Kaushalya takes vachan from Shivam

In the preview its shown that Khushiya makes Shivam promise her for second marriage. Istg this 'vachan' thing in Indian telly is higly annoying. Kaushalya and her sonny are getting on my nerves now.

Originally posted by: sana21

In the preview its shown that Khushiya makes Shivam promise her for second marriage. Istg this 'vachan' thing in Indian telly is higly annoying. Kaushalya and her sonny are getting on my nerves now.

Yeah I really hate that kind of thing too- its just another form of emotional blackmail. My mum used to do it when she thought i was lying to her (when I was very young) and i just loathed it. So I made her stop. She was brought up that way I guess- it was the norm for her. But I sat her down and I told her that there is no love or respect in forcing someone to promise on you- its just a candyflossed way of emotionally blackmailing someone and holding them prisoner to YOUR needs. Its one of the most selfish and backwards thing you can do to another person, especially your own child. It disgusts me, using someone's love against themselves. When I put it like that to her, she never did it again- she totally understood what I was saying and I was incredibly proud of her for trying to see it for what it was.

Shivam will of course promise Cowshalya so now it's left for Riya to try and stop Shivam Chanda marriage and our super regressive bahuriya will stop their marriage by hook or by crook, just in nick of time .. everything will be fine and dandy once Shivam apologises .. that should sum up 😆 don't ask how many episodes will be churned out for this..*eyes rolling*

But today Shivam surprisingly denied to give or keep VACHAN

And that Kusiya snubbed Shivam by telling You are not doing favour by giving or fulfilling VACHAN 🤢

Originally posted by: CoolBeans86

Yeah I really hate that kind of thing too- its just another form of emotional blackmail. My mum used to do it when she thought i was lying to her (when I was very young) and i just loathed it. So I made her stop. She was brought up that way I guess- it was the norm for her. But I sat her down and I told her that there is no love or respect in forcing someone to promise on you- its just a candyflossed way of emotionally blackmailing someone and holding them prisoner to YOUR needs. Its one of the most selfish and backwards thing you can do to another person, especially your own child. It disgusts me, using someone's love against themselves. When I put it like that to her, she never did it again- she totally understood what I was saying and I was incredibly proud of her for trying to see it for what it was.

Kudos to your mum for understanding. My bestfriend always tries this ''vachan thing or kasam thing'' with me and she annoys the shit out of me. I am like,ask whatever u want,if its in my capabilities I will do it.But don't tie me up in some sort of commitment to a task,before even telling me what that task is. I so agree its nothing but pure emotional blackmail. I am like why khushiya even wants a vachan, when all she needs to do, is shed some tears and her sonny will turn into a raging bull and attack RIYA.

Originally posted by: Maverick_me

Shivam will of course promise Cowshalya so now it's left for Riya to try and stop Shivam Chanda marriage and our super regressive bahuriya will stop their marriage by hook or by crook, just in nick of time .. everything will be fine and dandy once Shivam apologises .. that should sum up 😆 don't ask how many episodes will be churned out for this..*eyes rolling*

Lol Imma bet on a minimum of 5 months worth of episodes for Shivam to realise that Riya reallly loves him and that she was trapped by his prapanchu daadi. Or maybe the writers hate us more than we think we know, and they drag this serial for another 2 years and finally after that daadi will come out as the villain in the open for shivam and co to see lol. This show makes no head and tail. The tragic scenes look comic lol. The writers have destroyed Shivya and this show so much.

Sana,