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Posted: 9 years ago
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Really yaar feel pity for Raman I hate Raman because of his words but inspite of that I feel pity for him
Really use aur ruhi mein koi Antar nahi hai in fact he is a mor childish than ruhi
He is really a cute jiddi Adiyal baccha
In precap he was really what I can say I have no word
The way at last he says tum mere liye kab SE it was totally childish he was alot hurt
As he was sitting and eating alone and ishita was with her family
I know Raman ke khud ke gusse SE apni ye halat ki hai but one thing we know he is very clean from heart
Ya I know he told some harsh word like banch and I will never justify those thing but it happens if he would have even adopted ruhi then also he would have done same as I sometime watch spk in that also the small girl is not his real daughter but sometime the lead even scold her own wife who is her real mother that u r not her mother type thing it's very difficult to get ride of guilt and remorse of ur daughter death moreover if u were not able to save her and more than that u were responsible for it main problem of Raman is he doesn't want to accept his world he think agar aisa hota to yeh hota like he blamed romi he doesn't understand accident happen by chance it doesn't tell u it is happening
So other than that I felt pity for him
1)when he was drunk and the way he was speaking like a child and the way he was searching her hand in car
2)then in police station outside when he first came to know ishita is alive and the way he took Bala hand was like a child
3)the way he was sad when ishita walked after Mani and before that the way he was looking at her like a child
4)today even when ishita agreed to do add for him he was happy more that she is not rival company it seems to me and a smile when she agreed was also like a child
5)when ishita walked to Mani he was that time also child
6)tomorrow sure I am going to cry by seeing him sitting alone and doing lunch
Sure his insecurity is obvious as noone in his views want him everyone feel not gud to live with him tomorrow when his own son to get his mother will do such a great attack how he will feel as father no matter what he has always there for his children
But he has to understand his angry nature and harsh word drove the whole world away from him and if he will continue this then one day he will be left alone in this world
If Raman really has mu of ishmani relationship then I really feel alot pity on him as how it would be feeling to him when he is seeing his wife is someone else
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nice analysis of Raman. but I dont think he feels Ishita is married to Mani. Else why will Toshiji tell him they will get her back to Bhalla house and decorate his room etc.? I think he feels Ishita did naatak of suicide and ran away with Mani. And he blames only her for Ruhi's death. had the cvs shown in any monologue his guilt for being a part of the stupid child swap plan or of having said horrible things to ishita which forced her to go away, I would have felt sorry for him. But he always only blames Ishita when anything goes wrong with HIS kids, He loves Ishita only when she does what he likes, else it is always blaming and shouting. He does not respect her, thats the most annoying bit...
And now why marry Shagun?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree to ur post..

n lyk u i also can never digest n justify his harsh words at al..
I too feel pity for him..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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excellent analysis dear šŸ‘

love it so much dear

after seeing so much post against raman i felt happy that still like you some of them there in forum understand his point of view also

everyone stick on his words not his emotions ( am not at all going to accept his words anymore )

simply cvs cover her mistake by making raman say worst words and cover his mistake by making her over close to friend ( who propose her already moreover his thinking is confused who she is for him friend or lover )

cvs simply split ishra us raman vs ishu ( who is right or wrong ) instead of focus on ishra together

for me both are wrong ( just paste what i post already )

instead of thinking about each other pain both think about their pain is main problem here

he never think by proposing another girl in front of his wife if how would his wife feel ?

she never think that by over closing nature to mani giving priority if how would her husband feel ?

both know that when it comes to shagun she has more insecurities moreover when comes to mani he has more insecurities

still doesn't understood one is hurt her by words and doings and another one is hurt him by silent and doings

if they think about each other problem will solved

Edited by maduragymhasium - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Superb post
glad to see Positive post for raman.
I can't relate to his words , he is wrong but He is in pain as well.
For me both ishra are wrong.
Raman should control his anger And ishita should use her brain.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sunitas123

Nice analysis of Raman. but I dont think he feels Ishita is married to Mani. Else why will Toshiji tell him they will get her back to Bhalla house and decorate his room etc.? I think he feels Ishita did naatak of suicide and ran away with Mani. And he blames only her for Ruhi's death. had the cvs shown in any monologue his guilt for being a part of the stupid child swap plan or of having said horrible things to ishita which forced her to go away, I would have felt sorry for him. But he always only blames Ishita when anything goes wrong with HIS kids, He loves Ishita only when she does what he likes, else it is always blaming and shouting. He does not respect her, thats the most annoying bit...

And now why marry Shagun?

I also not like his behavior toward ishita and I am also totally against it
But u can see what type of person he is he even not have been good to even ruhi in past 6 years
Even when he got to know ruhi is ashok child how he behaved with ruhi
He doesn't know to face reality it was clear when he was not having courage for doing DNA test and tried to convince himself what it would be if ruhi is not his daughter by blood but she is his daughter by everything
He loved Rohit inspite of not having blood relationship even for ruhi his love not vanished when in his view she was not his daughter by blood
The karma of mother always affect children and this is the reason of Adi and ruhi condition they have only got love from ishima and that's why all hate and love is for ishima nobody else
I really love adi love for ishima on the day he accepted ishita he accepted her with whole heart
And u can see even pihu mother left her but she was not deprived of anything as her mother gudness has given her fruit all love her inspite of she being partially responsible for their state
So it is rightly said the karma of parents affect their children
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: UMAT

I also not like his behavior toward ishita and I am also totally against it
But u can see what type of person he is he even not have been good to even ruhi in past 6 years
Even when he got to know ruhi is ashok child how he behaved with ruhi
He doesn't know to face reality it was clear when he was not having courage for doing DNA test and tried to convince himself what it would be if ruhi is not his daughter by blood but she is his daughter by everything
He loved Rohit inspite of not having blood relationship even for ruhi his love not vanished when in his view she was not his daughter by blood
The karma of mother always affect children and this is the reason of Adi and ruhi condition they have only got love from ishima and that's why all hate and love is for ishima nobody else
I really love adi love for ishima on the day he accepted ishita he accepted her with whole heart
And u can see even pihu mother left her but she was not deprived of anything as her mother gudness has given her fruit all love her inspite of she being partially responsible for their state
So it is rightly said the karma of parents affect their children


i actually feel sorry for Adi. He is not attached to Shagun and Raman treats him like a punching bag. He had everyone around him, still he was alone as well, until he saw his Ishima... Raman has never been fair to his kids, it has always been one over the other...at any point in time. But yes he NEEDS Ishita to get him back to life...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Well, I agree to bits.
But, he actually gained all these pains and kind of deserves these at this point.. Otherwise he will never understand the value of Ishita... He needs to go to those phases which Ishita always had to go because of his past, but he hardly felt those (Except for some situations). He says he understands her, but his actions most of the times don't show that. And, thus, this time, he needs to experience these and he will then know what family and Ishita are for him and that every time anger can't be treated as defense mechanism. One day, if he continues like this, he will be all alone. Then, crying buckets won't help him get back to anyone. So, before it's late, he should realize his mistakes. He should feel guilty for his deed regarding 7 years back and now. He is just sad that Ishita isn't with him and he needs her, but no where it seems like that he has realized his mistake, no where it seems like he feels guilty for what pain he gave to Ishita. Until, there is no realization from him... he actually doesn't deserve to be with anyone.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Bang onšŸ‘
You just spoke like ishita😊 Only she can understand her Raavan Kumar in this way. She's not giving back to him for his words, because she knew very well that he behaves this way if he's angry😳
Here people(including me) are getting irritated with his words, but there she's enjoying his proximity while dancing him.😳 And of course he sulks like a babyšŸ˜† KP looks damn cute when he sulksšŸ˜‰
Both of them had done enough mistakes, their milan is one heart felt talk away😳
None of the either is mahaan that they don't deserve the other. They are imperfectly perfect😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Superb analysis one thing I want to add.he even don't spare himself even although he was not at fault.
When bus bomb drama happened and ISHITA suffered miscarriage,he took the all blame on himself,their baby died due to him and he suffered and punished HIMSELF.he was not totally responsible for the mishap but he thought he can avoid that so he accepted he was guilty.likewise he blamed ISHITA and romi ohk ISHITA can't avoid it but he thought if she not taken ACP then might be ruhi won't died she may be kidnapped but alive.romi if he was lil attentive then baby won't be taken at 1st place.its foolish to think a premature baby who is under supervision need to be taken out,so if romi could act smartly then nidhi won't get hold on baby,so romi was also responsible.
So it's normal for any father to act violently.
And ya he is child at heart,showing full on tantrum,i was like shocked bande ko itching ho rahi hai,tabiyat kharab HAI fir bhi biwi ke sath nok jhok jari hai, taunt karna nahi bhulega, it's like oxygen for him ,such a nautanki.
I think he tried to slap adi this time coz of aliya.ab koi aur ladki aake tumhari biwi ko bole ki aap inki care mat kijiye ye apke pas aane ke liye natak kar rahe hai to obviously gussa to aayega.it was all adi plan may be so he was angry adi ki wajah se use us ladki ki bakwas bateinj jhelni padi jo ki bilkul galat thi.
Puttar don't worry I m with u. 😊

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