surrogacy :- target on SRK/AAMIR - Page 10

Originally posted by: Love_Katty_24-7

I prefer adoption rather than surrogacy. So many woman are forced into this, there are many huge rackets involving this. In some, the woman are forced to have sex with the father. It is horrible, very horrible. So I understand the rules. Strict action is a very welcome action IMO, I don't approve total ban but strict, very strict rules and regulations is a must. As lets not forget third world countries always exploit things which involves emotion. Plus as other pointed out, if child is abnormal, it basically gets abandoned. Aside, Sushma Swarag is an idiot, so lets ignore her, concentrate on the more important part of this rule, stopping exploitation of poor woman.

Originally posted by: .Pandora.

I am not sure how it works in India ------ but adopting isn't easy nor it is a cake walk ----- there are too many rules, it takes years plus it can be very financially draining too ---- adoption can be the best solution ---- though wish the rules when it comes to adoption can be easier so many couples can go for it ---!!!!

Originally posted by: ZanduBaaM

why dnt those want surrogacy even when they have 2 children convince their any relative for this ? as some one quoted in this thread some women willingly became surrogacy mother 😉

Originally posted by: blue-ice

One of my husband's cousin has adopted two kids from India...and it took almost two years and innumerable amount of paper work before it was finalized...there were letters of recommendations, financial statements and what not...which is all good...because they are making sure that the child is being adopted for genuine reasons and will not be used as a slave which shamefully some families have done...adopted a child and brought them over to USA and used them as servants🤢...so what was the solution...ban adoption or tighten the rules...people are forgetting that adopting a child can also be done for different reasons and not because they genuinely want a kid...there are risks everywhere...the people who want to break the laws will do it anyways...like they do...so why ban surrogacy...why not make the laws more strict...more scrutiny be done...a permission to be required before surrogacy is initiated...a background check of the family...a constant vigil on the condition of the mother ...and finally if anyone defaults...criminal charges for them...jail time...there is a way to do everything...just taking the easy way out to BAN just because u can't control it is wrong.

Originally posted by: .Pandora.

I am not sure how it works in India ------ but adopting isn't easy nor it is a cake walk ----- there are too many rules, it takes years plus it can be very financially draining too ---- adoption can be the best solution ---- though wish the rules when it comes to adoption can be easier so many couples can go for it ---!!!!

Originally posted by: blue-ice

what if no one is ready to surrogate for them...what if they don't have a close relative...then what?? Why are u assuming that every one has that one fairy Godmother who will do anything for them.

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they why they want child when have already 2 child ? why put other lives in danger ? when you have care for your wife pain but you want to give same pain to other becasue you have MONEY ...

Originally posted by: .Pandora.

I am interested in adoption --- so remember reading all the requirements ----- It usually costs couple of grands to adopt --- if I remember correctly around 20,000 usd or more as fees per kid---? did i get it right--- ? For surrogacy in india they should have similar guidelines as adoption ---- background check, housing visits, availability of funding etc ---- banning isn't a solution at all ---- It will only encourage black market of surrogacy & exploitation which gov wants to stop ---- but then what more to expect from Bjp --- they need to sort out their priorities ---- implementing appropriate rules & regulations is the only solution than ouright banning anything which goes against ones choice --!!!!

Originally posted by: ZanduBaaM

they why they want child when have already 2 child ? why put other lives in danger ? when you have care for your wife pain but you want to give same pain to other becasue you have MONEY ...

Originally posted by: wat_up

I only read the article partyially but where it said they dont want surrogates and only close people thats silly..nt everyone can get relatives to carry a baby