Ramji kyun maaf kare?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Firstly, Happy Gudi Padva, Chaitra Navratri, Cheti Chand and Ugadi to all those who do celebrate this New Year 🤗🥳

I know the title aint that good, but be patient and listen to my rant. I am feeling unwell for the past two days and this track is also getting to me:

All I'm gonna say is please dont forgive and forget this time Yug. Because you have the full right to be angry at a girl who has lied to your face for the umpteenth time, even when you have assured her time and again that you are gonna stand by her. No matter how helpless she is, she cannot rely on lying and expect the other person to be understanding when all she is doing is hurting your feelings. A relationship should be both ways, understanding ought to be from both sides. She cannot fall in love with you, okay, but for the sake of humanity, she cannot even keep saying lies to you because it can affect your equation with Gauri..you have no freaking connection with her apart from Kali anyways! You are not gonna have some cupid shoot an arrow at you and say, "Tada. Stop liking Kali, start liking Gauri." Things dont work that way in the real world. You never know if the next thing she is gonna say is true or false, because for some reason she LOVES keeping her feelings to herself.
Great. Suit yourself, my dear Kali. You are destroying the life you can look forward to. Dont be delusional that the world is gonna recognise your sacrifice. Though I loved your whole "Sita Agnipariksha nahi degi" stance today, it was highly depressing that you were waiting for Gauri or someone else to save you. You have to be your own hero sometimes, and refuse to suffer for no fault of yours whatsoever which would have happened had they burned you. Badke Papa is only on your side because while he knows you wont do anything wrong (you are not daring in that sense) but mostly because he is afraid of the consequences if you ever oppose Gauri, and he cannot bring the situation to that if he can help it. And now Gauri is going to be hell bent on getting you a guy so she can come out of her insecurity that you are going to entice Yug in your trap or something (the visual I am getting is of a spider trapping its prey which is not very pleasant..but whatever). Basically, you are at fault here on the front that all you needed to do was to be honest with him as a friend if not for the reason that he genuinely has feelings for you. Protect your heart, protect your integrity but also protect the belief that people who are willing to fight for you have in you.

Think About It.
Sincere Request,
Tannu 👍🏼
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Posted: 9 years ago
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You are right, nice post 👍🏼
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thanks a lot for all the replies. Appreciate the responses 😊
Edited by RTme0w - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Tannu, get well soon!!🤗


As usual am always late in replying to posts on here...

Yug is not marrying out of choice and therefore he has no grounds to stand up for his feelings and say, am going to run away from both Kali and Gauri because if I do not then my life will be destroyed as I will forever have to be reminded of my Sita knowing she will never be mine and be bounded by a marriage with someone who has nothing I wanted in my life partner. He is doing this for his sister. #Sad!

Kaali, deserves the title Kaala Teeka. She has no incentive in helping herself and she is hell bent on dragging others down with her. Whilst it was good to see her refuse the agnipariksha, within the same breath she agreed that she will remain Gauri's KT till the day she dies and that was upsetting. Kaali ought to stand up for herself but do it for herself and not for being accepted by Vishwa. She stood there whilst Madhuri put fire to her dupatta and looked to Gauri for help and yet Gauri turned a blind eye and even then she did not fake up. Like you said Tannu, she has to be her own hero. Kaali believes it is okay to keep lying to Yug 🥱 after all her aim is to make the pwincess happy.🥱

Yug has realised that Kali will not stand up for her heart and that is why he took away that ring. But even then deep down he wants to continue wanting her and therefore he cannnot help but smile by just the mere thought of her.

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Edited by _innocent_ - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yello! Thanks for the get well wish. My health is always messed up, its actually pretty normal. My post was basically about how its justified for him to be angry at her for that and that she has a responsibility as a friend to be honest about stuff. The problem I feel with a lot of content is that they portray love to be a weakness, like you are compromising for the sake of love, you are sacrificing your love for the greater good or whatever. There is a lack of stories that make it seem as something worth fighting for instead of just praying about it. Its literally like, "Bhaggu, Mereko ye banda accha lagta hai. Kaise bhi karke meri kismat me tapka do." Thats just absolutely insane and ridiculous. But forget it, why lawyer around when the opposite party aint gonna understand anyways?! I am not a fan of the 'Kaam na dhandha, phasi ka phanda' funda anyways.
Edited by RTme0w - 9 years ago

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