Riddhima ke bare mein bhi socho... - Page 2

@ aarti and pixie - I both agree and disagree with you guys- so heres more to build upon it….

How much more substantiation of the depth of his emotions and love does she need? She herself should now be aware that her previous anger about the adoption issue was unjustified since Armaan himself clearly highlighted the hypocritical nature of her actions with the anji scenario. If anything, after that long explanation on the roof and subsequent events, she should have been apologetic to Armaan. And yet, in the library- she lashes out at Armu- 'tum meri madat karoge?- tumhe apni lines bhi yaad nahin rehti hain' (which btw I thought was the most stupid logic I've heard for a very long time!!!). Was that justified? Just the previous day apni "dosti" ki duhai dete hue- she tried to keep him to keep quiet. The flashes of the true and changed Armaan she has seen - his affection for Minnie, his sensitivity with the operation in the lift, his waiting for her all night in the rain- Heck even their almost kiss on the BB court. A man with true dignity and self-control could pull that off. What more evidence is required? As for the demons- well sure she's been through a lot. But in such a situation, an able bodied knight in shining armour with unconditional support for her in every situation she's been in EVER so far, would be most welcome? Is she scared of love and support? Due to that one incident (which she initially forgot surprisingly quickly) has she lost the ability to trust all together? Does she like being the 'I am a woman who runs solo but actually cant handle it'?

Im getting the feeling she enjoys the proximity but hates confrontation. So basically- 'keep on running after me but don't expect me to do anything about it. I am an angel- You're the devil. I can't possibly love you even though I feel every inch of me aching to be with you. Who cares if you love me- because You love everyone. And I don't think I should trust you- even though I already trust you enough to long for your support at every difficult situation I'm in.' Hypocrisy to the limit.

@ ashvez- totally with you on the promo thing. Armaan should be much more stubborn and actually ignore her. Else his words seem hollow. 'good bye dr. riddhima' ' chapter closed'- and the next day they start arguing about the most stupid topic. What is up with the creatives? Its like the dialogue writer doesn't speak to the creatives at all?!!?!?!?!?

@krystall
u r nt wrong der...actually u hav sum pretty gud points highlighted!!
frm armaan's pnt of view he's done all dat he can...nd frm ridhima's pnt of view he hasn't done nearly enough!!

dat truth showdwn dey had on d terrace...i agree dat ridz shd hav realised her mistake nd probably she mght hav if armaan had behaved differently towards her on d subsequent morning.had he made it apparant by his actions dat he will keep her secret bt nt alls hunky dory b/w dem.instead wat he did ws start bickerin wid her all over again like she hadn't hurt his feelings at all!!
personally i feel dat he forgives her entirely too soon..he doesn't giv her a chance to feel his void in her life...in short he doesn't let her miss him...or feel guilty after hurtin him.....he's just too easy goin!!
so ofcourse she doesn't take him or his feelings all dat seriously.

riddhima! every gurl should be da 1st 1 to understnad her feeling! looks guys
she started loving him too! bt armaan broke her trust by da bet! we all know da bet was by mistake but armaan is sooooooooo stupid he is trin to be cool! n not sayin anyfink!n wat do u accept her to do? be all mce? her trust is broken!
den dey adoption! i know armaan was finkun gd for her bt he promised her n he broke her trust again! nt only him! her whole family! evry1 who she loves! n den
her sis did da mistake n she took da blame i know wat u all fink bt wat would u do if u were on her place? all dis years dey have been growin her up n den when it cums to her she cnt jst be slefish! can she?
armaan! he does be nce to her n stuff we all know he loves her bt guys! her irritates her too! n how can she trust him? again? last epi when she said dat she dnt feel anyfink for him! she must have said it bczo she is sacred to get broken again!
i am gonna say 1 fink.... it might sound wried bt..........
if loves breaks or anyfink else den it hurts! bt if da trust is broken den ure heart breaks! 😊
i hope i dint waste ure time 😛

^^
i tottaly agree wit u!

i can actually c hw riddhima acted the way she did..i totally understand coz..well..im ort of goin thru the same thing at the mo..n wel wen thingz like that happen its realy hard 2 think str8!

n defo..im sure she scared of getn hurt again..shes been hurt enuff b4 with findin out about the bet..her adoption etc..n now..she has feelings 4 armaan bt shes jst scared that by admitting it shes puttin heself forward 2be hurt again!by denying it..its her defence..she thinks that by denying it..she wnt get hurt..bt shes nt jst denyin it 2 armaan b 2 herself!

the heart...feelings..can all make u do and act in strange ways!!trust me guyz..my heds mesd up as it is lolz!

(sorry if all that wz a bit deep guyz lolz)xxx

pixie....thats true actually. Its also partly armaans fault. He needs to blank her out- he doesnt let her feel the void if Armaan is not there. Actually, Now I'm pretty much blaming the Creatives I think. They NEED TO THINK and RETHINK the road they want to take. We dont want to see things again and again.

Hey!! I have been thinking 2, and you know what...it still doesnt fit. I can totally understand that a girl might feel insecure after being hurt a few times by this guy. but look at it from the other side. the bet episode i can understand , but the woman should have given him at least one chance to expl. and the adoption thing, was it really that bad? afterall , her whole family hid it ...she finally forgave everyone, but only not him. and anyway, it was not even his secret to tell. but the problem is in the last few episodes, she had been behaving as if she was finally acknowledging her love to herself, esp after the viva when she is thankful and then suddenly she says 'no way' again and then suddenly she gets very angry with him. as for being unsure of him, the way he has stood by her side, i dont think most boys would do so much and be so SENSITIVE to all her feelings...think of it, he has always been there for her, no matter what. i think its just very difficult for girls to say these things, esp if the guy has not really said the 3 words, no matter how much he has made it clear. she doesnt really know what he has in mind...boyz can be very confusing at times. also, armaan has always been around and she does not really know how it feels to lose him.perhaps she was trying to hide her true feelings in their usual fights. armaan also does that. but even then, her reaction was too sharp. she could have kept quiet.but she def didnt expect his reaction to be so strong. also, i feel there is a hidden reason why she said all this, otherwise why would she have tears in her eyes. (sorry , this has become too long)

nah I totally agree with that. The creatives are basically making a fool out of us and their portrayal of this character. Read my really long post on 'surreal' it kinda merged with this topic...