Koi Rahena Jab Apna : Perfectly Fit 4 Sagar !

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yes, this line holds good 4 Sagar only. Standing all alone, nobody is there for him who can at least think what he wants and where his happiness lies. Everyone is fulfilling their own wishes from him. As he said first Ganga donated him to Niru, his father, in return of the favours they have done 4 her and now she compelled him to do what neither his heart nor his soul would have ever done willfully just to again repay the favours and this time it was for Madhvi, his mother.
Neither his parents nor his love nor his legal wife (nor his own bro) understand what he feels. I loved it when he said to Jhanvi that he admits that he did a blunder but that time he was in a fit of rage but at least she could have stopped that because she also knows that his heart only beats 4 Ganga. She allowed this marr knowingly...👏She too is equally responsible for this present state of their marr.

How dearly I wanted Jhanvi to be at least a friend 4 him. But NO, she is competing with Ganga to win Sagar. How can she missed this golden opportunity.

I wonder what tablets Yash had given 2 her???I wished she had taken it.But she is still smart to throw that right away.

P.S. Loved Vishal again in the entire sequence with Jhanvi...he was again terrific in that...loved the little imagination of SaGa too. Precap is again depressing 4 SaGa fans. Seems nothing gonna change so soon or may be slowly they are separating more n more.🤢 Felt so bad 4 Sagar in the precap, poor guy was again pleading to Ganga.My little wish to see a nice friend for sagar now who at least can give him hopes to live normally and share his pain...otherwise he seems to become a machine...😭

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shivaanya

Yes, this line holds good 4 Sagar only. Standing all alone, nobody is there for him who can at least think what he wants and where his happiness lies. Everyone is fulfilling their own wishes from him. As he said first Ganga donated him to Niru, his father, in return of the favours they have done 4 her and now she compelled him to do what neither his heart nor his soul would have ever done willfully just to again repay the favours and this time it was for Madhvi, his mother.

Neither his parents nor his love nor his legal wife (nor his own bro) understand what he feels. I loved it when he said to Jhanvi that he admits that he did a blunder but that time he was in a fit of rage but at least she could have stopped that because she also knows that his heart only beats 4 Ganga. She allowed this marr knowingly...👏She too is equally responsible for this present state of their marr.

How dearly I wanted Jhanvi to be at least a friend 4 him. But NO, she is competing with Ganga to win Sagar. How can she missed this golden opportunity.

I wonder what tablets Yash had given 2 her???I wished she had taken it.But she is still smart to throw that right away.

P.S. Loved Vishal again in the entire sequence with Jhanvi...he was again terrific in that...loved the little imagination of SaGa too. Precap is again depressing 4 SaGa fans. Seems nothing gonna change so soon or may be slowly they are separating more n more.🤢 Felt so bad 4 Sagar in the precap, poor guy was again pleading to Ganga.My little wish to see a nice friend for sagar now who at least can give him hopes to live normally and share his pain...otherwise he seems to become a machine...😭


Well said 👏 I also agree Sagar is left alone. My heart broke for him when I was reading the update. I sent a PM to you with some of my thoughts on today's epi. But had to add, I really wish if not love, then would love to see both of them maturing to the level where they can at least start re-building to a friendship. I think in that regard, at least, Sagar is def more mature but Ganga, for her its all or nothing which I don't think is fair. It would be nice to see her at least trying to understand Sagar and his pain. I think Sagar also should (at least for now) stop going behind Ganga for love but more just try to be her friend and vice versa. It's clear he's not going to get that from Jahnvi.

Also, why is it that in Indian serials, female leads always put other's needs before theirs or the guys' that love them? I've seen it in so many shows where the female leads will force the guy to marry someone else or do something like accepting the new person or even just plain move on in life just coz of society or family or something like that. And then they'll give a stupid kasam or meri khaatir wala dialogue. It really pisses me off 😡
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Posted: 9 years ago
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He is not a poor guy. It's all his fault. To start with marrying Jhanvi , when he himself knew that he cannot live without Gangaa. And Ga never donated him, she just said take back your son if you can , I will not stop him.
Now it was for Sagar to decide to go back to his parents who hardly care for his happiness or be with Gangaa.

Even after marrying Jhanvi he always threaten to give divorce. But not give divorce. Comm'n you are a lawyer .

Yesterday also Gangaa said she loved Sagar and on his reception night also he said and knew that she still loves him. When he said " tu ek no ki jhutti hai"

He should think methodically to get rid of Jhanvi first and then pursue Gangaa. If he says he understand Gangaa well, the track wouldn't have been where it is now

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I just can't see Sagar in so much pain...Everyone is treating him like a puppet😭
Me too felt terribly bad for Sagar in Precap😭Ganga u r ignoring him chalo fine but atleast he was congratulating u frd ke naate hi woh sweets le leti...Today I just felt like giving a tight wala hug to Sagar...he needs it😭
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: AsadkiDeewani


Well said 👏 I also agree Sagar is left alone. My heart broke for him when I was reading the update. I sent a PM to you with some of my thoughts on today's epi. But had to add, I really wish if not love, then would love to see both of them maturing to the level where they can at least start re-building to a friendship. I think in that regard, at least, Sagar is def more mature but Ganga, for her its all or nothing which I don't think is fair. It would be nice to see her at least trying to understand Sagar and his pain. I think Sagar also should (at least for now) stop going behind Ganga for love but more just try to be her friend and vice versa. It's clear he's not going to get that from Jahnvi.

Also, why is it that in Indian serials, female leads always put other's needs before theirs or the guys' that love them? I've seen it in so many shows where the female leads will force the guy to marry someone else or do something like accepting the new person or even just plain move on in life just coz of society or family or something like that. And then they'll give a stupid kasam or meri khaatir wala dialogue. It really pisses me off 😡

I so agreed with you again. For Ganga its her so called self respect comes first then anything else, as Sagar said. I so agreed with this.Because of this only niru n madhvi both took the advantage.And it left Sagar in bits n pieces...I would have loved to see a strong Ganga by not falling into their trap...but they knew where to hit to get their things done and they did it successfully. This proved the weaker side of Ganga not the stronger one...and as you said she still needs to think maturely in her relation with Sagar now. At least Sagar would have been at less pain n guilty if she had not interfered in his life with Jhanvi despite Madhvi's emotional blackmail. Sagar stands taller than Ganga in this regard. Remember that Ammaji taking head bath scene...how he left his house to avoid that emotional blackmail and even he stopped Ganga to surrender against that. 👏He is surely more stronger in this sense.

I too want Sagar to keep a distance from Ganga now so that shecan get time to think about their relation and friendship...at least she should feel the pain of him rather than making him suffer more n more.

BTW I just loved your last para...all I thought this show would be a diff one with a strong and pure love story of SaGa only but the CVs have failed us.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Down right to the last point...He said it all, he admitted that he did a blunder but Janvi was in full conscious self...She agreed to the decision, now, she is sticking to it like glue even though she knows he is suffering...That can't be love...Well for me, the biggest blunder of all is Madhvi...what kind of motherhood is she promoting...??
Claps non stop for Vishal's portrayal of Sagar...He emotes super well!👏👏👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shivaanya

I so agreed with you again. For Ganga its her so called self respect comes first then anything else, as Sagar said. I so agreed with this.Because of this only niru n madhvi both took the advantage.And it left Sagar in bits n pieces...I would have loved to see a strong Ganga by not falling into their trap...but they knew where to hit to get their things done and they did it successfully. This proved the weaker side of Ganga not the stronger one...and as you said she still needs to think maturely in her relation with Sagar now. At least Sagar would have been at less pain n guilty if she had not interfered in his life with Jhanvi despite Madhvi's emotional blackmail. Sagar stands taller than Ganga in this regard. Remember that Ammaji taking head bath scene...how he left his house to avoid that emotional blackmail and even he stopped Ganga to surrender against that. 👏He is surely more stronger in this sense.

I too want Sagar to keep a distance from Ganga now so that shecan get time to think about their relation and friendship...at least she should feel the pain of him rather than making him suffer more n more.

BTW I just loved your last para...all I thought this show would be a diff one with a strong and pure love story of SaGa only but the CVs have failed us.


I had forgotten abt that Sagar leaving and not letting even Ganga falling for the emotional blackmail of Ammaji. I think even Ammaji found this track sad so left for the time being 😆 But yea, Sagar is def stronger and more mature in that regard.

When starting out, I was also hoping this would differ and they would fight the society together esp since it's such a sensitive topic. Lekin yeh CVs ne sab kuch barbaad kar diya. In a way, I'm happy they didn't give too many SaGa moments coz my heart would've been broken even more if they had done this twist after that but in a way, I feel if they had given their love more time, yeh nobat hi nahi aati.

I agree that Ganga I think has not yet realized just exactly how much importance Sagar has in her life and how he has always been there for her (directly or silently). He's always there to support her and protect her. She needs to realize his value aside from his selfishness, anger and this one mistake. Btw..I don't like that she'll be comparing Palash and Sagar. I think they're both separate individuals and at different stages in their lives. Comparison would be unfair. Sagar is much younger and less experience than Palash so it doesn't seem right that he would get compared in that regard.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: _SaGa4ever_

I just can't see Sagar in so much pain...Everyone is treating him like a puppet😭

Me too felt terribly bad for Sagar in Precap😭Ganga u r ignoring him chalo fine but atleast he was congratulating u frd ke naate hi woh sweets le leti...Today I just felt like giving a tight wala hug to Sagar...he needs it😭


I wonder still ppl blame Sagar for this whole fiasco.Was not that Ganga who started all these by disowning Sagar on Niru's word???The whole mess started from there. And see a man with such a golden heart who could stand against his own family and the whole world for his love is really being treated as an object by his own loved ones.Its so pathetic. I mean I really dont understand when Ganga herself does not want Sagar to interfere in her own life then why is she emotionally blackmailing Sagar??? Seriously she is spoiling his life more than anyone else. There was no need to bow down to Madhvi this time na. Why cant Madhvi herself is solving her own son's probs?Why she need Ganga to do this? Even though Sagar made a blunder by marrying Jhanvi but he is trying to sort things out and its really horrible to see that his mother and Ganga are simply compelling him to con****** with Jhanvi. I wish it never happens that way. Spare him of this torture. I wish at least now Niru helps Sagar to sort out these mess and it will happen if at all he really loves his son...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: JazzyM

Down right to the last point...He said it all, he admitted that he did a blunder but Janvi was in full conscious self...She agreed to the decision, now, she is sticking to it like glue even though she knows he is suffering...That can't be love...Well for me, the biggest blunder of all is Madhvi...what kind of motherhood is she promoting...??

Claps non stop for Vishal's portrayal of Sagar...He emotes super well!👏👏👏


Yes Yes Yes Vishal did a splendid job in this epi again...its really difficult to emote such different emotions one by one ...he is a rockstar.⭐️

Coming to the story, I too wonder thinking about Madhvi...I mean how could she think of pressurising Sagar to con******* the marr??? I wish she would have tried to understand his son more than understanding society's rules and rituals.😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shivaanya


Yes Yes Yes Vishal did a splendid job in this epi again...its really difficult to emote such different emotions one by one ...he is a rockstar.⭐️

Coming to the story, I too wonder thinking about Madhvi...I mean how could she think of pressurising Sagar to con******* the marr??? I wish she would have tried to understand his son more than understanding society's rules and rituals.😳


Very t rue...Madhvi is nothing but society conscious...Samaj, samaj...happiness, joy in life, future, home, family...everything is secondary...

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