Originally posted by: premparbat
Unmatched Resilience
hiya premratan... sorry about the late response.. had gone through it...
Resilience is tested in the most toughest of situations . Repeatedly , blow after blow , you take it all in and withstand the tough times bestowed upon you . As you say it makes you tough, it makes you strong and on the flip side it hardens you and results in a loss of innocence giving you a new way to look at the world.
you said it mate.. the others badly lack blows of life..
The current track to me is about Dhani's Education . Her journey from the land of innocence to the land of reality . Having seen a lot in her young life her emancipation is not complete yet . Her welcome to AN was a threshold of burning coals ...despite Viplav clearing them time to time she finds herself walking on embers daily . With abuse hurled at her and undermining of her confidence she accepts it all because she has Viplav by her side . And What if is he is not there with her forever , a question raised by Viplav himself ..how will she survive ?
welll pointed out... almost prohetic.. some change ahead...?
A Lesson both need to learn- How will they survive without each other .
oh yes.. he might crack up.. but she having gone through rough patches will support him
In this particular episode I was struck by the differences in these two characters . Viplav & Dhani . We've often talk about how similar they are and the love that binds them but their basic fabric is so different , especially todays on the theme of "reseilemcy " . Both are immature and get played by others because of their transparent and loving nature , ts the tough times when both deviate.
Viplav
When hit by a situation Viplav with his impulsive nature takes the high road , which is correct , but without much thought to its consequence. Latest , Asking PC to take over the gold for the Sita Mandir. Did he consult with anyone ? Nope ..made the decision and went his way .
yes he did.. only saw his family honour at stake..
Very gullible to outside influences . Before Kanak and now Kamini thinking them to be well wishers.
one happens to be his maa and the other is his wife's teacher???
Very reactive and emotional specially when it comes to the ones he loves. Of course he defends Dhani like mad and so it is not a surprise if anyone raises a finger at his dadaji . He refuses to hear and reason. Just reacts in anger .
disappointing his anger.. he is no thug the man is a professional... colurs for trps are mixing his present character with his previous one...
Dhani
Hit by a situation that is troubling Dhani immediately wishes to set it right . She too does not think it thru as her only wish is to take away the pain . Latest point in case when Kamini baits her about the feeling a lawyer goes thru when loosing a case Dhani yet again wants o rectify the problem and uses her limited knowledge to set it right .
kamini... has got both of them wrapped around her little finger she is smart..she knows their weakness bua has briefed her well
Very gullible too and uses her own righteous thinking as her guide and influence . Mentioning to Kanak - If dadaji is innocent ...Needs to learn everything is not black & white.
yes... daft at times
- Goes in a state of freeze and unable to hit back when attacked.
its this look after family vow..
This contrast and their latest miscommunication ( which is so fabricated by the cvs ) is the reason why they are where they are today . Two individuals with best of intentions for each other and others pitted against each other .
sooo annoying .. forced upon us me to wondering what is viplav's problem after all the talk about trust
Love stories are not about a brief period of courting , marriage and honeymoon. Its a long long journey of trust, faith , respect , communication . Its the Ishq that is enduring and RESILIANT against all forces. Are Viplav & Dhani there yet .
welll ratna first few months of marriage are make or break.. people are living together ,learning about each other... with these its family politics plus this kamini woman..
Hammie . A better second half than the first . Was disgusted with the first half with Kanak force feeding Dhani. Its a shame that the writers resort to such a thing. Its about human dignity and treating a bhau like a dog is not my idea of getting trps or applauses. Its is down right repulsive.
yes... horrid... eisha acted so well... poor dear.
Viplav angry at his wife was totally justified. Dhani needs to know what she is missing. I liked that scene a lot.
yes realistic...
A new track starting , without last ones closed , or are they ...with an anonymous phone call.
hummm a certain mr.and mrs are back in town
Lets see where this goes.
yes... hang on itsnot boring at lest
Thanks Hammie for your takes. I read them everything single day and most of the times they make the episode look much better than they actually are.
cheers mate... thanks.for commenting.. had a feeling will hear from you...😃 cheers ratna.. much love , yours hammie
Great stuff.