Pyaar Aur Athma Samman - Kise Chunegi Suman? - Page 2

Originally posted by: KostinsQueen

Mahi...Thanks for putting your thoughts.

I know Shravan loves sumo very much , but what i meant here is , in present scenario what should sumo prefer?

Her Love - Accepting those papers from Shravan

Her Self Respect - Not taking Shravan's help & rebuilding her empire

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

Self respect is needed to earn respect in any relationship. A long term relationship especially a lifelong partnership cannot be maintained without respect. That was clear in the case of Ramnath and Nirmala. She got tired of losing her self respect to stay married to him, so she left.

In this case also, if Suman wants this relationship to ever work, then she needs to show Shravan she is willing to choose herself and her self worth over him. Because in the end, you are the only person you can totally count on. Nirmala learnt that the hard way. It's Suman's turn now!

I have read a quote and found its quite apt for suman

I can love u
BEYOND my Ego
But dont expect me to love
Beyond my Self respect
Sumo loves him, can even forgive him for being rude and a heartless jerk putting aside her ego.
But she can never accept those papers. Just becoz he feels guilty(though in precap he didnt look even a bit guilty)
he took pity on her and handed over the papers. As she said in the episode she can herself make her dreams come true, no need of shravan to take care of her dreams.
It isnt ego v/s love
Its selfrespect v/s love
So definitely she will choose her self respect.

AGAR RISHTHEY MEIN SAMMAN CHAHIYE THO ATHMA SAMMAN HONA JHAROORI HAI
👏 👏 👏

Originally posted by: sapphire3

I have read a quote and found its quite apt for suman

I can love u
BEYOND my Ego
But dont expect me to love
Beyond my Self respect
Sumo loves him, can even forgive him for being rude and a heartless jerk putting aside her ego.
But she can never accept those papers. Just becoz he feels guilty(though in precap he didnt look even a bit guilty)
he took pity on her and handed over the papers. As she said in the episode she can herself make her dreams come true, no need of shravan to take care of her dreams.
It isnt ego v/s love
Its selfrespect v/s love
So definitely she will choose her self respect.

AGAR RISHTHEY MEIN SAMMAN CHAHIYE THO ATHMA SAMMAN HONA JHAROORI HAI
👏 👏 👏

Originally posted by: sapphire3

I have read a quote and found its quite apt for suman

I can love u
BEYOND my Ego
But dont expect me to love
Beyond my Self respect
Sumo loves him, can even forgive him for being rude and a heartless jerk putting aside her ego.
But she can never accept those papers. Just becoz he feels guilty(though in precap he didnt look even a bit guilty)
he took pity on her and handed over the papers. As she said in the episode she can herself make her dreams come true, no need of shravan to take care of her dreams.
It isnt ego v/s love
Its selfrespect v/s love
So definitely she will choose her self respect.

AGAR RISHTHEY MEIN SAMMAN CHAHIYE THO ATHMA SAMMAN HONA JHAROORI HAI
👏 👏 👏

good quote

Well said 👏

Obviously she will choose her self respect...The whole story is narrated nd portrayed by her Self respect...She will choose only self respect

Originally posted by: Artist_Forever

I would like Sumo to go for her Self Respect. precisely, she should tear them and throw it on his face. If Shravan takes that as an insult, there's no ShraMan anymore.

It's high time her understand her POV

I think, right now Respect se zyaada understanding problem hai😕

Exactly

They need to speak Mannn , Nahhh Shravan needs to LISTEN

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

Self respect is needed to earn respect in any relationship. A long term relationship especially a lifelong partnership cannot be maintained without respect. That was clear in the case of Ramnath and Nirmala. She got tired of losing her self respect to stay married to him, so she left.

In this case also, if Suman wants this relationship to ever work, then she needs to show Shravan she is willing to choose herself and her self worth over him. Because in the end, you are the only person you can totally count on. Nirmala learnt that the hard way. It's Suman's turn now!

👏 👏 👏 awesome

Self respect a relationship which lacks respect eventually it becomes suffocating and starts dieing a slow death

Respect - love without respect is not worth it as I had posted in my response to a comment by Indrani :)