Ishita =/= (doesn't equal to) Shagun - Page 3

Originally posted by: -MS-

@Blue: Well, I agree. IshRa marriage is void. But people tend to forget that and start bashing Shagun & Raman, and question Raman's love for Ishita. More than their marriage being void, they overlook the fact that they all know Ishita is dead. On the other hand, Ishita still considers Raman as her husband and very well know he is alive. So her moving on raises question on the love she had for Raman. And the moving on isn't just limited to accepting or rejecting Mani's proposal.

@Red: Ishita too made a choice. It was only her decision to leave her parents. It was only her decision to leave her kids. The guilt, hurt or whatever the reason is just overplayed. A woman who is in THAT kinda guilt doesn't lead a normal life with another man raising his children. That simply doesn't match.

Originally posted by: sririt

Disagreement to something is not bashing. People don't accept ShaRam or IshAni because for them/me the pair is IshRa and neither of that is what goes easily down the throat. It is only IshRa that is well for all YHM viewers. And those words doesn't come out of hate for ShaRam but love for IshRa

Blaming ShaRam for every damn thing is not just mere disagreement, it's something else. Though I don't know how this topic poped up in this convo. 🤔

Ishita didn't made a choice to live with Mani, she choose to die rather than staying away from Raman. But fortune has some more in store for her. That was a time to console each other, not to blame for loss. Holding partners hand in bad times is what we expect. If you are asked to leave and you actually leave; that means you are just obeying as the person doesn't want you further in your life.

I don't know about others but truly if someone will help me and because of that he/she gets hurt, even if that person is unknown; I can't leave that person and happily live my life. I will have gratitude towards him/her always. I have done much for my friends because of their small helps when I was in hostel be it emotional support or some other. Here the scenario is different, but the gratitude still holds.

Anyways I don't wanna prove further because opinion differ from person to person and their perspective. No offence please

Well, there two parts to discuss. Yes, Raman did a very nasty thing by uttering those words but a few minutes outburst was a very far fetched reason to go for such drastic steps. (I don't count Ishita's suicide as one of them, it was heat of the moment kinda thing and I can only blame Raman for that, not Ishita. But after that, every Ishita did as per her own choice that I'll discuss later.) Specially when she clearly knew when he's hurt, angry he utters such words that he never meant. And, those words were from a father who just lost his daughter. I don't usually quote real life instance for a fictional show but there are many real life examples like that. Something happened to a child, his/her mother uttering all sorts of venomous words to that child's father or vice versa. But it never causes such drastic repercussions. And I don't believe the guilt part, otherwise Ishita won't be leading such life with that huge burden, it's no way possible.

Ishita made a choice to live with Mani, she was not forced. Here too the guilt/sympathy part is not only overplayed but highly convoluted. Yes, she couldn't live Mani alone. But she could live her parents and kids for that! How will her parents feel when they will come to know they were served a lie of their lifetime by their own daughter?! In order to be with Mani to show her gratitude, she didn't think twice how hell the lives of her parents and children would be thinking she's dead!
She could be with Mani and at the same time she could have her parents and children with her. She could file a divorce and end the relationship in a better way, at least she wouldn't have become a wrongdoer by abandoning her parents and children. But she made a choice on her own...to be with Mani...to fulfill her gratitude towards him...cutting all the ties with her all loved ones...abandoning her parents and children...one of them was just an infant of few days!
Btw...no offense meant and none taken.