Stupid, selfish Paridhi - Page 3

Originally posted by: NeerajaGirish

Is there any logic in this show. Jigar negative now? When he could have retaliated against Ahem and Kokila long time back. Paradi was always grey shade but not out and out negative. I hope cvs will stop butchering the character of Jigar and Paridhi to make us somehow accept new life partner for gopi

Originally posted by: Catmittens

I do agree that Kokila has largely controlled the decision making process. But it was explained in episodes years ago that it was Hetal and Baa's choice to grant Kokila that right because of her shrewdness. I think this was mentioned again after the first leap when Gopi returned to Modi bhavan with little Vidya... Hetal and Baa reiterated that Kokila had always been the most neutral, i.e. saw good from bad, hence them placing her in the most important position, but they said her decision to marry Ahem to Radha was the first time they had ever disagreed with her views.

I don't agree Kokila is the root cause as most of the turmoils have been through evil people deceiving everyone, not just her. Even Hetal, Baa, Ahem, Gopi etc are guilty of placing trust in bad people. When Madhu returned, Kokila was the only one who cottoned onto her deception - but still the others were blinded by Madhu's sob story and pleaded to let her stay in the house.

Modis didn't get Tolu married in a hurry - remember Tolu and Sona both fell in love with each other and then got married behind the backs of all the family members. So Paridhi was not alone in her stance, but the problem was that by the time she returned home, all the others had grown to accept Tolu's choice. I can understand Paridhi's hurt feelings completely. But her anger was completely misplaced. She should have understood her own stepson's feelings instead of being upset that she didn't get to choose her ideal bahu.

My point was that if it wasn't for the saas-bahu duo, Paridhi would not have the privileged existence that she enjoys. I wonder who's looking after her ill father!🤔

Originally posted by: Catmittens

"Vvvoootts wrong vid you, kaki ji?!"😡

I'm sorry to say that Paridhi's selfishness and stupidity has hit an all time high. Her wailing and shouting is completely unbearable but it's her attitude to Gopi and Kokila that stings the most. Both of them fought so hard to make Paridhi accepted in Modi bhavan. Kokila risked her relationships with Gopi, Hetal and Baa ONLY for Pari's sake. Gopi sacrificed 10 years of her life in jail so that Pari, crying and wailing that she wanted to raise Radha's child, could bring up the baby with Jigs. Is Paridhi grateful for all these sacrifices? Not one bit.

All Paridhi ever does all day long is complain how nobody respects her even though she has looked after the Modis for all these years. BUT both times when Paridhi has been in charge, the family has completely collapsed. When Gopi was in jail, did Paridhi stop Kinjal from abadoning her family and becoming a burden on the Modis? Did she stop kaki ji from leaving the house, living the life of a maid and receiving beatings from Urmila? Did she try to dissuade Ahem from taking Meera and Vidya away from their home and family? Did she even appreciate Gopi's ultimate sacrifice? Big fat NO.

And now here we are 4 years later. Gopi is depressed and lifeless after Ahem ji's tragic death and it's difficult to watch. Kokila's health has deteriorated completely because she's the only one looking after Gopi. 💔And is Paridhi helping out? Is she trying her best to get the two remaining pillars of the Modi family back up and running? No. All she is doing is living a life of luxury, taking and taking from the family without putting even love back into it.

AND... Paridhi has nobody but herself to blame for Monica getting injured when Kokila came into the bedroom. What IDIOT does yoga in a confined space right next to a door?!

And he can try all he likes but Jigar is no Ahem.😆

Originally posted by: NeerajaGirish

When somebody goes on tries to rub their decisions on you everyone and brush aside your objections then as soon as that person looses authority people give back. Kokila has always brushed aside anyone's objections and doing things her way. Never seen her listen to her own mother in law or sister in law.

Secondly there was no need to get Tolu married in a hurry in absence of Paradi Right or wrong she had some objections and getting him married behind her back? For me Kokila is the root cause for many troubles the family faced though I don't appreciate Paradi abusing her as she is elder

Originally posted by: EternalStars.

Paridhi and that Monica are unbearable at the moment.Whatever Modi Industries it was mainly because of Ahem. What does Jigar think of himself??🤢 I miss Rashi even more badly now.😭And our Original Kokila too.😭Actually speaking this show seems more realistic than it ever was,at the moment.😆