Finally, finally finally, Sahil's real face is out in the open. A reality check for all who found no fault in Sahil's conduct and mannerisms. Anuj has been doing a very fantastic job and I am glad he was selected by the CV's as Swara's Obsessive Lover. He is playing the role to the T.
I do agree that to a common man with no knowledge of any kind, Sahil and most of his actions seem seemingly harmless. However, we are not any unsuspecting individual. We are informed individuals who already knew, at the time of his entry itself, that Sahil's character, is to turn obsessive, with regards to Swara, in the very near future. And its human fallacy that once we a person is guilty of something, we try to discern their every step, analyse and dissect it, and finally link it to the crime they either have or are going to commit. The case with Sahil is that we know of his oncoming obsessive love for Swara and are therefore, dissing him for his every move, no matter how insignificant or in-consequent it is. SwaSan lovers are guilty of this as we just love and adore SwaSan and cannot tolerate any harm coming to our beloved couple.
Obsessive love is a hypothetical state of mind in which a person feels an overwhelming obsessive desire to possess another individual towards whom they feel an extremely strong attraction, with the inate inability to accept failure or rejection. It is considered to be a mental illness similar to "attachment disorder, borderline personality disorder, and eroto-mania." Obsessive lovers feel entirely unable to restrain themselves from extreme behavior such as acts of violence towards their object of desire. Yes, Object, not person or individual, plain and pure OBJECT, as their obsessive love reduces its recipient to thus. The recipient is no longer a kindred soul, its an object they HAVE to possess, no matter the cost, the consequences or the morality of it all. Such individuals are entirely convince themselves that their feelings are indeed pure love, and reject the very idea that their severe obsession is not actually love. While a healthy love relationship evolves over time such that it no longer involves the near desperate intensity and fervor of infatuation. Healthy love tends to mature over the years to include commitment, friendship, and a solid respect for the other person as an individual and of their needs. Healthy relationships allow both people to feel loved, cared for, and respected and allow for each person's individuality and pursuit of their own professional lives, recreational activities, and friendships outside of the love relationship.
Sahil is an extremely Selfish and Self serving man who has begun to disregard everything, Swara's marriage, health, happiness, wishes etc. just to attain his means i.e., Swara. He is employing dubious means to elevate himself in her eyes while trying to portray Sanskaar, Swara's lawfully wedded husband, in bad light. The whole music academy fiasco reveals that he knows of Swara's marriage to Sanskaar, knows that they are a happy couple, and is trying to manipulate Swara into liking him and hating her well loved husband by means of the events unfolding in the recent OLV's. He is capitalizing on Swara's misconception about Sanskaar's culpability in her kidnap and subsequent fall into the river by manipulating events and people to the end of achieving his goal, i.e., Swara. He is not giving Swawa any choice in the matter. He is trying to cage a vulnerable and ill informed Swara into an unequal relationship with him. Thus, he is an obsessive lover of Swara and therefore a villain PERIOD.
Sanskaar, on the other hand, after overcoming the initial shock will take this crushing development to his stride, be very understanding of Swara's situation, not resent her for her ML and support her, even if that means going away (for a teeny weeny bit of time) from Swara. Even when Swara fancied herself to be in love with Lakshya, after SwaSan marriage, Sanskaar never actually jataofied his haq on Swara. He let her free with the hope that she will come back to him as his love is pure and true. Even though Sanskaar actually has Haq on Swara, he will not exert it on her just for his own happiness or satisfaction. He will place Swara's well being well above his own. Even though in his body, mind and Soul he will be hurting, he will put up a brave front for everyone else, and most importantly his Swara.
I really hated watching Sahil hit an unsuspecting, unarmed, perfectly tranquil and rational Sanskaar with an iron rod at the back of his head while knowing very well that he is innocent. Frankly, I am not angry on Swara, it's Sahil and Swara's family I want to rant about. I know that if things come out at the starting itself then the plot cannot thicken and set. However, I will still rant because of the inhuman treatment being meted out on Sanskaar. The poor guy is already suffering in mind and soul. Body baki thi, woh kassar bhi Sahil ne puri kar di.
Thats why, I am looking forward to a track in future where Swara will wield that same rod against Sahil and beat the living s**t out of him. Just like Sanskaar tried to Strangle Kavita for hurting Swara, I want Swara to beat the living shit out of Sahil sometime in future for trying to harm her Sanskaar. I also want Swara to remember Sahil hitting Sanskaar while he was merely trying to talk to her and clear her misconception, get very emotional, catch hold of Sanskaar's head, bend it to her lips n kiss the exact place n then hug him while burying her face in Sanskaar's nape. A back hug in this sequence would be awesome. Sanskaar will be shocked and bewildered n ask what is matter, to which Swara should entwine her arms around his chest and neck and say emotionally, "tum theek kehte hoo Sanskaar, main wakai tum par bahut pati shoshan karti hoon. I am sorry. I just remembered the incident at the music academy where Sahil attacked you for no reason". Then Sanskaar should hold her and bring her to infront of him, wipe her tears, fold her into him arms and kiss her forehead while crooning sweet nothings to make her smile and forget the incident.
The little respect and regard that I had for Sahil as he saved our Swara and took care of her has been eradicated completely by his ghastly act. He is not a sympathetic man or a kindred soul. He is just plain disgusting. I mean how could Sahil will hit Sanskaar on his head with a rod? Sahil could do this because he is a plain right PATHETIC SELFISH SOD PERIOD. He is a low born human being. He very well knew Sanskaar was innocent and yet hit him with an iron rod on his head and the flees like the coward he really is.
I hope Sanskaar to suspect or downright discover that the whole music academy happenings had been contrieved by Sahil to distance Swara from him while endearing him to Swara. Therefore, Sanskaar will don Sanky, the RockStar avatar to stay close to Swara and protect her from Sahil. However, I want Swara to fall for Sanskaar Maheswari once again with all her fears and apprehensions.I seriously don want a RNBDJ track. I want swara to Love Sanskaar as Sanskaar only and nothing else.
I presume Sanky will enter as the Singer of the Sargam Foundation. Sahil does not sing. So let him stand in the Kinara and let SwaSan Sing a song at the Sargam foundation. Sahil may persuade Swara into working for the foundation. There she will meet Sanky. I want Swara to feel that Cosmic Connection SwaSan share every time Sanky comes near her. I want Swara to be completely confused with her feelings for Sanky. I want her feel Sanky every time he is around and start questioning herself about the meaning of the connection she feels for him.
Edited by MishtyShona - 9 years ago
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