Why people resort to lies !!!

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Silverrmoon

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Posted: 9 years ago

When is a person so fed up of telling the truth that one resorts to lying.Is it when one feels that nobody understands them or if they feel when truth comes out their game is finished.Today we got to see two kinds of lying ...one to achieve a goal at the cost of others done purposefully and the other being gaining pleasure for oneself unknowingly causing damage to others.

Today I got reminded of anjali from IPKKND ...she was so blinded in the love of shyam jha that in spite of the truth about him coming out she met him secretly.She needed proofs to prove her husband to be gulity of all the charges on him.Sadly even shalu is in the same position and unless and untill she is given proof she will not believe anyone. Some lessons are truly learnt in a hard way.

If truth is told nobody likes it but if people lie people are surprised... From the past days shalu has been constantly telling she has been telling that she loves raja. Back then the words were taken for granted now that she is fed up of telling everyone so she is meeting him secretly. What is going to be the result of it she never realized it.I don't know whether to feel bad for her or pity her. Her fate is truly written in her hands by herself.

When people start losing trust on another do they prefer to lie? If one feels the unfair treatment towards them is going to continue so they lie?One feels when another doesn't understand their feelings is it then?

Do share your views.

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samanthana

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Posted: 9 years ago

Very well said Pearl ..

This was running in my mind...

They can take in two ways ...

One is same parallel track like (TT - Suvi ) , she was also blinded in drunken of love ... She realized when the murder happens .. So until and unless , if some one hits shallu in the form of reality .. She will not realize it ...(marraiage - depend on CVS (raja with shallu or with any one ) .. but dont want to take the route what CVS has done for TT - SUV

I hope so CVS are taking the same route of TT and SUVI ...

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captkirk

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Posted: 9 years ago

Very poignant point... usually we lie to avoid controversy or not to complicate certain things that are not significant, the next level of lying if more serious, like Shalu, when we think we will not be understood or believed and we are tired of proving our point and the third level which is the worst is to lie to cause harm to someone, like DT and Raja keep doing.

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premparbat

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Posted: 9 years ago

Ah you mention the only other show I watched before Ishq.

It's about what you like to tell yourself . If you convince yourself that pigs can fly then they can . It's an illusion one creates for oneself and it has no touch of reality . You so much NOT want to believe a fact coz you are scared of the outcome that reality will bring .

Shallu has mythicaly built a one sided belief that she is in love with Raja and thinks of Jim yo be her husband makes her vulnerable as he character you mentioned in the other show. Someone has to take her out of this bubble before its bursts right into her face.

I think the cvs are undecided which way to take Shallu . Get her married or not to this guy . I will definetly not want it but desi serials love misery ... And if she does then she very much deserved it .

It's more for protection if you ask me and not wanting to face reality .

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Silverrmoon

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Posted: 9 years ago

Sorry for the delay guys...

Thank you for response Samantha ...True suvarna was equally blinded in the love of TP... Unless she had to see herself getting stabbed she couldn't believe anyone. Evidence is very much required forshalu to realize the depth of the situation.

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Silverrmoon

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Posted: 9 years ago

Hey Captkirk ...agree with you...the three stages you described suits anybody in any situation which obviously depends on the intention of a person.

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Silverrmoon

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Posted: 9 years ago

Hello premparbat...thank you for sharing your POV...true its just convincing the mind over and over and thus the illusion is created and it gives pleasure seeing that world which is magical...hence if one is in the reality then they are terrified to face it. That illusion is a safe haven for shalu.

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