Does Omkara really love Riddhima?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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So we know that Shivaay respects Tia and is marrying her to secure a business deal.
We also know that Rudra is a Casanova, whose undying interest in Romi is purely sexual.

But what about Omkara?

Om has been in a committed relationship with Riddhima for either two or three years (as mentioned by Shivaay). He hasn't given any thought to marriage, and even though they are seen to be going on regular dates, neither Om nor Riddhima seem to exude any affection or physical attraction towards each other. There is no longing or desire to see each other. They don't miss each other, which is understandable for Riddhima since she has an ulterior motive for being with Om and isn't completely invested in the relationship anyway. However, Om seems to be a passionate man, who completely believes in love, but we never see him worry, long for or even think about Riddhima.

Isn't that strange?

Clearly, Om respects Riddhima. He admires her immensely and seems to be in awe of what he perceives, to be her passion for social service. He appears content and at ease in her presence, but does all of this add up to love?

At Riddhima's slightest white lie, his faith in her was shaken. We know that Om is a man of integrity and honesty, but he did not for a moment want to consider her side of the story.

He was very quick to walk away from her. Yes, she lied to him, but she could have been in some sort of trouble (we as audiences know that she wasn't, but he didn't), and he simply didn't care.

Does he really love her, or is it just admiration?

Because when we truly love someone, we look for excuses to forgive them and the way I saw it, Om walked away from her without even looking back.




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Posted: 9 years ago
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He does. He does love her. But more than love. its respect that he has for her. Immense respect.
Respect for all the things she had been doing for the people.
Respect that she thinks about the people and their needs.

And regarding worrying about her, then there hasn't been such a circumstance where he had to worry about her..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I dont thonk he love her.he is fond of her.till now om has not said i love you word to ridhima even once.he like her but love seems very far in their relationship. i guess om himself is nt aware of love.he accepted ridz as gf may be he confused his admiration and respect for her as love.
He is nt passionate abt her.more than gf bf they look like friends.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I don't think he longs for her, but he loves her like a friend that's why meets her talks to her, respects her passion for social work.
I don't think he is crazy about her and thinks about her all the time.

Honesty seems very important for him, so he was hurt... U can't be hurt if u don't love that person.

But I don't think so he knows what crazy in love means, I mean he is yet to experience it, for now his love towards Ridhhima is kind of friendly love
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: AngelicTomboy

He does. He does love her. But more than love. its respect that he has for her. Immense respect.

Respect for all the things she had been doing for the people.
Respect that she thinks about the people and their needs.

And regarding worrying about her, then there hasn't been such a circumstance where he had to worry about her..


Do you really think so?

i'd like to think that he loves her, but I feel like he is more in love with the idea of being in love rather than actually loving her.

Yes, there haven't been situations where he might need to worry about her, but when you love someone, you often worry about them, their safety for no reason.

Riddhima is a social activist, who could easily be caught up in some kind of conflict. Has Om ever asked her whether she is safe? Is she doing okay?

I don't think he loves her. He is content in his relationship with her, but I don't believe that he feels that passionate, intense, unconditional love for her.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: loveispure

I dont thonk he love her.he is fond of her.till now om has not said i love you word to ridhima even once.he like her but love seems very far in their relationship. i guess om himself is nt aware of love.he accepted ridz as gf may be he confused his admiration and respect for her as love.

He is nt passionate abt her.more than gf bf they look like friends.


I agree. They appear to be more like close friends.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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In my opinion om is not aware the fact of true love.. he loves ridhimma like he loves his family. he respects her more. may her social services and activities earn his respect more. and still he didn't much aware of the feel of love. their convo are seem like 2 friends only.. he consider her as his best friend . I wonder how they been in a relationship. . anyways my point is that om didn't feel that real love .. he is not aware of that feelings. he may think that he loves her. but he didn't. . but he care her respect her and he trust her . and he felt like his trust was broken and he didn't listen her.. I feel they are friends more than lovers..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Om admires ridhima for her work.He respects her for she does,for him she is pure and true.Om likes her and adores her.But he thinks that his love and adoration is love.They are more of friends less of lovers.Om doesn't have some passionate feelings for Ridhima.He was hurt because of ridhima's minor lie because he considers her more of his friend than a lover.He hasn't committed to her because he still feels he doesn't have such passionate feelings for her but he might develop it in future.Om couldn't take Ridhima's minor lie,all hell will break loose when he will come to know about Ishana
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: MFRanjini

I don't think he longs for her, but he loves her like a friend that's why meets her talks to her, respects her passion for social work.

I don't think he is crazy about her and thinks about her all the time.

Honesty seems very important for him, so he was hurt... U can't be hurt if u don't love that person.


True. But I'd be very hurt if one of my closest friends lied to me.

I think you are right. He loves her like a best friend, so yes, there is an element of love, but it is not that earth shattering, desperate love that one would feel for their soulmate.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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maybe he loves, or admires or respects or whatever is his positive feeling towards her was overpowered by his hatred towards lies...

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