Samaj Sewa kr do......Please!!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hello


Continue only and only if u r a Samaj sevi person of very helping nature else this post will results in waste of ur precious time.

I m here just to share my mental state and feelings at this moment. Please help me if u can.

I m in class 12th. I scored 94% in ICSE class 10. I m preparing for IIT JEE 2017 with VMC. Don't know what has happened to me...😔

I was always feel restlessness, annoyed and frustrated. I sleep for most of the time of the day...whole night... and even in the class... I m sleeping in class since a week. My eyes simply starts closing and I can't help myself.

The most important part of preparation is practice and that is the thing I m least doing. I don't feel like solving questions. I feel sleepy and distracted because of which I m unable to solve questions. Even now my eyes are closing. God knows what happened to me. Please help guys if u can.

I know this is not the correct place to say all this but I really need help as IIT is my passion and I want to achieve it.

I must go to some psychologist but I don't have that money and can't discus is with my parents. Moreover all mental conditions in India is considered as mental retardness.

Mujhe IIT krna h...please help me motive...concentate or in any way u can.

Please guys...!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hello
Don't say that this is not the correct place
Sometimes you get the answers to your questions in weirdest places
And this is definitely not the weirdest place
And you don't even have to go to a psychiatrist.
It's not worth it.

Coming to the solution for your problem
You said you scored 94% in your 10th standard
That's a very good score according to me

Give yourself a break... For at least a week
Starting from today close all your books empty your mind
Shut your mind from all the studies for at least a week or 10 days
Enjoy yourself, watch movies , listen to music , go out with your family or friends
Forget about your studies totally for some time

Than after 10'days with a fresh mind open your books
You will feel concentrated and focused
Trust me this formula will definitely work

Thanks

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Redcrystal

Hello

Don't say that this is not the correct place
Sometimes you get the answers to your questions in weirdest places
And this is definitely not the weirdest place
And you don't even have to go to a psychiatrist.
It's not worth it.

Coming to the solution for your problem
You said you scored 94% in your 10th standard
That's a very good score according to me

Give yourself a break... For at least a week
Starting from today close all your books empty your mind
Shut your mind from all the studies for at least a week or 10 days
Enjoy yourself, watch movies , listen to music , go out with your family or friends
Forget about your studies totally for some time

Than after 10'days with a fresh mind open your books
You will feel concentrated and focused
Trust me this formula will definitely work

Thanks


I m having classes at every alternate so it is almost impossible to take a break. In the class...peer pressure and all can just can't let u think anything else than IIT...which from my passion is now turning in a fear.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Prachi55


I m having classes at every alternate so it is almost impossible to take a break. In the class...peer pressure and all can just can't let u think anything else than IIT...which from my passion is now turning in a fear.


If that's the case even than
You stay put in your class take all the notes and
Concentrate on the lecture
And than have fun right after
If you get scared from the one and only passion you have for your studies
That too for IIT than you will definitely loose interest
So take it easy
I hope I am helping you
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Redcrystal



If that's the case even than
You stay put in your class take all the notes and
Concentrate on the lecture
And than have fun right after
If you get scared from the one and only passion you have for your studies
That too for IIT than you will definitely loose interest
So take it easy
I hope I am helping you


I will try this. You are surely helping me...😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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hey my stressbuster tu khud hi itna stress ho gayi hai baby,,,,,,,,,
first of all stop thinking like this,,,,,,,,

jitna jyada tum apni is situation ko le k sochogi your condition will be more worse than this...

do the things which makes u happy...

spend some quality time with ur family and frnds,,,,,,,,,

share your problem with them,,,,,,,,,parents know us better than ourselves,,,,,,,,

jab bhi tumhe neend ane lage distract your mind...kisi aur kaam mein lag jao apne mind ko divert karo...

sometimes it happens with us we feel frustated...lazy and all...

don't stress yourself too much...

take break for sometime while u r studying,,,,,,,,,

continously study mat karna...u will feel bored and sleepy...

frnds ke saath beth k study karo...discuss karo ek dusre ke saath ...

learn like u r teaching to someone else,,,,,,,,,

evening mein thoda bahar jao kahi pe ...like some garden, park where u can enjoy the nature...it really soothes our ming,,,,,,,,,,try it for once...

in class fully concentrate on your lectures...jo bhi teacher bata rahe hai usme kuch naya dhoondhne ki koshish karo...

agar study karte karte tumhe neend ane lage ek hanky ko cold water mein dip karo and keep it on your eyes for some time u will feel better...

study ko enjoy karo use burden mat banne do...

don.t be stressed out nahi to tumhare passion ko fear mein badalte jyada time nahi lagega baby,,,,,,,,,

and u can share anything here ,,,,,,,,,we all our a family...and family shares everything right?,,,whether it's your sorrows your happiness your problems...you can share anything with us,,,,,,,,,,,and apni family ko support karna ya use help karna samaj seva nahi hai...samjhi my cute little doll...

i hope it will help u...

loves u


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Prachi55

Hello


Continue only and only if u r a Samaj sevi person of very helping nature else this post will results in waste of ur precious time.

I m here just to share my mental state and feelings at this moment. Please help me if u can.

I m in class 12th. I scored 94% in ICSE class 10. I m preparing for IIT JEE 2017 with VMC. Don't know what has happened to me...😔

I was always feel restlessness, annoyed and frustrated. I sleep for most of the time of the day...whole night... and even in the class... I m sleeping in class since a week. My eyes simply starts closing and I can't help myself.

The most important part of preparation is practice and that is the thing I m least doing. I don't feel like solving questions. I feel sleepy and distracted because of which I m unable to solve questions. Even now my eyes are closing. God knows what happened to me. Please help guys if u can.

I know this is not the correct place to say all this but I really need help as IIT is my passion and I want to achieve it.

I must go to some psychologist but I don't have that money and can't discus is with my parents. Moreover all mental conditions in India is considered as mental retardness.

Mujhe IIT krna h...please help me motive...concentate or in any way u can.

Please guys...!!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I can understand ur mental situation totally... Right now I'm also going through d same... I had just given my CBSE 12th board... Nd I m hell frustated right now... Din bhar really din bhar I do only one thing nd i.e. Sleeping... I feel much better when I listen sme soft instrumental music nd I'll suggest u d same... Nd yeah if u started feeling more frustated den swthrt plz talk to ur dad mum nd hv sm frnd & F*Ly tym.. It'll definetly u... Take care darling!!
Edited by Antranitisingh - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hi girl...
U know sometimes u need to let go. Confront urself. What u r doing? What will happen if u dont qualify this year? Its ur 12th if not this yr u will qualify next yr(feed this to ur mind it will start relaxing n u will be able to focus better
I still do this n study hard n top my college)
I totally went through the same 2 yrs ago, mine being some times before the boards. I think u r just afraid n this is ur minds way of coping with fear.
World wont end, u wont die if ur result isnt upto the mark, u dont qualify jee. Life is way ahead of this.
Speak to urself dont be afraid of the consequences. If u have a hobby spend some time in it. Atleast an hour a day. Sleep . study with a free mind, dont panic or think atall about ur results. Study because u want to n everything will be okay.
N speak more, really glad that u came here to share ur problems.
Love
Aditi
Edited by aditi16 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hey dear
first of all, relax for smtym which acc to me means put earphones with ur fav song, close the door of ur room, tirn off all the lights nd then jyst lay down listening songs
then start to think ehat u want to do
sometimes we think tht a particular course or thing is our passion bt in actual situation we r just so much fascinated towards it tht we just want to achieve it
so, take a little bit tym nd think abt it
if u r sure tht iit is ur dream then just dont take too much pressure for it
i can understand it as my bro is going from same situation
try to go for a walk in night nd watch stars it really works to release stress
nd start smthing u like to do in free tym like singing, dancing or sm sports
it will refresh u
u r not tht older to take stress just for a clg
i know iit is a tough nut to crack nd it needs dedication
bt taking tension tht ur only goal is iit will make it almost impossible
remember one thing tht its not a clg which makes u gud enough in a subject bt its u who can make urself acheive everything irrespective if where u studied
talk to ur frnds nd i suggest even to ur parents
bcoz jb hume lgta h ki parents kya bolenge tabhi parents sabse achhi advice dete coz they hv experience nd on top of tht they know how to calm u nd release ur stress
hope it will b helpful for u

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