If Aryan has to repent so does Aaradhya

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I think at least he should have talked with aru in hospital itself ,and also he should ask her about why she put false alligations ,talking can easily solve problems between them and even right now his behaviour is like wild animal
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I wish to differ.

Aru will obviously repent for putting such a serious allegation on Aryan. But, but..but why i think she will not need to repent much is because she did it because she was manipulated...she was not an easy prey either...she tried to believe Aryan, but unfortunately kumus words and aryans action at that time co-incided hence making her believe that the worst of aryan. Plus what he is doing currently(purva)doesnt actually goes against what kumu had said about him.

You might tell me that she love Aryan, hence, she should have trusted him. But, even aryan love aru a lot, then, how come post marriage he didnt even think it is necessary to even have a convo with her and clear everything, instead, he goes and accuse her of luring men...cmon he knows her better nah!!

Aryan in contrast, i think, needs a full redemption track. I'll willfully ignore how he was blackmailed and how he behaved with aru at the hospital since he was in a kind of turmoil...what i cannot digest is his locking her, him paying a price for her, his devdasi taunts and the way he insults aru in front of outsiders (purva) and im sure there will be countless others things he will say when the raj fellow will enter the picture!

Idk how the cvs will handle the future tracks and how these issues will be handled but i think arus only regret will be the allegation but aryan will have on his conscience the fact that he believed his abbas drama and he ill-treated her(when she claimed that she would always protect his family and him)

Phewww thats long!

P.s- dont think that im justifying aru's behaviour and its not that i hate aryan, but that's just my opinion. Slightly biased because its the feminist inside me speaking, but yeah, thats how i see it.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -V.I.P-

<font color="#330033">I wish to differ.</font>


<font color="#330033">Aru will obviously repent for putting such a serious allegation on Aryan. But, but..but why i think she will not need to repent much is because she did it because she was manipulated...she was not an easy prey either...she tried to believe Aryan, but unfortunately kumus words and aryans action at that time co-incided hence making her believe that the worst of aryan. Plus what he is doing currently(purva)doesnt actually goes against what kumu had said about him.</font>

<font color="#330033">You might tell me that she love Aryan, hence, she should have trusted him. But, even aryan love aru a lot, then, how come post marriage he didnt even think it is necessary to even have a convo with her and clear everything, instead, he goes and accuse her of luring men...cmon he knows her better nah!!</font>

<font color="#330033">Aryan in contrast, i think, needs a full redemption track. I'll willfully ignore how he was blackmailed and how he behaved with aru at the hospital since he was in a kind of turmoil...what i cannot digest is his locking her, him paying a price for her, his devdasi taunts and the way he insults aru in front of outsiders (purva) and im sure there will be countless others things he will say when the raj fellow will enter the picture!</font>

<font color="#330033">Idk how the cvs will handle the future tracks and how these issues will be handled but i think arus only regret will be the allegation but aryan will have on his conscience the fact that he believed his abbas drama and he ill-treated her(when she claimed that she would always protect his family and him)</font>

<font color="#330033">Phewww thats long!</font>

<font color="#330033">P.s- dont think that im justifying aru's behaviour and its not that i hate aryan, but that's just my opinion. Slightly biased because its the feminist inside me speaking, but yeah, thats how i see it.</font>



A bang on post 👏

I too liked both aryan and aaru equally and objectively Aaru's mu was understandable because from what Kumu said along with showing fake evidences through tearing aaru clothes and the video, it's easily to see why aaru believed it even though she chose not to believe it initally tried but as the fake evidences from Kumu and aryan's cold behavuour made her come to the conclusion she had. Aaru believe that she is right in what she saw and heard. aryan's behaviour with chipkali didn't help that only confirm Kumu's words. This is why I don't think she is at much fault compared to aryan. They shoul need to have a priowr conversation and confrontation with each other to clarify this think it will happen in the future episodes



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Posted: 9 years ago
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I also beg to differ.

Aryan not once believed she was misled and went on a rampage to ruin Aaradya after the jail fiasco. If he truly loved her for even a moment, he would have considered speaking to her when she attended the hospital to seek clarification as she refused to believe Aryan could cheat her. He illtreated her there, albeit he had his reason, but it was his opportunity to clarify but he didn't. Instead he elected to go back to her property later in the night to reveal the truth? Why? What was the difference between him telling her at the hospital and telling her at home? His behavior that day would have had any girl doubting him. But even then Aaru had faith because when Kumu started manipulating her against Aryan she asked Kumu if it was her plot to open zeher in her life.

Kumu then came with all her weapons and succeeded as Aaru's state of mind at the time was weak. The evidence were there albeit planted for Aaru to believe her eyes. But despite that, her intention has not been to hurt Aryan. She has been trying to sort things out, because deep down she knows he MAY not have been wrong. WHEREAS Aryan is hell bent on ruining Aaru with his adulterous nonsense and to top it off his constant taunts to Aaru. I understand Aaru is retaliating but the way he is behaving is beyond disgusting. Like yesterday when he had her in that choking hold, like honestly? What was he thinking? He requires penance to repent. 😆 Aryan not once has shown regret in the manner he's treating her (other than when he walked to the store room to unlock it). Not once post the jail drama, has he shown any desire to find out what caused Aaru to put such a blame on him. Instead he is more interested in romancing Poorva and insulting Aaru.

PS! I am not relieving Aaru of blame, but am saying her situation makes the audience sympathise with her more as she truly has been a victim since day one at the hand of Kumudini.

Aryan and Aaru were both victims, but the makers have turned Aryan into a well ...i'll rather not say.😆 Just want the writers to stop butchering Aryan. He was a hero with a brain, just bring that back please!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I also beg to disagree. I love both Aaru and Aaryan - they are an adorable couple. But in this case I am siding with Aaru. Aryan is responsible for starting this entire hate game by breaking his promise of marriage to Aaru and leaving her all alone in the wedding altar not even thinking once what will happen to Aaru now. Definitely he is the one who started this and deserves more blame and hence should repent more.

Aryan's biggest faults according to me are:
1. Breaking off marriage at Aaba's imploring and leaving Aaru decked up as a bride just before the wedding without explaining to her and refusing to talk to her.
2. His readily agreeing to marry Poorva. He could have made Aaba happy by saying I will not marry. There are people who have done that. In my family it has happened when parents refused permission, the person remained unmarried all his life.
3. Using Poorva to humiliate Aaru.
4. Mentally and physically torturing Aaru now.

He is coming across weak and immature, unable to decide and communicate. Instead of communication, he is venting out in the form of uncontrolled anger.

Aaru never wanted to believe Kumu but Aryan's actions itself supported Kumu's theory. First he ditched Aaru at wedding altar and then he decided to marry Poorva right away. And now by his cheap and immature behavior he is giving more credence to Kumu's theory. By ditching her and calling her Devdasi he is really proving that he conspired with Aaba.

Aaru will repent we all know because she has a brain along with her heart. She is intelligent, strong and principled. Even while taking pheras in the jail she was serious and committed to the relationship. So when she realizes her mistake, she will repent deeply and honestly.

But for Aryan to repent he has to get his brain back which has gone on vacation. Aryan's repentance has to be even more serious and sincere and his forgiveness should be hard earned.
Edited by JuhiRockz - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@_innocent_ and @JuhiRockz you have summarized what I wanted to put. Bang on 👏.

Seems Aryan has developed selective amnesia, wherein his seemingly volatile memory has retained Aaradhya's allegation only and has very conveniently forgotten his own actions. If he can ditch an innocent girl waiting for him at the alter just a few minutes before marriage, he has to be ready to face the reparation of his act as well. My point is he should take a few minutes off and use his seemingly non-existent memory & grey cells to ponder over what have actually landed him into this soup instead of insulting, blaming (and a couple of times manhandling) his, in his own words, 2 feet paper wife 24X7.

@JuhiRockz regarding point 2 in your post, he could have broken the marriage with Aaradhya as PVR's "dying wish", but denying any other girl, which he didn't bother. I don't know, whether it's only me who could not find any shadow of pain/guilt/repent on Aryan's face (I don't know whether it's the fault of the scene itself) during his marriage to Purva. In fact he was smiling at her.

I would like to add another point; which, personally for me, is simply unforgivable - Aryan paying for Aaradhya to her mother and granny. I don't know whether the creatives are planning to focus on this later, but it's disgusting. No girl, even with an ounce of self-respect, can forgive and forget this easily.

Kumudini simply took advantage of the situation, being created by Aryan himself and manipulated her foster grand-daughter as per her own interest and right now, by his antics Aryan is simply proving Kumudini was indeed correct. Going by the characterization, Aaradhya would definitely repent later on, once she comes to know about Kumudini's manipulations, since fortunately Tulsi has imbibed her with great values; whereas Aryan would be needing a real penance in order to redeem himself, if that remains possible then. Anyways, to be very honest, I can definitely connect and sympathize with Aaradhya, which I simply can't with Aryan. May be the feminist in me has taken over 😊.
Edited by chandrima02 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I think we are forgetting a very imp point over here. Aryan left her on the marriage day to wed someone else. In a village set up its a huge deal. A woman's reputation and respect gets tarnished for life under such circumstances and Aaba wouldn't have spared to humiliate her further cause of this. This is equivalent to the rape accusation. Girls commit suicide under such circumstances so do men for being falsely accused. Nothing is light or less bad in this situation. They were both humilaited and the marriage was the only way to save themselves which they did. They both will repent for what they did with each other but ones respect is not above the other here. And the way Aryan is pushing it with every passing day he will have a bigger burden of guilt by the end of it.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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2 people gave beautiful big explanations.
I don't think Aradhya needs to repent for the rape charge.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: chandrima02

@_innocent_ and @JuhiRockz you have summarized what I wanted to put. Bang on 👏.


Seems Aryan has developed selective amnesia, wherein his seemingly volatile memory has retained Aaradhya's allegation only and has very conveniently forgotten his own actions. If he can ditch an innocent girl waiting for him at the alter just a few minutes before marriage, he has to be ready to face the reparation of his act as well. My point is he should take a few minutes off and use his seemingly non-existent memory & grey cells to ponder over what have actually landed him into this soup instead of insulting, blaming (and a couple of times manhandling) his, in his own words, 2 feet paper wife 24X7.

@JuhiRockz regarding point 2 in your post, he could have broken the marriage with Aaradhya as PVR's "dying wish", but denying any other girl, which he didn't bother. I don't know, whether it's only me who could not find any shadow of pain/guilt/repent on Aryan's face (I don't know whether it's the fault of the scene itself) during his marriage to Purva. In fact he was smiling at her.

I would like to add another point; which, personally for me, is simply unforgivable - Aryan paying for Aaradhya to her mother and granny. I don't know whether the creatives are planning to focus on this later, but it's disgusting. No girl, even with an ounce of self-respect, can forgive and forget this easily.

Kumudini simply took advantage of the situation, being created by Aryan himself and manipulated her foster grand-daughter as per her own interest and right now, by his antics Aryan is simply proving Kumudini was indeed correct. Going by the characterization, Aaradhya would definitely repent later on, once she comes to know about Kumudini's manipulations, since fortunately Tulsi has imbibed her with great values; whereas Aryan would be needing a real penance in order to redeem himself, if that remains possible then. Anyways, to be very honest, I can definitely connect and sympathize with Aaradhya, which I simply can't with Aryan. May be the feminist in me has taken over 😊.


@ Chandrima - Very well-written and well-articulated. 👏👏

And thanks for liking my post.

Regarding my second point. Yes, Offering not to marry as Aaba's dying wish was a better choice any day. In fact, even Aaru would understand that. Aaru said the wedding can wait but why are you breaking the relationship? But what did Aryan do - broke the relationship, kicked her out and agreed to marry another girl right away. And you are right, there was no remorse in him when he was getting married to Purva. He was nicely dressed up and even smiling. Just shows how selfish he is! And why not! Although born with a soft heart, a gift from his motherTulsi, he has Mahant's selfish traits in him, and Pavitra's wrong parvarish has made him what he is.

Regarding the payment for Aaru - how did I miss that. Yes should have been added to my list of his big mistakes.

And now he is going to share his bed with Purva, and be comfy cozy with her...the list of mistakes will goes on.

@Bold - Exactly my thoughts too. You have said it so well.👍🏼

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Oh wow .. such beautifully written posts ... N I agree with most of the points .. Except for why Aryan didnt give explanation in hospital/ rude in hospital... I dnt put the blame on him for that - his aabha ( who ws very important for him - in fact more important than his father ) ws in death bed for which his actions were blamed even by the doctor, his marriage to his love ws broken, n none in family wanted to wait to take a decision.. In fact he had even told aabha that he wont marry now n after aabha becomes alright he cn take the decisions.. If at all he had a little support from the family in form of Shashwat, the marriage to Poorva fiasco could hav been avoided..As for him not giving any explanation/ being rude- neither was he in a state of mind nor did he want to put more stress on aabha by allowing Aaru to meet aabha

I'm not relieving Aryan of his mistakes, he did make mistakes -- like any normal person would do .. All I'm telling is I can understand what he was goin through in the hospital...

Aaru 's mistake like all of u told is just believing in her grandmother ..

But what Aryan is doin right now - he needs to repent big time... locking her in a store room, sending peshgi, calling her devdasi continously (he has completely forgotten that he had promised Aaru he wil never condone all the devdasi / shuddhikaran prathas), n most importantly using another girl to put his WIFE down ..

I love my AaRa equally.. I love Aryan bcoz he is sensitive, emotional yet had a strong sense of right and wrong.. I love Aaradhya bcoz she is strong, independant n not the ever sacrificing type.. But both r so human n people make mistakes .. I just wish the makers had stuck to Aryan's charaterization a bit more ..

Both were used by their respective families -- Aryan for his grandfather's ego who didnt want to lose to Kumu, Aaru for her grandmother's revenge ...

All I want now is revelation of Aabha's n Kumu's deceit , Aryan grovelling 😆... N I want Aara together n teach KuPra a lesson..


But mostly I want Aara to TRUST each other and believe in each other--- they were in love , but not ready to trust each other. Aryan should hav trusted Aaru n given her a proper explanation, Aaru should have trusted in Aryan not to attempt rape her or any woman for that matter...

Lets hope the CVs wake up soon!!
Edited by pranati16 - 9 years ago

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