Ishita--congrats you have done it!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Did I hear it right? Ishita has been living with for seven years! Ishita once said to Mani "Mujhe apne pati aur bacche ko chodke tumhare pas ajana chahiye". And she did it...though she took some time but she did it and each word came true! The whole airport chasing and beating Raman was totally unnecessary and after these turn of events, it's now a big joke.

I had seen people justifying Ishita's absence. Really? Didn't Raman utter harsh words before? Did she leave? Didn't she claim that she knew he didn't mean a thing when he's angry? If 5-10 outbursts are enough to end a relationship, then all divorce lawyers would have become billionaires by now and only a handful married couple would have remained married. Since Ishita is so hurt and took it against her self-respect, then there should be no reunion of IshRa.

In between all these, I feel really bad for Ishita's parents and children. They are receiving grave punishment in the form of abandonment with no fault whatsoever. Relationship between a mother and children is one of the focal points in YHM but it's so sad to see both Ishita and Shagun are mothers that no child deserves.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ishita decided to leave Raman and kids, she was right. If Ishita wants to come back, she will also be right. YHM is a staunch feminist show where every step of the female lead is not only justifiable but glorified as well.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..JohnDoe..

Ishita decided to leave Raman and kids, she was right. If Ishita wants to come back, she will also be right. YHM is a staunch feminist show where every step of the female lead is not only justifiable but glorified as well.


IKR! That's why I left watching this show a year ago. I read updates about the leap and it sounded so weird. Separation for such petty issue!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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yeah... See, Ishita is a principled woman, jo bolti woh karke dikhati hai...
hence this step...

forget the small baby, who won't miss her as she has never seen her plus she has a more loving mother in the form of Toshi with her. But what about Amma and Appa. At this age, they have to bear the burden of their daughter's death.

Does Ekta really thinks its a joke for parents to see their kids dying... Why can't Ishita for once think that she is in so much pain for loosing Ruhi, then how can she give the same pain to her own parents, who have always supported her.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Bang on but I would rephrase the last line, Ishita and Shagun are the mothers that no child deserves and Ishita is the daughter that no parents should have.

But since it's YHM...it will be perfectly fine with Ishita's parents and kids when they'll come to know how she abandoned them and let them go through such painful ordeal of grieving on loved one's suicide for 7 years. If you are aware of real life incident of tv actress Prtyusha Banerjee's suicide and her parents' condition, you will understand what I mean.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -MS-

Bang on but I would rephrase the last line, Ishita and Shagun are the mothers that no child deserves and Ishita is the daughter that no parents should have.

But since it's YHM...it will be perfectly fine with Ishita's parents and kids when they'll come to know how she abandoned them and let them go through such painful ordeal of grieving on loved one's suicide for 7 years. If you are aware of real life incident of tv actress Prtyusha Banerjee's suicide and her parents' condition, you will understand what I mean.


totally second ur comment... in the re-union Amma and Appa will shed some tears, calling her their Kanna...and she will shed some tears saying they know na how she was majboor to stay away...yada...yada... and all will be forgiven...


infact its a big mistake on SP's part to show their female lead as commenting suicide... there are young girls who unfortunately idiolize Ishita, how will her this step effect their pyshce...

I had read some articles about how, when Balika Vadhu started and that young girl got famous, and they showed her getting a lovely mother in law and father in law, teenage girls actually started asking their parents to get them married off at young age. So imagine how this suicide will make suicides look so cool to all those immature girls.🤢
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: AroraTanya


IKR! That's why I left watching this show a year ago. I read updates about the leap and it sounded so weird. Separation for such petty issue!

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Im sorry, did you just call this a petty issue? Ishita got blamed for KILLING ramans daughter...she was told that Ruhi was not her daughter and she caused her DEATH. In what world is that a petty issue?

I agree he has been harsh before, but a child wasnt dead in those situations...this is totally different. Ishita (if she was a real person and not a character) would be guilt ridden and wouldnt be able to face her in-laws/husband because she is being blamed for killing THEIR child. On top of that she may have some resentment because Raman is the one that decided that they would trade Ruhi for Pihu.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Cvs have killed their lead pair beyond repair to justify surrogacy and glorification of their favorite.
Agree. If they would have shown Ishita fighting with Raman and taking along her baby. It would have sent message to the society to all those woman who would like to fight their rights.

Cvs have killed yhm.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: hazeleyedangel

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Im sorry, did you just call this a petty issue? Ishita got blamed for KILLING ramans daughter...she was told that Ruhi was not her daughter and she caused her DEATH. In what world is that a petty issue?

I agree he has been harsh before, but a child wasnt dead in those situations...this is totally different. Ishita (if she was a real person and not a character) would be guilt ridden and wouldnt be able to face her in-laws/husband because she is being blamed for killing THEIR child. On top of that she may have some resentment because Raman is the one that decided that they would trade Ruhi for Pihu.


She only makes it look more petty... What she did, tried to commit suicide like a looser...instead of fighting Raman... showing him how its both their fault...

but she not only let her parents believe that she is dead, left her one day old baby and obviously completely forgot about adi...and now living nicely with Mani, accepting his kids as her own...

where is that trauma for being the reason of ur own kids death...where is the pain for abandoning a day old baby (just like Shagun) has she remembered her parents even once...

No, sire, there she is living with mani in australia, all decked up like a new bride... she herself made it look petty...no-one else
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjs


She only makes it look more petty... What she did, tried to commit suicide like a looser...instead of fighting Raman... showing him how its both their fault...

but she not only let her parents believe that she is dead, left her one day old baby and obviously completely forgot about adi...and now living nicely with Mani, accepting his kids as her own...

where is that trauma for being the reason of ur own kids death...where is the pain for abandoning a day old baby (just like Shagun) has she remembered her parents even once...

No, sire, there she is living with mani in australia, all decked up like a new bride... she herself made it look petty...no-one else



I was commenting on someone calling ISHRAs FIGHT petty...not the situation.

It does bother me, to no end, that Ishita is just living with mani in this huge house and all dolled up. Also, after 7 years she is still crying like the situation is brand new...in 7 years people move on. I dont understand whats happening in this show. They need to hurry up and bring Ishu back to India

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