The Mind of A Woman...

So much has been said about the complexities hidden in the depths of the unfathomable mind of the mysterious woman…a movie, so many jokes, so many frustrated remarks, so many surrendering defeats…all dedicated to understanding what women want. Women themselves betray their kind attributing the worst ever convolutions to the female psyche. But our dear Doctor seems to have it all down to pat! His only trouble seems to be to follow his own advice to others.

Women maybe complicated but once you figure them out, in Minnie's cute little words, they are all the same. It makes me wonder why, then, does our super perceptive Doctor not understand the uniformity of the intricacies of a woman's mind? And if he does, why does he choose not to exploit his astute perceptions.

I will not betray my fellow mates by divulging all the secrets hidden in the profundity of our enigmatic minds, but since one has been revealed, I will proceed to elucidate that. All women love attention. Of any kind. Positive or negative. We revel in it, we take pleasure out of it and we miss it when it is gone. We may not even appreciate the source of the said attention, but we still wonder why we have suddenly been deprived of it.

So while Armaan's advice to Atul to ignore Anjali has borne fruition, one wonders why he himself finds it impossible to ignore Ridhima. Sure, the nature of his attention has changed drastically, but somewhere Ridhima knows and is complacent in the knowledge that one way or another Armaan targets only her, be it for affection or jokes, or anger.

It is time Armaan shows Ridhima what his relentless concentration on getting a reaction from her means to her. It is time for Armaan to awaken Ridhima to the cruel possibility of a complete absence from her life. It is time for Armaan to obliterate completely, the name Ridhima and the person it belongs to, from his radar. It is time for Ridhima to pine for Armaan, to need his love, to crave his anger, to lust for his pranks... to ask for his attention.

wow ! really well put together !.. Im speechless ! 😊

I agree!!! And I thought that was what would happen after that episode in the dressing room. But for some reason the very next episode armaan was back to his normal self, the only thing different was the kind of attention he bestowed upon riddhima. He completely forgot about his argument with her in the dressing room, and instead his biggest focus in life for the previous week was to upset her and get her into trouble. How if I may ask does that show that he no longer has "Riddhima naam ki tension" in his life? If anything that's all he worries about, sometimes because he wants her to confess her love, other times because he wants to irritate her. It is so juvenile how he can't get offended, or maybe he just doesn't care? It's either that he is a highly patient man, or one with no self respect.

Gr8 post aarti di 👏 .....and i agree Armaan shud giv Riddhima the cold shoulder only then will she realise his true worth.....

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I always had that feeling that Ridhima is too smug in the knowledge that she is the center of Armaan's attention and getting too comfortable and taking it for granted. That complacency like you so aptly put it also might have come in the way of her realizing the true nature of what she has and how much Armaan means to her.

I have also been intrigued as to why Armaan has given her all that attention and support so unconditionally when he claims to know the ways of women and knows not to give too much bhaav. Is it that love blinded him and despite himself he is drawn to her and does things for her or is it that he is being very sincere and giving his all to the relation in the hope of reaching Ridhima?

I agree high time for him to step back and let Ridhima feel what it would be like to not have Armaan in her life, to crave for him and pine for him and work hard to get back his affections for you only value what you work hard to gain. People rarely recognize the value of things when they get them easily. And at times only when you lose something you realize what you had to begin with.

I agree..and also have wondered why Armaan has given Ridz all that attention...I know he loves her but maybe right now it was better for them to stay away from each other.....I agree with everything you said...great post! 😃 👏 👏

"its easier said then done"
i think is wat armaan is goin through at the moment
armaan will find impossible 2 ignore her but i think if he does it will hav gr8 results!

Originally posted by: sweet_pp

wow ! really well put together !.. Im speechless ! 😊

thank you....

Fantastic once again, Aarti! 👏 👏 👏

I've wondered too....Armaan seems to have it all figured out, and he's quick to dish out advice to Atul as well...but when it comes to Ridz, everything seems to go for a toss. I'll give him enough leeway in that he is dealing with a supremely frustrating female 😆 😆...I guess, it's easier said than done, right? We are always quick to dish out advice but when it comes to our own selves, we might find it harder to follow the same.

btw, I just LOVED the third para especially!! It's so true!! Women do love attention...in every form 😆 😆

WOW so well written 😊
yes its high time R realized the value of A and pined for him just like he did for her umpteen times