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Vedika211

@Vedika211

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Posted: 10 years ago

Hello everyone. I don't usually start posts in this forum but I've been thinking about this a lot and thought that it would be interesting to see what everyone else thinks.

This post is not to support or defend Kangana. It is just what I have understood of this situation so far.

When the matter first came out, one thing that struck me was how they seemed to be talking about two different things entirely: Kangana was talking about a relationship - not only the grand proposal but other things - meals eaten together, (i.e. the reference to Reema Kagti's Mr. Chaalu discussed over dinner as people do discuss their day's work with their boyfriend/partner), insecurities about other people and so on.

Hrithik on the other hand was only talking about emails and an imposter. His claim was that he did not even know Kangana that well socially.

What the forensics have established is that no emails were sent from that particular laptop or that particular email id to Kangana. But does that mean that they did not have a relationship at all?

What if they had a fling or a short physical relationship? Based on that, Kangana started to dream of marriage, of entering a different league in terms of relationships as it were. But when she found that it wasn't going to be so, things turned ugly. She started sending crazy emails. Such behaviour is stalker-ish, yes. But quite a few people - men and women - cannot seem to stop themselves from sending "one last message" "one last email" to their ex. Sometimes people get drunk and leave long messages for other people years after they have been in touch. Those emails sounds like that - mad, but wanting a return to earlier closeness.

Because if you look at the articles defending Kangana, you will see a pattern. They all take for granted that there was a physical relationship. They say that she is being punished for breaking a code, she is being punished for speaking out and so on and so forth.

Now, this is where the question of truth comes in. Was there a physical relationship or not? The problem is that Kangana has no proof of one. People say that if it had been a real relationship, she would have things - messages, photos on her phone and so on. I do see that point. It seems very strange that she has no proof that he slept with her.

But then I think about other relationships that a lot of people seem to think happened. What sorts of proof do we have? Blinds, rumours and so on. But there were blinds and rumours on Hrithik Kangana too, weren't there? There are celebrity pictures in Indian media, but only when the two people want to accept the relationship or come out in any way for publicity and so on. It is still rare for Indian paparazzi to take incriminating photos of a couple if they don't want to get caught.

That is why I would say that I still don't know what actually happened. This is not to say that Kangana is a healthy person in any way. None of them are, come to think of it.

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Atomicbomb

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Posted: 10 years ago

If they did have a relationship I don't think Hrithik would be so vocal as he would have something to Hide.

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Staart

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Posted: 10 years ago

Don't know can be a fling but flings are way to common in this industry but still don't understand the reaction.maybe they didn't had anything but yes even I have read blinds on them in 2014,but blinds can also be posted by PR teams.

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veenab

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Posted: 10 years ago

People r supporting her cos of her been film actor and been a woman. If these things were done by men we would all b against him.

See cos of some rumors every one calls ajay devgan flirt etc,kajol doormat but here even with proof people r not ready to believe that kangana did all this. This is really sad. We want to be gender equal but when we come to these things some people tend to support only women. If women did something wrong, we try to find reason to justify her ,like she must be emotional or vulnerable or something else.

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Vedika211

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: davidb

the imposter did a number on her. she was infatuated with hrithik for a long time and believed he was responding to her. she grew emotionally attached to the imposter hrithik. even though she got to know hrithik had another email and it wasn't him she went in denial. kangana is not a practical soul, she is emotional. i dont judge her for those emails. some people do get emotional and leave messages. the receiver should be calm and compassionate which most aren't people are in a hurry to get rid of other people's emotions and judge them as crazy. her mind refuses to believe it was an imposter so she is blaming it on hrithik. i have seen people leave emotional messages when they have been ditched or betrayed. they go in denial and they have a hard time when they have trusted the person. i dont believe they are "crazy". they are deeply upset and they are looking for answers even when there are none.

@bold: i agree and for people who don't want to deal with such people and their emotions it is best to block them instead of painting their vulnerable moments as "madness" and "crazy" 😆

Thanks for commenting. Yes, it is actually very common to see people who have been in flings/relationships to keep emailing/calling the other person either to work a way out or to cry and complain. Usually both.

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Vedika211

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Atomicbomb
If they did have a relationship I don't think Hrithik would be so vocal as he would have something to Hide.

You know, this is actually the thing that makes me believe it too. The very fact that he was willing to go to court on this makes me wonder if there was actually one in the first place. I mean, there is no longer a marriage to save.

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Vedika211

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Staart
Don't know can be a fling but flings are way to common in this industry but still don't understand the reaction.maybe they didn't had anything but yes even I have read blinds on them in 2014,but blinds can also be posted by PR teams.

I know! Blinds are often PR and marketing driven. Its complicated too - sometimes blinds may be partially true, sometimes the actors themselves float specific blinds to get their work done for them. For e.g., Sushant spreading blinds about his break-up with Ankita so that she gets the message, which is what I read on this forum itself and am not sure is true or false.

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Vedika211

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: veenab
People r supporting her cos of her been film actor and been a woman. If these things were done by men we would all b against him.
See cos of some rumors every one calls ajay devgan flirt etc,kajol doormat but here even with proof people r not ready to believe that kangana did all this. This is really sad. We want to be gender equal but when we come to these things some people tend to support only women. If women did something wrong, we try to find reason to justify her ,like she must be emotional or vulnerable or something else.

Thanks for commenting.

I think it is not only that. Of course the gender equation is part of it, but it is not the only reason for people to support Kangana. People think that she is questioning the hierarchy here, and none of them seem to believe that they did not have a relationship/affair/fling.

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HLUCKY13

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Posted: 10 years ago

I think Hrithik got sick of the false perceptions she was creating. Usually rumours are planted by teams to promote films and the actors grin and bear it knowing they will die down . But in this case she was feeding the media for attention.
She is doing the exact same thing now to ranbir. As soon as an eligible man is single she pounces him. She grabbed aditya to gain entry inti the industry , lied about a film with aamir , lied about an association with Paris Hilton , maybe lied about an affair with ajay d who didn't bother with her despite front page covets , Sanjay dutt, salman khan who doesn't give her the time of day despite being close to all his girls .
Next came Hrithik immediately after his seperation and now ranbir straight after his split . I have read articles and it's on the cover of a mag this month too .

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pakeezah

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Posted: 10 years ago

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i for one am not supporting kangana (and neither is anyone else here) in her unethical manner of running after married men ..

(this activity is what has gotten here into this mess in the first place)

what outraged me from start is how people were bashing only her...i can put it down to their ignorance about hrithik..if one is not following bollywood via magazines or tv whatever, but for me, im one of those hrithik fan turned non fan.

seen him morph into the antithesis of what he first appeared to be.

I already got a little disgusted at the goings on between a boyfriend (he was seeing Susanne seriously then) and his new costar kareena and how the two would interact. Very like how Ranbir would behave later on..as Deepikas boyfriend and katrnas..

but i had two minds about Barbara Mori. ..until i saw a clip on tv on Susanne preparing for hello magazine photoshoot...hrithik came on like the good husband, preened and posed like he had learnt to in that time, and left..but the interview with Susanne...how strange, she looked sad and said "I dont know, i really dont know". when they asked about hrithik. Not quite the answer one would expect from a very in love couple better half

After that, when articles about susannes moving out, came out, i wasnt in a rush to believe ki it was media created. but it was also confusing because at an award show susanne and srk came on stage acted out some skit and lauded Hrithik and susanne even publicly announced "I love you." I can tell you, this lady TRIED. Obviously she couldnt change the leopard spots.

Came the news of the separation and, my suspicions were validated. This is why at the onset i believed Kangana had some grounds for believing hrithik had somethng going with her.

How difficult is it for someone brainwash their besotted pursuer, ki dont leave any tell tales evidence of our affair other wise susanne will make it difficult fr me on custody right of kids and alimony payments...then i wont be able to marry you.?

Susanne may hv supported hrithik by letting him leak the photo of hredhans b day again someting i just hate when kids get used to play a PR game. but her tweet that said "Im not getting back with him" spoke very loudly that no matter what he and family pressures may ask her to do, she wasnt getting into the same rut from where she escaped, she is very happy as she is, thank you very much".

This case after all grew from a comment by Kangana 'silly ex" and i do believe she had grounds to call him that,hence my support.