Why so much hatred towards our FL??

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Frankly, I din't feel that Sumo was wrong even today... she's so in her character, she has decided to move on and so she acted (as we all have already imagined) with Adi... she tried her best to keep Shravan away from all this mess of hers... she knew that Shravan has to move on and so din't want him to linger around her in any possible way... he wanting to be her wedding planner is the worst scenario...

The words which she said to Shravan weren't meant to hurt him but her selection of words went so wrong that it did hurt him... It often happens with us, we might want to express something positive but the emotions could get expressed in a negative sense. Its just incompetency of putting the right phrase across.

But I too felt that hurt when he said that no one wants her. I would immediately burst into tears if someone so dear like Shravan would say words like that to me. He's spitting venom. I din't feel this bad even when he abused her at the party last night. But now it seems that his words are such that they're just to inflict pain on her. He knows her insecurities too well and is playing them.

I really don't want a marriage track now... our ML is too venomous... I just want Sumo to run away to somewhere else (impossible)... where she can make some new good relationships.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Amulya , people fail to understand the character of suman Tiwari. She is human too & she loses cool at times, what's the big deal ? When her dearest friend called her MathlabI, Chaalbaaz, Actress , she was completely broken & at the same time her Nanu made her agree to marriage. What's wrong in this? What's wrong if she moves on? And I genuinely want to know who among us accept this teda Shravan? Who have such a big heart to take such cheap & worst taunts ?
Atleast , i'm not...

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Agree...but yes when sumo said you are not so important to me...I would see even sharvan was hurt...it seen more like they are in you hurt me, I will hurt you more mode , but end up hurting only themself..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: KostinsQueen

Amulya , people fail to understand the character of suman Tiwari. She is human too & she loses cool at times, what's the big deal ? When her dearest friend called her MathlabI, Chaalbaaz, Actress , she was completely broken & at the same time her Nanu made her agree to marriage. What's wrong in this? What's wrong if she moves on? And I genuinely want to know who among us accept this teda Shravan? Who have such a big heart to take such cheap & worst taunts ?

Atleast , i'm not...


I know even I wouldn't accept him but as even I'm a bit teda I too would spill venom and express all of my feelings... that I loved him more than anyone else but still wouldn't want to spend my whole life with such a person who would test trial my emotions and play my insecurities...

I think Sumo is way better than me as inspite of she being abused by everyone around her, she's seems to be still awake to all that's happning around her and isn't spilling any venom on anyone... but if its in real a person like her would feel like going crazy
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shravan is going to be admitted in Pagalkhana very soon.
Last night he was saying .. ke Nirmala Ahuja aur usska beta,,Sumo ko muzse chhin rahe hain
In the morning..he is saying ke Suman Tiwari bahot chalaq hain... muze dard dene ke liye Aditya se shaadi kar rahi hain..
he is unable to decide who is the main villain..
Aditya , Nirmala ...ya Sumo...

dumb -ass

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Why suman.always needs.to understand.shravan but if shravan dont do that its totally fine coz he is emotionally damaged..
Why is it so hard to understand both are wrong and.both has emotional baggage??
Atleast sumo was always open about her insecurities and her wants... In.childhood she made her stand clean on how theit friendship works and after growing up shr told him why she was like that and how much she is afraid of being alone and being left out whereas shravan was never vocal about his insecurities.. He never told her how much deep she hurt him during his childhood.. Sumo knows what she did to him was wrong and she hurt him but till date she dobt have an idea about the intensity of the hurt... Every single.time they fight he.will bring up homework,prom, and cycle ki tyre but.conveniently forgets that she used to cook all his favourite dishes as compensation...
Sumo has a tendency of taking shravan for granted.. She thinks she has all the rights on him nd no.matter.how.she behaves he needs to love her and be.witg her... She takes the kind of freedom with him tha we take from her parents.. We know no matter how we behave our parents will be ours and they will be there with us. Often we are ignorant to their feelings... Shravan is like that for her... When he threatens to leave her she gets disappointed..
Both expect too.much from each other and none stands up to the other's expectation.. Both of them equally fails in the other's eyes...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: spnfan

Why suman.always needs.to understand.shravan but if shravan dont do that its totally fine coz he is emotionally damaged..

Why is it so hard to understand both are wrong and.both has emotional baggage??
Atleast sumo was always open about her insecurities and her wants... In.childhood she made her stand clean on how theit friendship works and after growing up shr told him why she was like that and how much she is afraid of being alone and being left out whereas shravan was never vocal about his insecurities.. He never told her how much deep she hurt him during his childhood.. Sumo knows what she did to him was wrong and she hurt him but till date she dobt have an idea about the intensity of the hurt... Every single.time they fight he.will bring up homework,prom, and cycle ki tyre but.conveniently forgets that she used to cook all his favourite dishes as compensation...
Sumo has a tendency of taking shravan for granted.. She thinks she has all the rights on him nd no.matter.how.she behaves he needs to love her and be.witg her... She takes the kind of freedom with him tha we take from her parents.. We know no matter how we behave our parents will be ours and they will be there with us. Often we are ignorant to their feelings... Shravan is like that for her... When he threatens to leave her she gets disappointed..
Both expect too.much from each other and none stands up to the other's expectation.. Both of them equally fails in the other's eyes...


WOW!!! reading this felt like you snatched my words about their relationship...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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In d show ppl say dat shraman knw each othr so well n hv been bff's since so many yrs ... bt i guess dey knew each othr well only b4 lambu went to london n since last 10 yrs dey hv nt been in contact so hw will dey knw each othr well enough as dey used 2...dey hv compatibility issue , dey gotta understand each othr well which dey claim to knw bt actually dnt

B/w wen u luv someone since ages, can u talk so cruelly to him / her ????? Wud u nt try 2 understand d person whom u claim 2 knw so well n luv so much/ knw by their expressns or behaviour dat smth is nt rt n think y r dey behavng in such a way/ try 2 talk 2 dem abt d problem n cum wid a solutn/ help ?


bt here dey both r nt doing dat n r jst hurtng each othr despite claimng 2 b best frnds n luv each othr since forevr.😡



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Posted: 9 years ago
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Amulya, beautiful post. Though since yesterday I was feeling that it would be wrong on Sumo's part to hide the truth from Adi but the way the scene turned out, her not speaking the truth made so much sense. That man literally tried to bulldoze her and the way he so blatantly hauled taunts at her, no wonder Sumo could not utter a word. That guy doesnt have it in him to understand Sumo's emotions. And thus she thought keeping mum about her un-reciprocated feelings was the best idea for this already loveless marriage.

As for her words to Shra, that doesnt count for even he is no less. So dono sulta lenge aapas mein...hum kyun tension le. Dono ek jaise hi hain and as they say, birds of the same feather, flock together 😉 😆
Edited by Malika - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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shravan as a character is not boyfriend nor husband material... he is too emotionally volatile and sensitive.. suman is really not the one for him... he needs someone who is calm lol to put up with his drama... i get that suman hurt him, but seems today he got so easily rattled... its very irritating to watch him spew nonsense to suman, but whatever she says he cant handle it... so why does he spew venom on her... i just find him to be a hypocrite... he cant digest her words but continues to spew nonsense at her 🤢 suman is more frustrating to watch when she is mute.. she should taunt him right back that adi wants her and is getting married to her unlike some who only know how to talk and taunt at least adi knows how to act 😆
Edited by jaanetu - 9 years ago

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