Jaya and Jaya Dev

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hydrogensulphid

@hydrogensulphid

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Posted: 9 years ago

Jaya and Jaya Dev have a "Loveless" marriage. That too for five years without anyone knowing about it.

Now Jaya all the time is trying to please her husband and is listening to taunts and insutlts

Why because he "loved" some other girl.

But JayaDev does he not think of the injustice he is doing to the girl who he married?

What did his wife do? For his "loveless" state?

Why should she suffer his taunts? of all things? How much injustice can be done to a woman in a house of lawyers?

And Jaya why does she continue to try to please her husband/

Does she not have any self respect? If not love at least her husband should feel guilty he ruined her life for his fancy love. and try to at least give her respect and not taunts.

As for Jaya why does she not have a career? why is she cooking in the house when ma in law is a busy lawyer?

Why does she not do something of her own rather than trying to please her husband all the time?

If marriage is not normal there is so much a woman can do get a job do some business occupy oneself to forget the misery of married life.

Why is she like dutiful bahu when sasu maa is a working lady?

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Jemimah90

@Jemimah90

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Posted: 9 years ago

jaya is trying to become an ekta maiya lead... 😆 mahaan types😆..

and regarding their relation i would say something on this " iss rishtey se ummed dono haar jaayenge toh rishta nahin rahega... mein umeed rakhoongi... paanch saal se ummed ki hai.. aage bhi umeed rakhoongi "😆😆😆 these were jaya's words..

kiss rishtey ki baath ho rahi hai ? i m confused ... !!! non existent cheezoon pe koi umeed kaise rakh sakta hai??? heights!!!!🤣

ab koi zidd pe add jaaye what can we do!!!?...😆

umeed rakho not bad.. lekin paanch saal its tooo much..

Edited by yawfeh - 9 years ago

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hydrogensulphid

@hydrogensulphid

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: yawfeh
jaya is trying to become an ekta maiya lead... 😆 mahaan types😆..
and regarding their relation i would say something on this " iss rishtey se ummed dono haar jaayenge toh rishta nahin rahega... mein umeed rakhoongi... paanch saal se ummed ki hai.. aage bhi umeed rakhoongi "😆😆😆 these were jaya's words..
kiss rishtey ki baath ho rahi hai ? i m confused ... !!! non existent cheezoon pe koi umeed kaise rakh sakta hai??? heights!!!!🤣
ab koi zidd pe add jaaye what can we do!!!?...😆
umeed rakho not bad.. lekin paanch saal its tooo much..

It is stupid and also sad. By falling all over her husband Jaya is going to make matters worse.

That way strange this "fancy love" is. How can anyone ruin a girl's life for the sake of his "fancy love' for all you know the "lady love" may not even be aware of his "love".

And then why did Jayadev agree to marry at all? any innocent girl ? and then why does he taunt her when it is not Jaya's fault his lady love and he could not unite.

He should go taunt his mother.

His mom is a working lady and her bahu is a doormat wife who does nothing except "serve" her husband.

Have self respect Jaya stand up for yourself. Do something in life. Be something. Stop being doormat.

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Sadie

@--starstruck--

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Posted: 9 years ago

I kind of understand their stance. You know it is said that the higher class society is actually the one who is the most rigid and orthodox. Divorce is an extremely taboo subject in the higher class society and people are so worried about what society will think, what will their image be in the social circle, etc etc hence divorce becomes tricky. So ironic that the middle class thinks divorce is easier in the higher class when actually thats not the case. This is something we had studied in Sociology and we didn't really grasp this concept that time but now I'm understanding it.

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hydrogensulphid

@hydrogensulphid

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: --starstruck--
I kind of understand their stance. You know it is said that the higher class society is actually the one who is the most rigid and orthodox. Divorce is an extremely taboo subject in the higher class society and people are so worried about what society will think, what will their image be in the social circle, etc etc hence divorce becomes tricky. So ironic that the middle class thinks divorce is easier in the higher class when actually thats not the case. This is something we had studied in Sociology and we didn't really grasp this concept that time but now I'm understanding it.

I understand totally. when you live in high class society there is more at stake. than middle class.

But to ill treat a human being that too one's own wife who got married to a person who does ":love her " " because of his so called fancy love is meanness. because it is not that lady's fault that she was the "perfect choice" for her sasu maa.

C'mon have a heart. dont be a good pati because you love someone one else. but at least be a good human being. and have sympathy.

Your own mama trampled all over your heart. But is it necessary for you to do the same? hubby and wife have equal rights in a relationship. and hubby cannot ill treat a wife or taunt her.

explain the situation to her and be kind at least .

for that matter who is practising celibacy nowadays s for their so called fancy love? I have seen men having relationship with their wives in spite of having an earlier love and not being able to marry them. they have children too with their arranged marriage wives and treat them as second best or door mats.. and still they never take their wives out or be nice to them because they think they are not good enough for them.

I feel in such situations the said men are more in love with themselves than any other physical woman.and since they cannot go against their parents they take their frustration out on their wives who come from "perfect" families with "perfect" dowry and with lots of dreams.

These women cannot work cannot do anything they love they just get ill treated by their husbands after satisfying their needs and even bearing them children.

At least Jaya is not physically exploited by her husband.

I think these men should go for therapy and they should get it into their heads that they cannot ill treat their wives.

Edited by hydrogensulphid - 9 years ago

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ViTharvforever

@ViTharvforever

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Posted: 9 years ago

every serial deserves a mahaan bahu...otherwise they will not get persmission to telecast the show😆

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MuguetDScorpion

@MuguetDScorpion

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 9 years ago

Actually I love Jaya's character but it's frustrating to see her always running behind her husband. When she told everyone about their loveless married life I thought finally she has woken up. But she is again doing what she is best at. 😕 I really hope some day she teaches him such a lesson that he starts running behind her. 😆 Waiting for the day he will start respecting her. No need to love her but at least show her some respect. 🥱

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Milsha

@Dandelion.

Voyager

+ 5

Posted: 9 years ago

Yeah totally agree with you! and why does suhasini want an EDUCATED bahu when the two bahus she has is always sitting at home. And what's the definition of education for her like really