Type of Marriages - Personal Vedicts?

Love VS Arranged marraiges

I know we had debates on this topic, but here want bring some reality check, undestand not always applicable but experience counts

If you or based on experience of close friend/family who had love marraige whats your take - would you preach love marriage or arranged marriages?

Originally posted by: raj5000

Love VS Arranged marraiges

I know we had debates on this topic, but here want bring some reality check, undestand not always applicable but experience counts

If you or based on experience of close friend/family who had love marraige whats your take - would you preach love marriage or arranged marriages?

Raj

Kyon gadey murday ukhaad rahey ho? Looks like you are missing "danda chalana" 😆

I am happy with love marriage and would advocate it, but then I look at my parents and arranged marriage doesn't seem bad either. I think it's not how you got married, but what you make of it that's more important 😊

Originally posted by: raj5000

Love VS Arranged marraiges

Why choose? Have both..!!! Pehle arrange marriage then fall in love with your spouse and have love marriage ceremony on your 10th wedding anniversary.😉

Or you can fall in love and share your perspective with your family and have them arrange it.

If it Love or Arrange marriage, Dont marry the person who YOU love.........Marry the person Who loves you.... 😳

I agree, marry someone who loves you, not who you love. Honestly, I don't advocate either one. I'm going to have an arranged marriage, but I see nothing wrong with a love marriage. 😊 I think both are fine.

Myself experiencing arranged marriage, not bad. Love marriages are in my family (three of my cousins and one of my brothers - which is also good.

If there is little understanding and love,in both cases, you can survive.

If my shweety cutie mum had a say in this, Im sure she will say....Shaadi kar lo Sonia, bass! Kaisi bhi ho, love marriage ya arranged, lekin shaadi karo! She is so scared of the live-inz going on around her, lol she is going to be extremely happy if I MARRY, ahem 😛 😆 😆

Personally, its a gamble either ways I think, so doesn't matter as long as you survive it.

Originally posted by: raj5000

If you or based on experience of close friend/family who had love marraige whats your take - would you preach love marriage or arranged marriages?

Any type of marriage which has love even after marriage is best😆😆😆...we cannot stop people from loving,ditching,eloping and marrying or getting married to the folks parents see...MARRIAGE is a thing in which each case has different results and in which we SHOULD NOT ADVISE AND TAKE ADVICE😆

Originally posted by: raj5000

Love VS Arranged marraiges

I know we had debates on this topic, but here want bring some reality check, undestand not always applicable but experience counts

If you or based on experience of close friend/family who had love marraige whats your take - would you preach love marriage or arranged marriages?

Either , depend alot upon folks themselves.

But I would suggest now .. especially with changing attitude of society in general better know something about your future spouse. Don't think you would change them ..no one changes dramatically so if you feel there is some big mismatch don't go for it even if it is arrange with full support of family cause eventually it is you and your spouse who matter most and no one can solve problems on your behalf.