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Posted: 9 years ago
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Krishy right?? If u really ask me its too early to say whether i want ishra back together.. If i look at their jorney together they both healed each other..she not only healed him but also waeved his family together.. I cant say until i see raman's state; if he has gone back to his angry, rude rkb mode then i may not want ishita to get bak to him because then he did not realise what damage he has done by uttering those words but he is sulking or regretting what loss he had caused himself by uttering those hurtful words then i may want ishita get bak with him but only after she stands up for her self respect and not just forgives him without making him realise and mani will play crucial part in this i suppose..

On a sode note we r expecting maturity even after seeing the abusrdity they have shown in past 3 episodes but still hope never dies..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree but here's my question - would you want Ishita to go back to Raman now that she's found a better more loving family?

Bc no doubt Raman will have spent 7 years brooding in guilt of killing his wife and daughter and with CVs track records they won't actually have him grow in terms of controlling his words b/c they like to have that flexibility to kick of tracks with OTT dialogs and anger from Raman...

So logically - Ishita-Mani would fall in line with a civil society expects, right?

I would rather see Ishita growing a backbone and standing up to Raman. Never once did she truly voice how Raman's anger made her feel. They lacked communication in that end which is why there was never growth. While the words are no where justified, there was no opportunity for conversation and introspection b/c it's desi TV


ya u r right apni beti ko marne ke baad jisse apni jaan kehti thi ajj uski ek perfect family hai wah ...aur uss family ka kya jo usne barbaad kerdi apne selfless nature se aur ab uski ek perfect family ban gayi ab usse kaha raman yaad ayega ruhi yaad ayegi ...2 kiraye ke bacche fhir mill gaye amma kehne wale 1 chali gayi to kya farak but she is happy with her family wow
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Just read the review and update.
Really felt bad when ishita compared herself to orphan band bad mother. Here once again she was shown as infertile women. Really felt crying after reading the update.
So star ki nayi soch that infertile women should never be married. Because she is a use and through object first by subbu and then by her whole family and Raman.

Truly yhm showed that infertile women had no family or has to be loved. Gathi ya soch. Gathi ya serial. Thanks I and my family are not watching but still I wanted to know the leap story so hence read it. I cried for getting attached to this serial.

Saw aly goni tweet.. Yes we r still in shock .. What else u want to say.. Mrs shgun Raman Bhalla and freak family of iyers who never cared about ishita. April 1st we got leap and separation as fools gift which will continue till aliya and adi love story and ishita and Raman will be samdhi. Where there love will re emerge. Then ishita will be shown as pregnant along with aliya who will be carrying adi child ..both Papa and son will together become parents.

That is nayi soch of ekta, bt,CVS and star plus.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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ya u r right apni beti ko marne ke baad jisse apni jaan kehti thi ajj uski ek perfect family hai wah ...aur uss family ka kya jo usne barbaad kerdi apne selfless nature se aur ab uski ek perfect family ban gayi ab usse kaha raman yaad ayega ruhi yaad ayegi ...2 kiraye ke bacche fhir mill gaye amma kehne wale 1 chali gayi to kya farak but she is happy with her family wow



Who said ishita is happy but at times two people who are in love only endure pain being in love and staying together as ishra did..offcourse they had their share of happy moments but most of it was pain.. And we should not have problems with ishita's selfless nature because it was her same selfless nature we adored when she was over indulgant in Ruhi's case so if we do that now then we disregard/disrespect Ishita from the first instance which i dnt agree with i like ishita for her selfless nature i agree she goes overboard but thats still her character..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dmug

Krishy right?? If u really ask me its too early to say whether i want ishra back together.. If i look at their jorney together they both healed each other..she not only healed him but also waeved his family together.. I cant say until i see raman's state; if he has gone back to his angry, rude rkb mode then i may not want ishita to get bak to him because then he did not realise what damage he has done by uttering those words but he is sulking or regretting what loss he had caused himself by uttering those hurtful words then i may want ishita get bak with him but only after she stands up for her self respect and not just forgives him without making him realise and mani will play crucial part in this i suppose..

On a sode note we r expecting maturity even after seeing the abusrdity they have shown in past 3 episodes but still hope never dies..


I can predict now that Raman will be angry and spiteful but it will be a cover b/c he'll be more devadas-esque. When Shagun left him - he became angry and rude b/c he had a point to prove as he was told he was not a good provider. When Ishita died - he will become angry at the world, Ishita, and himself but he has no point to prove or anything. And when he sees Ishita alive - he will become more angry b/c she was alive but away for 7 years. Yes he played a role in this and will come to realize it...but I don't think should expect to love the Raman on screen for a while if my theory of them trying to respin YHM 1.0 is correct.

I honestly don't think Ishita will fully have a backbone. The one time she did during surrogacy turned out to be a joke. We may get a repeat of Mani track again with Mani lecturing Raman, but that doesn't solve the problem. For Ishita to be an true woman - she needs to voice her feelings even with the hurt. We can make excuses for why Ishita won't speak up just as people can make excuses for Raman's short temper. Sadly at the end of the day this grotesque holi-hospital sequence was just for leap/separation and once reunion happens - all the words and hurt and sense of betrayal will be forgotten.

Raman has also done there and helped Ishita but he didn't have as much damage to work with that Ishita did with Raman's broken family. The ideal of a bahu being the only one who can fix families is flawed at best b/c it's the responsibility of both parties which TV never shows. That's it always looks like the woman has to bear everything sadly b/c the construct of TV is such that the ML & his family are largely the source of problems and FL will protect and weave together.

As much as it hurts me to say this, I'm over looking for logic or morals or anything - DT and KP are just good actors. The Ishita and Raman I see now aren't what I saw from Dec 2013-2015. They are different characters entirely and so I shall just watch from reunion and on and act like this was a bad dream! 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dmug

Krishy right?? If u really ask me its too early to say whether i want ishra back together.. If i look at their jorney together they both healed each other..she not only healed him but also waeved his family together.. I cant say until i see raman's state; if he has gone back to his angry, rude rkb mode then i may not want ishita to get bak to him because then he did not realise what damage he has done by uttering those words but he is sulking or regretting what loss he had caused himself by uttering those hurtful words then i may want ishita get bak with him but only after she stands up for her self respect and not just forgives him without making him realise and mani will play crucial part in this i suppose..

On a sode note we r expecting maturity even after seeing the abusrdity they have shown in past 3 episodes but still hope never dies..


Just loved both ur posts it ws bang on.. Hope the same thing happens... After seeng d promo I don't think they'll show Raman being guilt ridden they will show him hating ishita which I'm not at all interested.. He has to repent for accusing ishita & feel guilty for forcing her to commit suicide if this is not shown then it's shameful to womanhood... Which I can't digest..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Honestly i can never in my dreams doubt their love for each other..but their togetherness is what i am not sure off after seeing their journey.. May be they came into each other's life to heal each other..and that was all abt it..they tried to make it through thick and thin but destiny did not allow them to..the foundation of their relationship was gone and its because if their own mistakes so their journey comletes there for me.. What i see now are comlete different individuals they both do carry past baggage and now how they heal each other is something an interesting watch..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dmug

Honestly i can never in my dreams doubt their love for each other..but their togetherness is what i am not sure off after seeing their journey.. May be they came into each other's life to heal each other..and that was all abt it..they tried to make it through thick and thin but destiny did not allow them to..the foundation of their relationship was gone and its because if their own mistakes so their journey comletes there for me.. What i see now are comlete different individuals they both do carry past baggage and now how they heal each other is something an interesting watch..


Yep and that's where my solace is.

This isn't the story of an infertile woman finding the love of a motherless child - because Ruhi is now Ruhan and more importantly they took away Ishita's infertility tag when she suddenly got pregnant and lost her child due to an accident that could cause any woman to have a miscarriage. Second this isn't the story of a divorcee navigating life with an ex-wife and shared children.

This still is three people coming together to heal each other.

Only difference is before they had no love but attraction, anger, and significant insecurity (Ishita as a mother and Raman as a husband/father) early on. Now they have abundant love and attraction for each other but also anger and significant insecurity for the same things as before but this time due to each other.

The dynamics of the show are now just straight up different but there is a chance to still IshRa heal each other and help bring back an ounce of happiness to Ruhi/Ruhan.

So that's where the solace of this YHM 4.0 right now lies, and the makers could very very very easily ruin it to where it's straight BT style crap...but I do think they are trying to recreate the original dynamics with a different spin (easy writing you see, just copying from themselves 😆)

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