IKRS Monday 1st August 2016 ep 319 My Take ~Reject! but still a gentleman
Emotional pain followed by rejection in love can cripple a man. Warp his being into a mould of unpleasing utter negativity which may start a back lash of inflicting pain upon himself or onto others around him. Blessed is the man who matures through his pain , steps back, evaluates the folly of his ways and seeks to redeem his tarnished image. The episode for me is a plus point for Viplav in terms of making a positive move to make amends for his misdeeds. The episode also shows in spiritual terms that the gods only give Viplav a mere mortal as much pain as he can bear . As long as he shows remorse with a contrite heart , despite being surrounded by much hurt, the gods bestow upon him the straight and narrow path where he restores his moral standing not just before others but in his own eyes too.
More of coming clean with her rather than just an emotional slinging match between Viplav and Dhani! He puts his foot in his mouth by the question not even in his wildest dreams could he imagine she could remarry? He is being honest by telling her straight how he feels about her, without realizing but he did just that with Kamini too! remarried! just as Dhani is about to do. Dhani is in for a shock, she thinks he understands its not for love, but so their child could have a father figure besides that's what he bade her to do! go ahead marry Parshiya..unfortunately in a most contrived manner this business of Viplav going deeper into this issue of when and how she got that impression? Is boldly and visibly shut by Viplav as he forces his hand on Dhani's mouth to protect CV's prompted exposure of Kamini. Viplav tries yet again to pull down the partition wall between the two by reminding Dhani he dreamt only of starting afresh with her and Vidha. But her refusal to answer his questions dashed his dreams.. As a hurt father he does cry out..she took away from him the right of being called Vidha's father. His hurt he manifests by grabbing her green bangle clad wrist and snapping the glass bangle on her skin! It is unintentional but ominous for the viewer .. Will Dhani wed Parshiya ? For Viplav his dream is about the three of them uniting.. It appears highly unlikely still.. One last question from her that will set him free of her.. Did she ever love him? Love him truly? His desperation for her yes! contrasts against her flippancy! as she brushes his cry for survival as yet another of mad moves. Fine! realizes Viplav she loves him not! Not truly enough to stop herself from marrying him.Things are now beyond repair. Best to do the honourable thing, concludes Viplav, and tells Dhani its over from his side now.. And that he will not pose a hindrance to what she wants to do marry Parshiya... Viplav invokes sympathy as a character , he could have created a technical hitch in Dhani's marriage! he could have defamed both families here and now before all by kicking up a fuss he is Dhani's husband alive and very much still married to dhani ... But Viplav rises in true love as he chooses the path of coming to terms with his mistakes. Keeping his Vidha's security and thus in turn Dhani happiness in marrying Parshiya before him. For to me it..seems.. The recent incidents ,his kidnapping ,being kept in drugged captivity by heaven alone knows who? Betrayal by his family and now this rejection by Dhani, makes Viplav see the larger picture in life.. His life!! The time now is for Viplav to look for peace.. Inner peace.. and thanks be to gods who give him emotional pain to raise himself to be more than he can be.In the door way on his way out of Dhani's house, he brushes past Dulari , he still shows reverence towards her.
Dhani too is devastated how quickly the end came.. but is it really the end of her Ishq for him? for the minute she needs support that her mother provides.
But Dulari is struck by fear , has he manipulated Dhani, pressurizing her out of marrying Parshiya? how she misjudges Viplav.. only Dhani can shed more light on what went on between them. Dhani does , hugs her mother and prepares her of what might happen.. the truth is she loves Viplav! but the reality is for Vidha's sake she will marry Parshiya.. but the seed of doubt whether Dhani weds Parshiya? is sown in her mother's heart..
Viplav walks out of her life with dignity, but nevertheless hurt emotionally..but the gods still afford him another moment where he can see for himself the positive reforms that take place within him. Fancy having to deal with the very man his beloved Dhani is about to marry. Parshiya sees him and is taken aback! But Viplav needs spiritual peace and finds a place outside a local shrine..this is a welcoming sight included in the episode where CV's celebrate the fact that for Viplav the presence of a higher deity is not just restricted to any one faith but is universal! The holy Presence gives Viplav the strength to bring out the goodness in him.Upon seeing Parshiya he calls him, who would rather ignore him but then his mother tells him to attend to Viplav as he may be here to trouble shoot. Parishya tells his mother no issue !as he must have gone to see Dhani ,and she must have assured him that she is marrying Parshiya with her own will without coercion.. such an irony , as yes Parshiya has complete faith in Dhani ,but he chooses to ignore the truth. One, that she loves viplav and not him . Two, yes Dhani is being coerced!. But for now he keeps up appearances as he wants his marriage to go smoothly. Thus Parshiya greets Viplav rather coldly at first , so the gods can see how far ahead has Viplav changed into a stronger and better person. But Viplav stops Parshiya from walking away , and is all set to score a moral victory to soothe his broken heart. In all earnestness he tells Parshiya he comes here to wish him all the very best for his marriage , he is sure Dhani will keep him very happy and Parshiya too assures him he will keep his ex wife and daughter very happy too.. its very civil and courteous between the two knights as the focus is to give happiness to the fair lady Dhani! Viplav empowers Parshiya ,tells him he came here to thank him for setting him free of the murder due to his good deed he is set free. Parshiya too assures Viplav he did it because he knew that Viplav never attacked him, besides.. how could he let his dolly.. erhh Vidha s papa rot in jail for something he didn't do! Viplav's wounds receive healing from Parshiya s acknowledgement that Viplav is in fact Vidha's father.. so Dhani didn't tell Vidha, but she has told Parshiya the truth about his relationship with his daughter! Viplav feels healing within himself..the gods have not abandoned him..in fact the gods reward him even more as they make it possible for Viplav to attend the wedding by using Viplav's own blood his flower fairy! his proof of his everlasting love for Dhani..their Vidha begs him to stay for her mother wedding!! All those against Viplav from attending Dhani's wedding , Kamini, Dulari ,Parshiya, Pratibha!fall to Viplav's side as the gods and his Vidha are on his side! because Viplav comes to the ghetto in peace and not to make war! Viplav agrees although he has some pending business to attend to! he will attend Vidha's mamma's wedding to make her happy.. Pratibha and Parshiya have to give in to a daughters need to share her joy with her father!
But Viplav also accepts reality that his Dhani will marry Parshiya.He watches his Dhani's would be groom go into her house to capture their milestone moments by a photographer. The photography scene is a comic scene where the couple are coerced to pose together in photographs.. the shots are contrived just like their relationship! a marriage of convenience! After the photographer leaves Parshiya tells Dhani, vakeel is around and Vidha wants him to stay and that he too has no objection. Dhani tells him its fine he can stay! Parshiya had hoped that Dhani herself would command Viplav to leave! but he finds out nothing of the sort happens..
A father has his treasured moments with his daughter.. no photography is needed the moments are captured in their hearts. Viplav has his daughter on his knee tells her, to him she is the prettiest belle in the whole wedding!! his sugar plum fairy brings him laddos to celebrate her maa's wedding and viplav feeds her the ladoo first!he knows she is his champion ladoo eater!
Excited Vidha once again has a giddy spell passes out! Dulari catches her from falling on the ground.. instead of calling for an ambulance! she tells Vidha, after her mums wedding they'll get her over to the doctors.. for Dulari the priority is to get Dhani married off first! Dhani will wed Parshiya! Dulari is hell bent!
The grooms haldi ritual begins after which the groom and bride both cannot leave the house before marriage.. if at all they do, it is seen as inauspicious...well as fate has it the strong arm of the law gets Parshiya ! the charge is fraud! After seven years it surfaces up today! the police want him for questioning..probably Kamini's doing .. mission is to get Viplav blamed.. he does get blamed by Pratibha! and Parshiya friends try to manipulate Dhani again against Viplav. Only this time Dhani shuts them up! she believed them last time !and wrongly blamed Viplav ..but not this time she knows Viplav is not into low level attacks! Well celebrations the scales finally drop off Dhani's eyes!.. the colour of her Ishq is Viplav! although she rather not ask for Viplav's legal aid.. rather manage on her own..
Once again Viplav sits outside the shrine to offer thanks for gods wisdom.. Vidha turns up tearful.. yet again Viplav is afforded another opportunity to prove his goodness..vidha tells him her mum won't be getting married now.. the police have arrested her babba! Vidha asks Viplav for that which her mother is unable to do.. monster uncle get her babba released.. for Viplav the time has come to repay Parshiya's favour.. plus use his acquired legal skills.. he promises Vidha he will get her babba released but she is to tell no one till he doesn't bring her babaa home! Viplav will probably get Parshiya out on bail! so the man can return and marry Dhani! all this Viplav will do to prove his point that he is not the perennial demon but the knight of virtue!
This episode made me smile.. Viplav to me emerges us a better man after being injured badly in the war. His hide has thickened can take any blows now for he has found out that within him a large part of godliness resides.. he can see his mistakes, have the grace to support loved ones in their efforts to move on. For true Ishq is to smile alongside the much loved one who smiles too..
the precap: is a bit of a shock to the system.. Dhani confesses she loves him! well this is Dhani being a rebel! Wonder where she got that from.. viva! Viplav's staid, dignified revolution of Ishq! hamlet53 2.8. 16
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