Judgemental Sona... - Page 2

Originally posted by: mayu1982

<font color="#990000"><font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">Yeah especially when their relationship is at early stage such type of misunderstanding is very common.

Some personal baatein from my life- Even after 8 years of marriage , we are still learning not to take things personally😆😆 I guess one day we will learn 🤔
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My POV.
Dev felt his sister has suffered enough and she should not have a similar situation to deal in the future, Money is important, but that does not mean you give it as a Crutch that you make people depend on it or feel disrespected. On one hand, Dev could have openly spoken to Ranvir, of his sister's apprehensions, what he thinks and how they could possibly remedy that situation. Dev knows now, what it is to love and hence hopefully understands that Ranvir loves Neha. He should have appreciated Ranvir in his intentions that he wants to provide happiness to Neha at his own behest, so Dev could let him know that he is always available whenever Ranvir thinks he could be of help. That way Dev would have shown his appreciation as well as respect for Ranvir sentiments, as an Independent person.

Secondly, when Neha put him in a spot asking him to make Ranvir rich, he could have nicely explained to her, since she loves him, as to how Ranvir would react to such help and that he would feel offended as a person. How would she feel, when Ranvir would feel he is not good enough of a person for her to love. Dev could have asked her to think over it and come up with a suggestion, how they could collectively help and improve that situation. As an Independent person, and one who advocates that even his sister Riya should work her way up, how could he assume that Ranvir could be an exception. They have always projected that Dev is very sensitive and a good person, so this track did not match up to that character.

Sona is a girl from a middle class family and she takes pride in it. She does not lack anything nor does she pine for anything, but at the same time she does not agree that Money is necessary to live a happy life, we heard this yesterday in her conversation with her brother and Elena. She gives a lot of importance to People and relationships rather than material things. She felt that today if being middle class is not good enough for Neha and Ranvir as according to Dev, then it could come up as a problem between her and Dev in the future too.

I second her opinion.

I think the same. Although I agree what she said but I think she over reacted and there was no need to bring her and Dev's relationship into the argument!