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Posted: 9 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves



Riya's sasural and husband give her nothing but tears and heartbreak. Why has she put up with this nonsense like an undereducated woman? Even an undereducated woman will find means to protect herself from mindgames played by everyone in the family. Chanda seems to be a decent gilrl but forced to do things to satisfy Sarla. If Sarla sells her to a brothel house? Chanda is jumping from frying pan into the fire willingly. I am not bothered about this girl Chanda who seems to be as mindless and as clueless.
But I am bothered when Riya who was smiling suddenly burst into ears talking to Bunty. Bunty's answer was right. 'So what,let Shivam get married and as it is he is not caring for you anymore'. Inspite of having people like Bunty and her father, Riya is crawling before all those begging them to give some space to her all in the name of love.
Will Riya stop interfering in their matters?
Will Riya stop hiding things?
As it is she is raring to solve the problems of Preeti and Nimmi in her own way which irritates everyone.


The best thing for Riya would have been:

When Dadi met her with Divorce papers, she shudve taken a day to think it over... LAter shudve called Raghav n asked him when can she n her father come over to talk.

Then when Raghav is around, she shudve asked showed the papers to Shivam, and asked him what is the meaning of all this... How can he so easily break his promises he had taken during marriage... is this what marriage means to him and his family...

She shudve apologized but only for the fault of not telling Raghav, Kaushalya and Shivam that Preeti is missing n she has urged Nimmi to take her place as the bride... rest all is not her fault but Preeti's n Nimmi's only...

Then she shudve asked Shivam if he really wants to divorce her... if he says yes, then sign it and tell him, that she loves him and always thought well for him n his family and its his n their loss, that they cudnt realize it...

Then she shudve left with her head held high...let Shivam Kaushalya n the gang rot with Shantiya n Sarla sucking their blood everyday...they themselves want it...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Maverick_me

I so wish Nirmala gets a foothold in Sarla's house😈that'll be kind of poetic justice.

Why can't Rani & Riya gang up with each other to teach these thugs a lesson? Still cvs are not doing justice to the protagonists and is not an equal fight. Still Riya searches for words when it comes to give a fitting reply to Shanti. Still she behaves quite politely with Shanti , while there's not need for that.

The reason Riya is still trying to answer back is her upbringing. One cannot forget ones upbringing tha easily.till now she was polite to everyone and even. Gave respect to people like Amit.suddenly becoming rude and heartless is not easy whereas for shantiya its easy on one scene they showed shanti and sarla stealing and hiding vegetable from vegetable seller
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: savebookworm

The reason Riya is still trying to answer back is her upbringing. One cannot forget ones upbringing tha easily.till now she was polite to everyone and even. Gave respect to people like Amit.suddenly becoming rude and heartless is not easy whereas for shantiya its easy on one scene they showed shanti and sarla stealing and hiding vegetable from vegetable seller


well, she did answer back to Shantiya right after marriage, when Shantiya cursed her father for giving less money in Neg... She said, "My father won't do any such thing, so dont curse him"

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Posted: 9 years ago
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@anjs

This is one of the most dignified posts Ive read in a while. THIS is how someone who is self assured and confident and respects themselves behaves, without needing to stoop to anyone else's level. I love it. The tigress within me wants her to rip them to shreds until they have nothing left- but in reality, with real emotions, this is probably what I would do too.

I would add that if Shivam said no, I don't want a divorce, then she would have to set some new "ground rules" that he keeps his anger in check, trusts her and learns to accept her for who she is instead of constantly trying to change her and downgrade her. Because if they continue on the way they are now without addressing all these problems, then nothing is really solved. Its back to square one again.

And yes, if he says he does want a divorce then she should put everything out in the open. Tell them or him of Shantis plan to oust her all along, congratulate her on winning and getting what she wants. Tell them of Shantis plan to give Sarla the house etc, in fact tell them everything she knows and tell them that now she has nothing to lose, they may as well know the truth. Believe her or not, that's their problem, but let them all know in no uncertain terms that they are all being deceived and manipulated by shanti and then just walk out. Leave them with that. They wont believe her at first, thinking she is just trying to be spiteful- but the truth always comes out eventually. And one day when their entire family will be ruined and the life sucked out of them by Shanti, they will see her true colours and only then will they think about what they did to Riya.

It would be fitting, as she lives her life with her head held high and with a man who really loves her one day in the future.

Anyway, loved your post.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Bunty and Anupam talk so much sense. Its like they are the voice of us viewers.

I thought I'd continue watching this if Riya returns and tries to expose Shanti but she has this weird intention to please and cook for everyone. Doesn't she have better ways to win over Shivam? Can't she just start collecting evidences to show that she didn't do anything wrong it was all Sarla and Shanti's fault. Just telling everyone about it is not enough.

Now when we had hope Riya would do something good they have reintroduced this Amit Rani Nirmala Ashok tracks. How many times will they show these annoying repetitive scenes of Rani serving food to Amit? Even Nimmi's story isn't going any further.

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