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Posted: 9 years ago
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i am 16 . i am aditya or adinash .
today i got really insulted because i was teased for hours for my over weight .
i just wanted to commit suicide . but didn't.
as i have a goal in life for which i am living .
please tell me what to do and how to stop these people . 😡 or how to get over these people .

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I'm sorry to hear that, those assholes are asses huh? 😡

We all have different things that we go through in our everyday life, and it's really important to know just at the end of the day, it doesn't matter what you face, you know, that you're going to win at the end of the day. You got to believe in yourself. You got to believe in God, know that He's going to get you through it.

Find someone you trust and let them know how bad things are. Don't let fear, shame, or embarrassment prevent you from seeking help. Just talking about how you got to this point in your life, can release a lot of the pressure that's building up and help you find a way to cope.
Everything will be okay. I PINKY promise. Stay Beautiful.

AND NEVER LET THE NEGATIVITY GET TO YOU, LITTLE BUDDY. 🤗
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rumination

I'm sorry to hear that, those assholes are asses huh? 😡

We all have different things that we go through in our everyday life, and it's really important to know just at the end of the day, it doesn't matter what you face, you know, that you're going to win at the end of the day. You got to believe in yourself. You got to believe in God, know that He's going to get you through it.

Find someone you trust and let them know how bad things are. Don't let fear, shame, or embarrassment prevent you from seeking help. Just talking about how you got to this point in your life, can release a lot of the pressure that's building up and help you find a way to cope.
Everything will be okay. I PINKY promise. Stay Beautiful.

AND NEVER LET THE NEGATIVITY GET TO YOU, LITTLE BUDDY. 🤗



thanks rumi di 😊 .

but my family member are saying that i am an introvert and not able to stand up for myself
are they right
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Posted: 9 years ago
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A lot of people are introverts. I would say I am one. There's nothing wrong with being an introvert or with being who you are.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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A) Running away from problem is not a solution nor fighting with a problem with emotions...both results in zero upliftment...
then what must one do ...

First the problem is to be understood...

Suppose i am assuming that i am super fat and where were i go i become an amusement for others in one way or the other...

may be i am bullied for no reason...may be i like some girl and still i find her supporting the people in laughing at me...well that is terrible life from me POV...

Now i am fat and should i change because others want me to change or because they laugh at me... first i want to know what is important

If i want to loose my weight then no one in the world will stop me to loose my weight because i want to become thin ...and there are various ways ...which is tough at first to follow but if the will is strong then everything becomes possible...

so i decide to loose weight without telling any body

B) i play a game of cat and mouse...

apart from my will to loose my weight...i try to figure out want make the people who are laughing at me for no reason...if i show them or act like an actor and show them that their words have hurt me ..will it change the scenario or not or will sympathy will be generated..if yes then i will play those game of generating fake sympathy as i don't need them at all...

There are many ways in which you can crush the egos of people who are acting smart and that to they even realizing that you have made them mockery...

Make your plan what is important to you and work on it

suicide is the word i want out of this human race...

Friend ALL THE BEST

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hey dear.
Really felt sorry for u.


You have to remember these things in life.


1.You are not alone in this. I'm here for you.
2.You may not believe it now, but the way you're feeling will change.
3.I may not be able to understand exactly how you feel, but I care about you and want to help.
When you want to give up, tell yourself you will hold off for just one more day, hour, minute"whatever you can manage.

Even I'm overweighted, i am not feeling like this. I take positive of myself and will handle everyone taking about me low. And in this world so much people are without what you possess so don't think like that.
Take positive in everything and give hope to you and be friend with someone who think you as you are.
And take care yourself and your loved ones they are more than what insult you are facing of
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I too am an Introvert and let me tell you, Introverts rock !! I am one of those no bullisht and worthless talks kind of guy..

How do deal with this situation ?? Well, honestly it is completely up to you to decide if you want to stay the way you are. If you wish to shed some of those extra kilos, workout for maybe half an hour everyday. At least try to keep yourself fit. Getting into shape is altogether a different issue.

I would highly suggest you to sign up to a site called 'QUORA'

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Adinash




thanks rumi di😊.

but my family member are saying that i am an introvert and not able to stand up for myself
are they right



Don't listen to what they say. You are strong! You have to learn how to stand up for yourself. Life only becomes harder, but it's all worth it. Believe me I have been there. Just concentrate on your goals, forget everything else. 👍🏼 I belive in you
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Posted: 9 years ago
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dear u can simply ignore
or try to loose weight if u can
but try to ignore dear ..i have no other advices then u other than these two^
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hello dear...
How are you doing? I read your post... hmm... that's really sad... as a super elder to you... I know about this world much more than you. I know how people are... Here I want to say one thing, which helped me in my life.

the thing is if you keep showing your weakness before anyone, then they will hunt you till your end. just stand back, show them you are not at all weak and you are not at all bothered about them or their teasing. YOU should bother about YOU. Not other people... if you commit suicide, what will happen? whoever people are making fun about you, will live their lives happily. Then why do you end YOUR life for the people who don't give any damn about you. It's YOU what makes you happy, what makes you show the world whom you are and what you can do. Being fatty is not your mistake, I'm also a fatty. to much fatty to be precise. Just trust yourself... You are less than any one... just concentrate on your studies prove yourself to the world which is making fun of you... I know you can do that... because I trust you... I believe you... You are an amazing person. Good Luck... Don't let weakness take control over you... you are best... you are strong... You are YOU... the best human being...

God bless You...


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