The quotes...Most important was to remain focused and always have a presence of mind. It is by presence of mind in untried emergencies that the native metal of man is tested. Presence of mind is required in each and every walk of life. That which consumes your mind, controls your life. You have two choices, to control your mind or to let your mind control you.
Stop letting people who do so little for you control so much of your mind, feelings and emotions. If you don't learn to control your thoughts, you will never learn how to control your behavior. Let your mind be set free from the control of others influence. When you can't always control your thoughts, you can choose how you respond to them.
Not caring what other people think is the best choice you will ever make. So don't worry about what others think. Sometimes you have to live life for yourself and not worry what others might think. Care about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner. It's not worth it. We can't control the filters that others choose when they look at us...hold true.
Stop worrying about things you can't change. Sometimes you have to stop worrying, wondering and doubting. Have faith that things will work out, may be not how you planned, but just how it's meant to be. You spend too much time worrying what other people think of you...A lion doesn't concern himself with the opinion of a sheep. Worrying doesn't take away tomorrow's troubles...it takes away today's peace. Worry is a misuse of your imagination. Today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.
When you blame others, you give up your power to grow. Your life is what you make it. So, don't blame others when you screw up. A self absorbed person only can see the faults of others. But they are often color blind to their own. The day you stop blaming others is the day you begin to discover who you truly are. Stop looking for someone to blame and fix it. Don't blame others for your own unhappiness.
Before you look to blame another, look within yourself, for at some point you have not listened to your own instincts. A person can fail many times, but one isn't a failure until one begins to blame somebody. People spend too much time finding other to blame, too much energy finding excuses for not being what they are capable of being and not enough energy putting themselves on the line, growing out of the past, and getting on with their lives.
Both Dhani and Kamini were so much involved in their own worries that they both fail to have a presence of mind ... They are responsible for their children and they fail to notice the absence of their child. They are so engrossed in to thinking what shall be viplav's next action...Kanak was right in saying instead of taking out her anger on Atharva she better spend some quality time with him...she paid no heed to her words.
Dulari on the other hand was right in giving advices to Dhani and she doesn't listen to them at all...in this process both the mothers are totally clueless of the whereabouts of their child respectively. If you keep blaming something or someone else for your problems, you will never learn why problems come your way.
Both Dhani and Kamini blame someone else when their children went missing...without finding out the truth Dhani blames Viplav when he was trying to inform her what exactly has happened...similarly Km blames Dhani and Parshiya when Atharva went missing...she just had to blame Dhani and put her in trouble so she went ahead with it.
When both the women instead of finding out the truth and start to fix their problem they indulge themselves in blame games...When bad things happen, resist the urge to blame others. Instead, find something you can do yourself to fix the problem. Control your emotions...Discipline your mind. For you're victim of your own mind. If you don't control your mind, someone else will.
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This TOTD is the combination of past two episodes.
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Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi 2
