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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yesterday, Ishwari drew a line for Sonakshi to stand behind. It was curt and to the point.

"You are here to watch over my health and wellbeing. You preside over what I eat and drink. My good health now may all be due to your advice. But my children do not need your help. They are fine, and they can eat whatever they want. They have always eaten what I made for them happily, so don't interfere in their matters."

Sona saw the gravity of the statement. Being in the know, she had freely given health advice to all, at her home and at Dev's, where she was made to feel she was a part of. But she had crossed a line. She just realized that at that point. She had interfered in matters of Ishwari's house and annoyed Dev's mother.

Radha Rani does it all the time, and gets away with it. Because she is the Bhabhi. Sona has gotten a little carried away by her newfound love with Dev, and thought she could take liberties with his mother as well. Your mum is like my mum too.

But Ishwari is having her own struggle for the spot on the main pedestal in Dev's life.

She fails to see that Dev can have more than one pedestal in his life.

Sonakshi was right to bring up talking to their families about their relationship. It's time. Sonakshi does not like keeping it a secret from her parents, though her Dada and Elena already know and approve. I agree that telling your parents about a relationship is akin to marriage preparations, which may not be what Dev wants at the moment, with Neha's marriage just done.

But he does not see, that all Ishwari wants is to know. She believes she is beside Dev in all matters he faces.

"I can't go to work with you everyday, son. But by helping to keep your things tidy and proper, I feel I am helping you somewhat, standing beside you..."

I can see both POVs. Now they all need to meet halfway.

I love how Sona and Dev disagreed and stood by their convictions. Each believes differently but the sky didn't fall on them. Sona respected Dev's opinion, and the right to have it, and also didn't manipulate him into changing his mind. Dev will listen to opinions, but he has the conviction to finally do what feels right in his gut. He is no Joru ka Ghulam when it come to serious matters.

It is Ishwari's journey as much Dev and Sona's. Dev does not want to share anything yet, because everything else means responsibility. Sona is a secret joy to him. I get the feeling, but keeping her a secret is not doing her any justice. She is facing unfair situations because of it from Ishwari and Radha Rani.

Congratulations, writers for the 100th episode !! You guys are awesome..

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ssimmy thumbnail
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Beautiful post!

Also I think I recognize you from the Qubool hai forum 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ssimmy

Beautiful post!

Also I think I recognize you from the Qubool hai forum 😊


Hello again! 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Amazing post !!! It was Ishwari's way of hinting her "You are still MY NUTRITIONIST , stay in your limits " . And by saying its about MY 4 KIDS ,when Sona started explaining , her refusal to make it about Dev, shows she doesn't even want to go there .
Sona took halwa incident lightly when Dev talked about it , but she is beginning to understand Ishwari's possessive side slowly I guess . Ishwari's reaction really shook her for the first time .
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ishwari knew Sona is taking care of everybody's health at Dixit house. We all remember Sona explaining Ishwari If at one cost she could get Mehndi done wouldn't that be good for all. Ishwari had no problems with Sona advicing n taking care of everyone including Dev till now. So why this hulla gulla now.

Ishwari just does not want Dev to have any relation with any other woman but her. She is dangerously obsessive n crazy about Dev.

Ishwari can also see that Dev n Sona r close which she cannot digest. Its not about an employee-boss relation, but Dev's relation to a woman, she does not want Dev to get married in future to any woman. Marriage means he will go away n she won't have him that freedom. Dev is her personal toy.

I don't think even If Dev comes n tells her about his relation with Sona she will agree. We all can see she did not had any problems with Sona until she became a part of Dev's life which is quite apparent.

BTW I am yet to see yesterdays Epi. I quit after 8 mins of slot taken by that new show. Damn only If I could have waited for another 2 mins.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Loved your analysis and I think the most important thing here is conversation sona confronted Ishwari therefore she got the idea that her interference in dev's life is not going well with aunty Ji but Dev and Ishwari badly need a discussion over this matter, they both are living in their delusion that the other is going to support them in their every decision
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I am a bit uncomfortable if this statement I am yours and you are mine repeatedly... this is an unsaid thing and when couple take it literally they get possessive and stop giving space to each other..
Instead of I am your and your are mine better one si we are for each other..


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Posted: 9 years ago
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For Ishwari yesterday 👏 👏 👏 What a precise, effective way of putting across what she felt... Wonderful... Loved her scene yesterday... She was the star of the episode... Couldnt have summed it up better...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: desigirl987

Amazing post !!! It was Ishwari's way of hinting her "You are still MY NUTRITIONIST , stay in your limits " . And by saying its about MY 4 KIDS ,when Sona started explaining , her refusal to make it about Dev, shows she doesn't even want to go there .

Sona took halwa incident lightly when Dev talked about it , but she is beginning to understand Ishwari's possessive side slowly I guess . Ishwari's reaction really shook her for the first time .


Its hard actually for a woman. You grow up as who you are at home. And you get married and is expected to fit in at another family's house, by their rules.

Marriage is an imperfect institution. We balance it out with give and take , because of love. We can see Neha's struggle, empathize with it, and even understand why Dev wants to help. But Neha didn't ask for anything, as yet. All she wanted was to sit in her room alone for a while.

Dev is interfering, according to Ranveer. He will provide for Neha, he proudly states. And yet, he couldn't even arrange for privacy in his own room for his new wife. Bhabhi looks nice but she should've respectfully moved out their things beforehand and made space for Neha to make her feel welcome. A small gesture to meet halfway.

I think Ishwari is not disapproving of Dev being in a relationship. She wanted him to decide, and tell her first. To some, that might not be such a big request. Mom, I think I may have feeling for a girl. You'll like her very much. I really hope you'll like her too. It'll mean a lot to me if you did.

Simple.

then Ishwari can decide , if she wants to be jealous or not.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Agree with what you say!

Just wanted to add, if I remember, it was Ishwari who told Sona one day to go to Dev and make him reduce his coffee intake. Now out of the blue, Ish doesn't want Sona to interfere with Dev's diet


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