Think what he done wrong n work towards rectifying it.Also Sona should not go back to Dev because Ishwari asking or be mahaan seeing Dev in bad state.So she make up her mind to go back to him n help him.I don't want these things to happen.
Edited by VIMAL.M - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@Payalji
There is absolutely nothing to add to your perfect post!. Especially lines in Bold .👏.we Knew that Easwari was going to be the bone of contention between both of them...that I got but the Crass depiction of Dev which makes it absolutely horrifying to root for him is what I am having problems with and also people claiming Sona broke her promises to wait for him..what do they expect get in the burning Pyre with him?...I thought that was long banned. If the CV'S do not pull up their socks and show Dev emerge it is going to be extremely difficult to root for him especially when we have a sorted Ritik on the other end. Some decisions are best made with the mind when the heart is ruthlessly trampled and in this case that is what Dev did and is not MAN enough to accept it


Originally posted by _Payalj_

Dev badly needed a wake up call in the form of Ritwik. This pain will serve him well even after marriage. It will act as a permanent check Point for him to not to do anything that would make him lose Sonakshi again
Regarding Sonakshi's fault in this mess let me get a microscope. Maybe I will be able to see it then. 😆

Or should I go to 15th century with a time machine. In those archiac times everything used to be the females fault. 😆

Brand the jilted woman characterless and insensitive if she dares try to live again. Either she should commit suicide or sit by a lamp waiting for the man who ditched her. The man has the right to forget all the vows. Even in that case it is the woman's moral duty to fulfil all her promises 🤢

The only two people at fault here are the mad mother and the son who is refusing to man up. Hope this entire drama will help him emerge a stronger person.

I want Devakshi but with a strong Dev who has the capacity to walk with Sona with his head held high not the boy whose mother got him his favourite toy because he was howling for it.
Edited by gemini54 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: AngelsFlyAlone




Phewww!!!!!!

Well first of all, the historical reference in your message is just🤣

But on a serious note, thank high heavens someone knows exactly what I mean. I am kinda scared to say something about my opinion on how much I am annoyed at this butchered character of Dev, but I think most of the forum is now pro-Devakshi and are ready to kill people who even say a word against Dev's ridiculous behaviour!



I agree with everything both of you said and i dont believe you will get any bashing for making this post.
The only thing i would say is - that is how cvs defined devs character (right from beginning). Jab sawal mere maa ka hota hai mujhe sahi galat samajh nahi aata... I would not expect dev to behave any differently than how he did and how he will behave u til the point shown in todays segment...

From that point onwards he needs to rise and take a small step forward by actually keeping the promise of not trying to meet sona.. After that everything will be right.. That would be the first selfless step he would take towarda sona...

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: VIMAL.M

Dev need to man up n grow.Instead of doing stalking,sulking n drinking.He need to sit n think.What he want in his life.If he wants Sona.What he has to do win her back.Self realization of Dev is imp.First he need to realize what he wants.Then convey to his mom.That he cannot live without Sona.So he will fight for her.

Seriously why CV's made Sona come to meet Dev when Tina called.She could have called his family members.But CV's want to make Sona feel sympathy towards Dev.I hate this kind of sympathy track which will lead to patch up.Shaheer is good actor.But I don't feel sympathy towards Dev.He himself created the mess n he need to clean it up.Should not wait that some one will come n clean.CV's should not show this.

CV's should keep this point in their mind.DevAkshi Patchup should not happen at the cost of compromising Sona's self respect.Also instead of trying to create sympathy for Dev.They need to make him grow as a man. Take his own decision on his own.Think what he done wrong n work towards rectifying it.Also Sona should not go back to Dev because Ishwari asking or be mahaan seeing Dev in bad state.So she make up her mind to go back to him n help him.I don't want these things to happen.



I think the purpose of that meeting is closure.. Which is much needed if dev has to stay back and if sona wants to move on..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: dlavanya



I think the purpose of that meeting is closure.. Which is much needed if dev has to stay back and if sona wants to move on..



You have a got a point.I did not see in that angle.Hope after this Dev stays away from Sona.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Even though I am for DevakShi, i dont feel anything for DEV. (Though i love Shaheer for playing this helpless indecisive phase beautifully)
Relationship cannot be build on sympathy , care or poor me /he feeling. It should be built on trust, love ,fighting and standing for each other. I cannot forgive and forget a person just because he is crying, sulking and drinking or suffering.
I would have been happy if he talks to her frankly and explains his position. Sona is the one who said that if you love somebody you would wait for him/her. Sona knows about his mother's position but even then she trusted DEV . Now he also shut the door. How and why should she hope anything from him with his god like mother.
He cannot convince his mother, he cannot openly take her as part of his life but he wants her and cannot see her with anybody, what is this?
Even i dont like the concept that marriage is a step towards moving on, but now Sona is not rusting her decision. She wants to make her family happy. she tries to follow this . lets see how she moves on.
But before that let DEV at least make an attempt to talk to her , leave alone convincing his mother. then i would believe him , not by his crying.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: kalviswes

I totally agree with you!! I have lost a lot of sympathy for Dev. You had the opportunity to tell your Mataji that you broke up with Sonakshi because of her stunt with the pills. I don't even blame Dev for choosing to break up but the manner of how it was done was simply unacceptable. Then to try to call her after that, like what were you thinking? Would she even want to speak to you after this crap that you pulled?

Now she wants to move on, because lets be honest, you have not given her any indication that you miss her or that you even love her still. For all Sona knows, you will agree to marry the person your Mata choose for you. Now you remember your love was love that should endure all times and you are agitated that she is trying to lead her life and not remain in the past as you and your Mata often want to?

I have to be honest, I don't expect to have a smile on my face every time I watch this show-but all this crying is upsetting me...there is only one nut job that needs to dealt with firmly and that is Mataji.

U r saying that he should directly told ishwari that he breakup with sonakshi just because of her...so that she feels she is responsible for son conditions and she should felt that she is bad mother and again in depression, takes sleeping pills and again dev feel he is responsible for her mother condition...gum phir kr baat wohi pahuch jayega... Don't u understand its not easy for dev to say truth to character like ishwari...he stuck between these two ladies yes dev have done wrong with her but I expect sonakshi will help her in this situation but she also doesn't want to understand his situation or reason of breakup...she just lost in her dream and thinking always her dream was break...it's show only that they maybe love each other but didn't have any belief or faith with each other

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