The MESS YHM is! Ish vs Ra, Ra vs Adi, Ruhi vs IshRa, its endless 26/5

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gravshrav23

@gravshrav23

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: rose1000

may be Ekta Kapoor believes in this kind of love. Hence she is preaching it. Who knows...In 21 st century, she is preaching things of 12th century.

I dont want to be mean, but if THIS is her idea of love and relationships, then I can understand why she isnt married as of now

a person who thrives and makes money off twisted relationships and making fun of things like fertility, religion, love, marriage, etc...will prolly be alone all his life...its simple - If I dont understand love and relationships, then I'll make sure everybody views it the same way I do...because I know nothing better

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Sheema

@infinity00

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Posted: 9 years ago

#32

Didn't watch the episode and didn't read the complete WU , read your take . I am actually scared of Raman's shouting and screaming , I can not tolerate finger pointing and shouting , what sort of educated and civilised man he is portraying , one of its kind ...I am not liking any of the characters of yhm , they are all aliens to me . Indian audience loves illogical stories , hence the TRP ( recently read an article and interview of a well respected writer about how they fiddle with TRP ) it's a shame that a progressive country is still enjoying, cherishing and producing regressive shows in abundance . For me YHM is no more , this one is definetly not the 2013/14 show.

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gravshrav23

@gravshrav23

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: infinity00
Didn't watch the episode and didn't read the complete WU , read your take . I am actually scared of Raman's shouting and screaming , I can not tolerate finger pointing and shouting , what sort of educated and civilised man he is portraying , one of its kind ...I am not liking any of the characters of yhm , they are all aliens to me . Indian audience loves illogical stories , hence the TRP ( recently read an article and interview of a well respected writer about how they fiddle with TRP ) it's a shame that a progressive country is still enjoying, cherishing and producing regressive shows in abundance . For me YHM is no more , this one is definetly not the 2013/14 show.

I am APPALLED at his behavior

I am certain now there was NO LOVE between the two...at least not from Raman's side

this is gross, I cant imagine in a country where women are constantly being dissuaded from speaking up for themselves and fighting for their rights, how can such stuff be aired day after day and people still watch and LIKE it?

I mean, How? I am so angry I feel like complaining to SP ...I knw it wont have any effect but still...this is disgusting

It actually looked scary the way Raman bore down on ishita, threatening her

The Raman of 2013/14 was tough on the outside, had a sarci behaviour...was a lil stand offish but had a heart of gold

the Raman we are seeing now has hate dripping in every word he speaks...not sparing ONE chance to insult his wife

I dont care if he's doing it out of jealousy/hurt/anger whatever, this is NOT THE WAY TO BEHAVE WITH YOUR SPOUSE...or ex, if that may be...

you cannot make a public spectacle of ur relationship and humiliate that person in this crude uncouth manner

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rose1000

@rose1000

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: gravity23

I am APPALLED at his behavior

I am certain now there was NO LOVE between the two...at least not from Raman's side

this is gross, I cant imagine in a country where women are constantly being dissuaded from speaking up for themselves and fighting for their rights, how can such stuff be aired day after day and people still watch and LIKE it?

I mean, How? I am so angry I feel like complaining to SP ...I knw it wont have any effect but still...this is disgusting

It actually looked scary the way Raman bore down on ishita, threatening her

The Raman of 2013/14 was tough on the outside, had a sarci behaviour...was a lil stand offish but had a heart of gold

the Raman we are seeing now has hate dripping in every word he speaks...not sparing ONE chance to insult his wife

I dont care if he's doing it out of jealousy/hurt/anger whatever, this is NOT THE WAY TO BEHAVE WITH YOUR SPOUSE...or ex, if that may be...

you cannot make a public spectacle of ur relationship and humiliate that person in this crude uncouth manner

Exactly Akansha. No matter how angry we get...is this the way to behave with anybody? Isn't he an educated CEO? But his behavior is like Gunda mawaali. I guess today he shouted at her even when Mani was not there. many are saying he gets angry when he sees Mani because of jealousy. But today, he was not there in the parking lot. So why did he want to throw her out, her things out.

That is hate, that is not love. Period.

The very sight of Ishita, he starts off...I wonder what is SP getting out of all this?? How regressive is Indian society? How can people like/defend such crap?

😡

The PH and Channel runners are bunch of sadists. Period. 😡

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traveller_girl

@traveller_girl

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 9 years ago

#35

I have nothing to say about the ep except that I feel horribly bad for Ishita...

Adi is both wrong and right

Awesome writeup as always

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gravshrav23

@gravshrav23

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: infinity00
Read this http://www.storypick.com/pathetic-tv-content/

Partly true and partly not

when those classy shows on Zindagi arrived on screen, ppl watched those too...and liked it

so u cud say ppl do get hooked to quality...but for the major part, its quantity over quality...we Indians have a penchant for everything that's fast-paced and doesn't require too much brainpower to analyse and understand...I'm not saying we are dumb, but we like quick fixes for entertainment...

its drama over sensibilities

its a twisted sort of romance over a love story with all essential elements intact

Women have forever been used as pawns in the entertainment industry...I dont think it will change that soon

but at least, they can NOT make fun of serious issues like fertility, marriage, even surrogacy...which husband just ropes in his ex-wife to birth his and the current's wife child yaar? WHICH SANE MAN DOES THAT?

And then you try and keep this glaring anomaly in the center of the story...so naturally it will keep getting disgusting as time passes

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gravshrav23

@gravshrav23

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: rose1000

Exactly Akansha. No matter how angry we get...is this the way to behave with anybody? Isn't he an educated CEO? But his behavior is like Gunda mawaali. I guess today he shouted at her even when Mani was not there. many are saying he gets angry when he sees Mani because of jealousy. But today, he was not there in the parking lot. So why did he want to throw her out, her things out.
That is hate, that is not love. Period.

The very sight of Ishita, he starts off...I wonder what is SP getting out of all this?? How regressive is Indian society? How can people like/defend such crap?

😡

The PH and Channel runners are bunch of sadists. Period. 😡

Yes. Raman has been talking like this sadakchhap small-time don, going about threatening people talking down to them...HE IS A CEO...Have the CVs FORGOTTEN that??😕

Do the scriptwriters even TAKE these things seriously?I mean, if ur portraying a CEO and show him to be this ultra-cool, ultra successful businessman, then understand that ANY BUSINESSMAN who talks and behaves like Raman will be forced to shut shop in less than a week if word gets out ...

this is so illogical...and so crass...

earlier, they at least showed us some instances of Ishu going to the clinic...she was this independent, smart woman who had a life of her own

now she's only embroiled in the Bhalla-Iiyer controversies and solving OTHER PPL'S PROBS than sorting her own life out!

Oh plzzz...Raman doesn't get angry just because Mani is around...whoever said that are fooling themselves

he gets angry at the mere sight of Ishita...

its not motivated by jealousy AT ALL

and even if it is, then why isnt Ishita behaving like a macchiwali and creating a scene whenever she sees Shagun?? She must also feel the pinch somewhere...

u got to keep a lid on ur emotions ...for Chrissake, Pihu was around too...is he settin a gud example by behaving like that in front of the kids?

I completely support what Adi did yest...this is mental and verbal abuse...NOT JUSTIFIED AT ALL

Ppl who want to elaborate on Raman's POV are prolly doing so coz of blind fandom, but this is simply no way to treat a woman...she was his wife dammit...she deserves that bare min of respect, if nothing else😡😡

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gravshrav23

@gravshrav23

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: traveller_girl
I have nothing to say about the ep except that I feel horribly bad for Ishita...
Adi is both wrong and right
Awesome writeup as always

Given how Raman behaved, Adi was more right than wrong

Raman has the privacy of his house to sort his issues..he does not always need to create a scene in the public

I cant imagine how women who ACTUALLY face these issues in real life must be dealing with it...so humiliating