Guys & Girls= Friends 4 ever or =?

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Normally I would never come across this section on India-Forums because, I don't really have anything to talk about but today I do. MY question to all of you is WHY can't a guy and girl be JUST FRIENDS? Because some people in my class are really immature, I became friends with this boy in my class and he started to hang out with my friends and me. Then his other guy friends beat him up, because he walked with us. Is this fair?
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Posted: 18 years ago
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oh!! just ignore those who don't believe in guys and girls being just friends.. that's so immature and senseless. majority if not almost all of my close friends are guys in real life.
only here, i have met few amazing gals i can make real friends with.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: .::ANiSHAXx

Normally I would never come across this section on India-Forums because, I don't really have anything to talk about but today I do. MY question to all of you is WHY can't a guy and girl be JUST FRIENDS?---Whats this just friends???😳😳

Because some people in my class are really immature, I became friends with this boy in my class and he started to hang out with my friends and me. Then his other guy friends beat him up, because he walked with us. Is this fair?

lol Beat him cos he walked with u people!!! 😳no way.😳..may be some other reason

Girls and boys can be good friends....😳Nothing wrong in it.😊....but all relationship have some limitations.😊

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Posted: 18 years ago
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guys and gals can't be friends 😲 , oooh lal la which lala land are we in 🤪 . Not in these times atleast. And i doubt if anyone thinks that way. Seriously !!! Long time earlier we used to defend ourselves saying its not in our culure ...., our girls can't be with guys..... etc..

Chod aaye hum woh galiyan, No ones bothered today. Today girls have more guy friends and vice versa...

actually today we are more with the thought that girl and girl and boy and boy can't be friends. 😉 😆
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: rockstallion

guys and gals can't be friends 😲 , oooh lal la which lala land are we in 🤪 . Not in these times atleast. And i doubt if anyone thinks that way. Seriously !!! Long time earlier we used to defend ourselves saying its not in our culure ...., our girls can't be with guys..... etc..

Chod aaye hum woh galiyan, No ones bothered today. Today girls have more guy friends and vice versa...

actually today we are more with the thought that girl and girl and boy and boy can't be friends. 😉 😆



Agree, especially part in bold!😆😆😆

Ps. did you intend the pun in the last sentence or is my imagination running wild?😉😆😆
Edited by persistence - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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That is just backwards thought half the time, that the opposite sex can not be friends with one another has something always has to be 'going on'.

Simply not true yaar in todays world, 😊

They can be good friends, and so say if a girl talks to a guy and gets on with him well, does that mean she has 'other feelings for him', if this was the case then that would mean every guy she talks to she has feelings for and vice versa 😛 😉

But i don't get, he beat his friend up just 4 walking with u guys...I am sorry must be more to it, come on why would some1 beat some1 up just for walking with another group of people...no matter how backwards one thought can be that girl n guy cant b friends, just 4 walking with them they cant beat some one 😳
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Its inevitable for this friendship to lead to sex.. this is the issue (ok not really an issue) these so called flag-bearers of culture are trying to tackle...so its more acceptable in modern western culture.....

its more like a mix of 1 TBSP of culture, 1 Liter of jealousy, mixes with another gallon of jealousy...

Edited by qwertyesque - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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no dats not fair!because luk, that guy can hang out wid anyone he wants!his friends cant choose for him. first of all,they are not his friends because if they were then they wouldnt beat him up!just tell him to do watever he wants because other people besides his parents cant choose wat he can do or not to.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Before I say my opinion, I want to let you guys know that I don't want to be offensive. So, sarry in advanced!


Okay, so I think that guys and girls can just be friends. There is nothing wrong with it at all! I have also noticed, that especially in Indian society, boys who talk to girls or hang out with them mean that they like them. That is not true. In fact, that is very old thinking, and in my opinion, wrong. I mean, I have some friends that are girls, and if some indian sees me talking to them, they look at me weird. But I don't really care... there is nothing wrong with it...
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: qwertyesque

Its inevitable for this friendship to lead to sex.. this is the issue (ok not really an issue) these so called flag-bearers of culture are trying to tackle...so its more acceptable in modern western culture.....

its more like a mix of 1 TBSP of culture, 1 Liter of jealousy, mixes with another gallon of jealousy...

Some times you sound like a Ekta kapoor daily serial script writer....in which....there all the probabilities of people sleeping with each other..😆

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