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Posted: 9 years ago
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People bashing RAMAN for being abusive N still hurt ISHITA by his words.
But that is his nature although he suffered alot still he is doing same I know the reason for him spitting venom is totally different now than preleap or manhoos raat ,now he is safeguarding himself may be.

But ISHITA is also in the same boat.
Her jagatmata nature is continue N she will be always in this mode nobody N no incidence can change it,RAMAN may be change for sometime for ISHITA but ISHITA JM mode will never change ever perhaps RAMAN also like her this nature.
Her JM mode only involved her in murder track which lead to need of walik N nidhi get a chance to start her childhood revenge dream plan from RAMAN.but did ISHITA changes a bit? Answer is a BIG nooo.
So when she can't change N loved by RAMAN N viewers with it then why not RAMAN remain the same N not got bashed by viewers (i purposaly not writing fan coz they won't bash RKB at least I m not) and loved by ISHITA.

Ps-its not RKB vs IRB post ,its just a normal fact which happens in real life too.we don't have the facility of a flawless person always so why biased nature for male & female.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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ishra fans also nvr change

they bash them

they ignore them (woh bhi mushkil hai)

bt nvr forget to love them
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Posted: 9 years ago
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You got a thing wrong. .Ishita is not loved by viewers for her JM nature.. many hate her for this. But, Raman is loved by viewers even for his dirty, abusive and third class nature. Here lies the major difference.
And, one thing you said right that Raman loves her JM nature.. Yes, he loves and praises her till she keeps sacrificing and doing good things for his kids, family and himself. But, when she fails to do this or does a mistake, his love goes to pilgrim and abuse covers all his hearts. Yeah.. this is his nature always.. Ishita is a devi for him till his wishes are fulfilled, when she doesn't, Ishita is a stranger for him👏!!
And, Raman isn't the same by his words this time.. He has crossed all limits being a loving husband once. No husband will go to this extent of abuse for the wife he loves in any situation where he made her totally stranger in just few seconds. I repeat.. hi crossed all his limits and I guess, 7 years wasn't enough for him to learn anything from his limit crossing abuse. Actually, this is also constant for him that he never learns from mistake cos he immediately does the same mistake for which he felt guilty🤣.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Comparing mistakes doesn't make one person guiltless.

In Indian TV - the FL is almost always shown as near perfect, her actions rationalized, self-sacrificing & so on.

YHM is unique bc Ishita still makes makes mistakes, but often when she does - Raman makes a bigger mistake or they show everything working out (compare the ends of the bhoot track led by Ishita to the Shanaya track led by Raman)...

This view of FLs being near Devis who silently suffer is shackles women to regressive expectations & is just oppressive. By not openly saying talking about her character flaws or when Ishita errs like we do with Raman...we almost perpetuate this oppressive stereotype and say that we as viewers want flawless women

The times I most like Ishita are when she is impulsive & wrong - ie news interview bashing Raman, CCTVing Raman, etc.

Now please no one interpret this as me absolving anyone of anything - I just think both make mistakes & thus both should be discussed.
Edited by -K.13- - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: DivianTanz_Divz

You got a thing wrong. .Ishita is not loved by viewers for her JM nature.. many hate her for this. But, Raman is loved by viewers even for his dirty, abusive and third class nature. Here lies the major difference.

And, one thing you said right that Raman loves her JM nature.. Yes, he loves and praises her till she keeps sacrificing and doing good things for his kids, family and himself. But, when she fails to do this or does a mistake, his love goes to pilgrim and abuse covers all his hearts. Yeah.. this is his nature always.. Ishita is a devi for him till his wishes are fulfilled, when she doesn't, Ishita is a stranger for him👏!!
And, Raman isn't the same by his words this time.. He has crossed all limits being a loving husband once. No husband will go to this extent of abuse for the wife he loves in any situation where he made her totally stranger in just few seconds. I repeat.. hi crossed all his limits and I guess, 7 years wasn't enough for him to learn anything from his limit crossing abuse. Actually, this is also constant for him that he never learns from mistake cos he immediately does the same mistake for which he felt guilty🤣.


Thanks for sharing ur view.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -K.13-

Comparing mistakes doesn't make one person guiltless.

In Indian TV - the FL is almost always shown as near perfect, her actions rationalized, self-sacrificing & so on.

YHM is unique bc Ishita still makes makes mistakes, but often when she does - Raman makes a bigger mistake or they show everything working out (compare the ends of the bhoot track led by Ishita to the Shanaya track led by Raman)...

This view of FLs being near Devis who silently suffer is shaking to women & oppressing & by not openly saying talking about her character flaws or when Ishita errs like we do with Raman...we almost perpetuate that we as viewers want flawless women

The times I most like Ishita are when she is impulsive & wrong - ie news interview bashing Raman, CCTVing Raman, etc.

Now please no one interpret this as me absolving anyone of anything - I just think both make mistakes & thus both should be discussed.


Thanks for ur view.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweet.Aman

<font size="5" color="#ff0066" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">ishra fans also nvr change</font>


<font size="5" color="#ff0066" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">they bash them</font>

<font size="5" color="#ff0066" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">they ignore them (woh bhi mushkil hai)</font>

<font size="5" color="#ff0066" face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">bt nvr forget to love them</font>


Yup we never change.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ohk I m kinda confused ri8 now N totally distress by thinking about ISHRA , so I m just gonna f**k the storyline N will watch YHM for divanruabhi acting which is worth my time.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Raman is not the same. Earlier he's used to be a perfect gentleman. It's sad bad true that since he's fallen in love with Ishita, he's become someone else--a monster as his critiques call him. Wonder what good it served to him by falling for Ishita??
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Posted: 9 years ago
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U always cant justify raman's venomous words by his anger...if was guilty of his words he wud not have repeated the same...but he was faking guiltiness so that anyone cant accuse him...he is repeatedly verbally abusing ...that cant be anger...

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