whose side are you on?

yesterdays episode showed both neha and ranveer opening up their thoughts
to each other. i feel that neha & ranveer are just not for each other. neha
had a rough childhood & what u face in your childhood stays with u thruout ur life
howmuchever successful u become. that scar remains. its not clear whether neha still
doesnt want to have kids with ranveer or that has changed. anyways neha clearly said
that she doesnt want to face less money or poverty as she put the word gareebi again.
And that is very much natural. in practical, if lets say v live in a middle class family & then
get married to a upper class family then after living richly it will be very difficult for us to go back
to even middle class also bcos by then v would have been used to the comforts.

so when neha did take time to say yes to ranveer, she should have just said no. but
love stopped her & she wants him but at same time doesnt want to leave her comforts.
so neha is wrong to some extent. she should have been straight to ranveer.

again ranveer just wants to live in whatever comforts he has. then again there r some
people in this world who have less ambitions. They just dont want to make much effort
to come up in life. he says he is a self made man so he does not want to take help of
anyone. fine. but atleast the makers should show himself making efforts to progress
in life bcos after all he has to think about neha too as neha rightly said why should it always
be the job of girl adjusting for boy👏. but ranveer is shown as a male who wants his
woman to accept him as he is. in marriage both have to make efforts to change.

The mindset that the girl only has to change is still prevalent in our country.

so in summary neha is wrong in saying yes to ranveer when she cant let go of the riches
& ranveer is wrong in being stubborn that he just wants to live the way he is currently living.
so they r a mismatch. what do u all think??

agree...vry nice post dear..yes both r wrng in some way...neha should hav discus al dis wit ranveer bfore saying yes nd she s vry much rite in saying tat both should hav to adjust in d mariage its nt always hapend to b girl..nd i thnk it would b nice if neha directly aproaches ranveer nd explains her issue nd suport hm in hs eforts to gain stability instead of asking dev n whch ranveers reactn s justified

I agree that Neha is right when she is thinking practically. Because one can't undergo same thing twice,she is right. Maybe many wil say Dev is wrong,Im' sure Sona n Ishwari too wil say the same,bu practically Ranveer needs lil help for sure and we all take help,like Neha too took Ranveer's help to learn English right? It's just his ego that is stopping him. I agree Neha should talk to Ranveer first and sort things out and then only go to Dev to ask something. or else both should wait till they come to the same page.

Neha has a point : about not wanting to return back to being Gareeb again. But she should have communicated the same directly to Ranveer in a more civilized manner.

I think Ranveer is in right. Although the way e refused to Dev was wrong, it was for the right reasons. He wants to make a name for himself by own. It's understandable that he does not want love a life which is made by someone else.

Also I fee Neha is too busy being there victim that she fails to understand Ranveer. She should have directly talked to Ranveer about her problem and not gone to her bhaiya. Also, I found it really odd when she said to Dev that I forgive you if you make Ranveer rich. That was just odd. Love and forgives doesn't come with conditions and Neha is putting conditions on both. She should be able to forgive Dev regardless of what he can do and can't. The moment she needed her bhaiya's help, he became her hero.

Also I think Ranveer should try harder to be better. I feel he in not fighting.

Tbh I think both need to find the middle ground. Neha needs to let go of her insecurity when it comes money and Ranveer needs to let go of his ego. Then only they can have a relationship.

But as of now, Neha is coming off as hostile and insensitive to me. When Ranveer got her the earrings, she did not even bother to ask how did he manage to get such earring instead she just happily took it without thinking that how much Ranveer must have spent on it and how pointless it was.

Originally posted by: muskaan2298

I think Ranveer is in right. Although the way e refused to Dev was wrong, it was for the right reasons. He wants to make a name for himself by own. It's understandable that he does not want love a life which is made by someone else.

Also I fee Neha is too busy being there victim that she fails to understand Ranveer. She should have directly talked to Ranveer about her problem and not gone to her bhaiya. Also, I found it really odd when she said to Dev that I forgive you if you make Ranveer rich. That was just odd. Love and forgives doesn't come with conditions and Neha is putting conditions on both. She should be able to forgive Dev regardless of what he can do and can't. The moment she needed her bhaiya's help, he became her hero.

Also I think Ranveer should try harder to be better. I feel he in not fighting.

Tbh I think both need to find the middle ground. Neha needs to let go of her insecurity when it comes money and Ranveer needs to let go of his ego. Then only they can have a relationship.

But as of now, Neha is coming off as hostile and insensitive to me. When Ranveer got her the earrings, she did not even bother to ask how did he manage to get such earring instead she just happily took it without thinking that how much Ranveer must have spent on it and how pointless it was.

i dont remember ranveer gifting her an earring. i know he got a phone for himself
but earring, i must have forgotten bcos i have seen all episodes

Neha kuch jyada hi insure ho rhi h. mujhe lagta h ki agar neha such mein ranveer se pyar karti h toh usshe ranveer ke uper bharosa hona chahiye. Usshe vishwas hona chahiye ki shaadi ke baad ranveer usshe kisi bhi cheez ki kami nhi hone dega . vaise bhi ranveer ki family itni bhi gareeb nahi h, jitni gareebi neha ne bachpan mein dekhi h. Aur agar neha ko such mein esa lagta ki shaadi ke baad financial problem hogi toh woh khud job kerke iss problem ko solve kar sakti h, aur isse ranveer ko bhi shayad koi problem nhi hogi . Mere hisab se neha apne pyar ko pane ke liye itna to kar hi sakti h.

Originally posted by: muskaan2298

I think Ranveer is in right. Although the way e refused to Dev was wrong, it was for the right reasons. He wants to make a name for himself by own. It's understandable that he does not want love a life which is made by someone else.

Also I fee Neha is too busy being there victim that she fails to understand Ranveer. She should have directly talked to Ranveer about her problem and not gone to her bhaiya. Also, I found it really odd when she said to Dev that I forgive you if you make Ranveer rich. That was just odd. Love and forgives doesn't come with conditions and Neha is putting conditions on both. She should be able to forgive Dev regardless of what he can do and can't. The moment she needed her bhaiya's help, he became her hero.

Also I think Ranveer should try harder to be better. I feel he in not fighting.

Tbh I think both need to find the middle ground. Neha needs to let go of her insecurity when it comes money and Ranveer needs to let go of his ego. Then only they can have a relationship.

But as of now, Neha is coming off as hostile and insensitive to me. When Ranveer got her the earrings, she did not even bother to ask how did he manage to get such earring instead she just happily took it without thinking that how much Ranveer must have spent on it and how pointless it was.

yes u r right. if something happens wrong in nehas life she blames her bro only even
if he has made every effort to make things right for her. just bcos he remains silent
she has no right to blame him for everything. u know what, neha should just forget
about marriage & should concentrate on her education & career. makers should show that.
then only her self confidence will come.

In my point of view Neha is right.even i don't lyk Neha wid raveer.Bose family could handle Neha better.