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Posted: 9 years ago
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Is it possible to love someone and still have a low opinion of them?

Please share what you think!

P.S. Its a general question.. am not bashing any character. I know these characters will come around just in time ;)
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yes. That's just another kind of love... the selfish kind.
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Love :
It's such a vague thing. Love means a sense of authority and longigngness. You often tend to assert your ideologies on the people you love. And with love comes expectations. Expectations of going according to what you think.
Expectations of being upto the mark to the outside world.

And the difference between reality and expectations causes rifts and fights, often confused with hatred.

If you truly love someone, its not possible that you think low of him/her. Its just that when they fail to meet your thoughts, you become pissed off. Angry with them or sometimes even with yourself.
Thinking low itself is so cheap. And there's no space for such things in love coz its so selfless and pure.
During such situations, all you need is to accept some facts. Accept your partner as she/he is. Understand them by stepping into their shoes. This is what a relationship demands.

-Mahi
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..wateva..

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" color="#0099ff">Is it possible to love someone and still have a low opinion of them?</font>


<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" color="#0099ff">Please share what you think!</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" color="#0099ff">P.S. Its a general question.. am not bashing any character. I know these characters will come around just in time ;)</font>


Not possible in general.
For shravan he is acting blind knowing everything. You can't wake up some one who is not sleeping but pretending to sleep.
He is working hard to prove himself to his papa
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Artist_Forever

Love :

It's such a vague thing. Love means a sense of authority and longigngness. You often tend to assert your ideologies on the people you love. And with love comes expectations. Expectations of going according to what you think.
Expectations of being upto the mark to the outside world.

And the difference between reality and expectations causes rifts and fights, often confused with hatred.

If you truly love someone, its not possible that you think low of him/her. Its just that when they fail to meet your thoughts, you become pissed off. Angry with them or sometimes even with yourself.
Thinking low itself is so cheap. And there's no space for such things in love coz its so selfless and pure.
During such situations, all you need is to accept some facts. Accept your partner as she/he is. Understand them by stepping into their shoes. This is what a relationship demands.

-Mahi


Well said mahi 👏 👏 👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Artist_Forever

Love :

It's such a vague thing. Love means a sense of authority and longigngness. You often tend to assert your ideologies on the people you love. And with love comes expectations. Expectations of going according to what you think.
Expectations of being upto the mark to the outside world.

And the difference between reality and expectations causes rifts and fights, often confused with hatred.

If you truly love someone, its not possible that you think low of him/her. Its just that when they fail to meet your thoughts, you become pissed off. Angry with them or sometimes even with yourself.
Thinking low itself is so cheap. And there's no space for such things in love coz its so selfless and pure.
During such situations, all you need is to accept some facts. Accept your partner as she/he is. Understand them by stepping into their shoes. This is what a relationship demands.

-Mahi

Mahi🤗
Wise words👏

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