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Amulya , I am glad to see at least one post supporting FL . To be honest I never expect any post empathizing with FL in IF as majority of serial viewers in IF can understand and empathize with male lead only .
OT , I still don't understand how Shravan is better than Suman , how can people justify Shravan action while they blindly criticize Suman .
Both Suman and Shravan's past was not pleasant or normal . Suman grown up without the presence of her parents and Shravan raised by single parent.
And in Suman's case we all know that how selfish is her relatives , that is the reason she prefer to do everything independently . Though the over use of the word self respect was annoying I can't blame her as almost all independent woman is conscious of their respect plus she started using the word frequently after Ramnath bargained with the cheque.
Secondly can we blame Suman for accepting Aditya's help . I accept the fact that Shravan tried to help her in PCT matter , but she is very well aware that it is Ramnath's plan to give the old PCT to Suman and how can she accept it when she is aware of Ramnath's intention . Here she is helpless , she can't reveal the reason she rejected Shravan's help. Adithya presented it in such a way which boost up her confidence rather than humiliating her respect. Aditya understood Suman more than Shravan , another self reliant woman's presence in his life must be the reason.
Thirdly , How can we criticize Suman for accepting Aditya's marriage proposal .We all know the situation in which she accepted the proposal . Nanu was like you accept it otherwise I will die . And she don't have a single valid reason to deny the proposal . She can't say that she is in love with Shravan , as she doesn't have any clarity on Shravan's feeling for her . most importantly his father is against their relationship . I am sure Shravan would have agreed to marry other girl if Ramnath insist him to do so in deathbed . I still remember his dialogue to Ramnath that if You are not happy with my relationship with Suman , I will not move ahead as you are more important for me.
If people are criticizing her for the words she used , neither Suman nor Shravan is innocent here. The words he used in the presence of PCT workers during the face off , and the way he manhandled Suman during the party night and last night's dialogue was not unadulterated . And yaar Shravan's statement is contradicting , he is annoyed when Suman refuse his help and the same Shravan says that she has used him for selfish reason . If Shravan judges her based on young matlabi Suman , Suman judges him based on his recent behavior.
If I was asked to choose between a man who put women in 4 wrong categories and a man who admires me for my perspective on life, I would definitely select the latter .
OT , I still don't understand how Shravan is better than Suman , how can people justify Shravan action while they blindly criticize Suman .
Both Suman and Shravan's past was not pleasant or normal . Suman grown up without the presence of her parents and Shravan raised by single parent.
And in Suman's case we all know that how selfish is her relatives , that is the reason she prefer to do everything independently . Though the over use of the word self respect was annoying I can't blame her as almost all independent woman is conscious of their respect plus she started using the word frequently after Ramnath bargained with the cheque.
Secondly can we blame Suman for accepting Aditya's help . I accept the fact that Shravan tried to help her in PCT matter , but she is very well aware that it is Ramnath's plan to give the old PCT to Suman and how can she accept it when she is aware of Ramnath's intention . Here she is helpless , she can't reveal the reason she rejected Shravan's help. Adithya presented it in such a way which boost up her confidence rather than humiliating her respect. Aditya understood Suman more than Shravan , another self reliant woman's presence in his life must be the reason.
Thirdly , How can we criticize Suman for accepting Aditya's marriage proposal .We all know the situation in which she accepted the proposal . Nanu was like you accept it otherwise I will die . And she don't have a single valid reason to deny the proposal . She can't say that she is in love with Shravan , as she doesn't have any clarity on Shravan's feeling for her . most importantly his father is against their relationship . I am sure Shravan would have agreed to marry other girl if Ramnath insist him to do so in deathbed . I still remember his dialogue to Ramnath that if You are not happy with my relationship with Suman , I will not move ahead as you are more important for me.
If people are criticizing her for the words she used , neither Suman nor Shravan is innocent here. The words he used in the presence of PCT workers during the face off , and the way he manhandled Suman during the party night and last night's dialogue was not unadulterated . And yaar Shravan's statement is contradicting , he is annoyed when Suman refuse his help and the same Shravan says that she has used him for selfish reason . If Shravan judges her based on young matlabi Suman , Suman judges him based on his recent behavior.
If I was asked to choose between a man who put women in 4 wrong categories and a man who admires me for my perspective on life, I would definitely select the latter .
Anupamaa
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