They looked apart, yet they were together- Adarsh and Swa

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I loved Swadarsh a lot. That scene where Swa looks at Adarsh when Suha calls off the engagement. They both were rock solid on their stand, yet Swa wanted him to come to her and Adarsh he looked like he will just go and hug her. Both were breaking from inside and it only needed a small sign from one of them for other to take action.
Yes Suha called off the engagement. But look at the effect of it on everyone. The complete younger brigade feeling guilty. Appa feeling guilty.
Loved the way Jai took Abhay at task. When did your Father-in-law's ego got into you. And Abhay was like do you think I am happy seeing their engagement called off.
Jaya as usual gives the most sane advice. She knew what Swa wanted. As a woman she understood Swa that in her most vulnerable moment whom a woman needs her is her partner, her husband. And she asks Adarsh to call and speak to Swa. She says things will clear out.
Abhay and Asad well they plan it out and scene in Kabootar khana was beautiful. Swadarsh fight. But the fact is that they fought. They didn't stand silent. Suhas says disagreement in a relation. Does she even understand disagreements are part of a healthy relationships. Where both partners can tell their POV, where they can fight and still come together. For me that fight was quite natural. Both will not bend. Will stand where they are standing. It happens, happens in marriage life. And after sometime when you think with cool head you know you have mistake, he knows he have mistake and well mostly sorry happens from both sides as both need each other. This dynamics is what Suhas doesn't understand, because she has never seen such dynamics in her life.
And look finally what happened. Ramakrishnan calls Ahuja to sinha house. Because for him since Adarsh feels he has to say sorry that means he has done some mistake. it is not Suhasini but Adarsh who impacts Ramakrishnan. And his daughter choosing him over and above her future life .
I always say if you cant be true to your present relation, how can you be truthful in the future relation

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Loved their cute fight at the stadium.. I was just thinking of what u said that fights like this brings the couple closer and makes their bond stronger..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yes Ria when you fight and once you come together after fight you do analyze why the fight happened. And next time similar situation occur you will handle it in a much better way. Actually by making them fight Suhas is making their relation stronger.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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This fight was necessary. The stance they both took in Sinha house was understandable too.
They both had a pact, and both thought other will support. And both didnot.
Good Abhay Asad atleast gave them mauka to talk it out! It could have otherwise gone miserably wrong.
Looking forward to see how they patch up.

Jay & Jaya work so well in tandem. Both are mature & sorted on their own. (After seeing picture of Jay with stains, hope Jaya doesn't get hurt in that blast)

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Posted: 9 years ago
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@shru amazing analysis as usual.. Haan i loved the episode... There were good things and bad things both..
I found a positivity over there , don't know whether this will happen or not in near future... Yesterday almost everyone supported adhu n swa and encouraged adhu to speak to swa though adhu didnt stood up for swa but in near future when in bomb blast case manohar will be cought and asad will be blamed .. swa will stand alone to fight for asad crossing her dehleez and no one will support her except adhu... so bomb blast will happen after marraige tabhi toh swa will cross her dehleezđŸ˜†.,.,.
negative thing was i thought that appa will go n ask for forgiveness but never expected him to turn like this.. i mean i thought first ahuja and then appa will apologoise..đŸ˜­
the next negative thingy is suha turning out to be a sophisticated vamp đŸ˜†

Fights makes the relationship strong and its good for a healthy relationship... It deepens the bond altogether and fight happens when we find mistakes with our respective partners , opinion differences , situation differences , family differences , circumstantial differences which on a positive note teaches us a lot of good things and prepares us to handle the difficult situations by holding each other and by forming the support of each other.. Well understanding these things is not suhaa's cup of thea!!!!!!!!!!đŸ˜†.. She know how to play games , manipulate , dominate and rule.. but these things work in court room and nor in family especially not in relationshipsđŸ˜³
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@Gayatri I knew Appa will go by the turn of events. Seeing his daughter in pain because of him, any father will go.
Yes in bomb blast it will be Adarsh only for Swa, but I guess then every family member will come
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: spdp

This fight was necessary. The stance they both took in Sinha house was understandable too.
They both had a pact, and both thought other will support. And both didnot.
Good Abhay Asad atleast gave them mauka to talk it out! It could have otherwise gone miserably wrong.
Looking forward to see how they patch up.

Jay & Jaya work so well in tandem. Both are mature & sorted on their own. (After seeing picture of Jay with stains, hope Jaya doesn't get hurt in that blast)



I doubt anyone will be seriously injured. But its a big blow on the face of Sinha family. I wish their married life would have started at a good note but Asad will not let Swa live in peace đŸ¤¢ His irresponsible behaviour has landed Swa in tight spot every time.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@sp I was not wrong yesterday. Real power should come in the hands of Jai and Jaya. Irrespective of their differences what both of them share is the happiness of everyone in the family. If you see they are the ones who have sacrificed their lives for their parents ( both sides actually) and yet for their siblings there is no bitterness in them.
it is not like what I don't have the other also should not have. It is more like what they went through their other siblings shouldn't go through.
Power of a generation should be in such hands who knows to use it constructively. And Adarsh-Swa should ensure it comes to them. Manohar-Suhas should stop doing back seat driving for their kids life.
It's time they should take vanaprastha and Grihasthrama should be left to Jaidev and Jaya to handle đŸ˜†đŸ˜†
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shru, great analysis. I agree with you. Fights are normal in every relationship.

I remember, when I was young (I still think I am, but let us say when I was a little girl đŸ˜†), I had asked my grand mother what love way. I know, insane right... I had watched some stupid romantic movie or something when I was 8 or something and wondered what it was. It has been many years since then, but I still remember what she told me. She said Love is when you accept someone knowing their faults, and are still able to cherish them unconditionally (Well, not the exact same words. She told it to me in my mother tongue, but this was the essence of it).

How much ever you say you should be each other's strength, be each other's support, etc, having fights is also very natural in every relationship. You cannot not have it. And fights are what makes your relationship stronger, because it is when you fight that you see the less likable characteristics of your partners - anger, stubbornness, forcefulness, arrogance, harshness, impoliteness, sarcasm etc.. and it is under these situations that you feel loneliness, heart-break etc. If after such an episode you can still love someone unconditionally, then your relationship is strong.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yes priti. Maybe one of the key reasons I cannot watch mush or subservience beyond a point. It looks so un natural to me.
Beauty of the relation is in facing conflicts and successfully coming out of it.

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