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Ok so it is common on Indian TV to see a women who has been misunderstood some how. What creates this misunderstanding? Usually the villians or some one trying to break up the couple for their own reasons but never the less it is most commonly the women.
And from all the desi soaps I have seen.. the women's pain and distress is never treated with the same urgency and sensitivity as a man's in reel life..It's usually trivialized, marginalized ,glossed over in a jiffy...she's either made into a martyr or madonna , weeping copious amounts of tears in silence ,and still expected to mop it up and whip up some tasty dishes all the while looking serenely beautiful!
Meanwhile the man is usually excused as being so damaged, destroyed,in intense pain , in need of unconditional love and endless healing ! Besides he gets to do all the fun things too: throwing stuff around,kicking things down, and tasting/ eating all the food prepared especially for him!
It is the same case scenario here? I understand the case for Harman he feels he is being consipired against. But the truth of the matter is that Soumeya too was conspired against. She was never told she was a kinner. Again he has the right to get angry and she doesnt.. Because she is ashamed of who she is.. She quietly takes his anger and thinks is justified. Why doesnt she stand up for herself? And say you know why I tried to kill myself? Because I was lied to my whole life about my idenity? You have only been lied to for a few days?
AGAIN.. suicide is not the best way to show character strength
Editing still in progress...
Many things wrong with this show.. will get back later
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