Acha toh I was watching YHM August 2014 epis & a few things stood out to me that I'd like to, for my own peace of mind, bring to your attention.
1) Within 8 months of their marriage, babies' relationship had transformed from 'sirf sirf sirf sirf aur sirf Ruhi ke liye' to now 'sirf Ishita ke liye' for Raman respectively (when Suraj Ishu ka license radh karwa deta hai aur gusse mein Raman Ashok ke mooh pe cake smash kardaalta hai when he finds out from Param ke Ashok & Suraj are brothers) and Ishita grew to feel something-something for her Ravan Kumar ... Her Karwa Karela ...
Both had found the one they could depend on...
2) Romi held his Bhai - Bhabhi to the highest regard. No matter how much his Raman Bhai rebuked him; Romi stuck through being his Bhabhi's biggest support when they had to nab Suraj during the match fixing fiasco.
Kehne ka matlab yeh hai that I don't fault any one of the characters for there behaviour; it's the writer, and the creative team jinki priorities badal gayi hain ...
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