The Language Of Love....

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Notty this is for you…

So we've dissected Armaan's modus operandi…playing the stern instructor, the guide who leaves no leaves (pun intended) unturned in his attempts to bring Ridhima crashing back to reality. We've concluded, and convincingly so, that it was not out of Armaan's own voilition that he chose this unconventional route, but Ridhima's inherent refusal to accept anything apart from the bitter truth. And as promised here's my take on the other end of the spectrum- our dear ice queen, Anjali.

If we are to accept that DMG is indeed a sequel to Sanjeevani, then the child Anjali was a loving, sweet, precocious little girl who loved her parents to death. Enter a foster child and as is the risk with every adoption, attention wanes and she is meted, perhaps, a slightly more stringent approach than is required. Chastised her entire life, Anjali creates a sphere of confidence and self approval around her that nobody can penetrate. She forces herself to be immune anything emotional lest she finds herself in shreds again.

She craves her father's approval, but notices, much to her chagrin that she is forever at the receiving end of his rebuke. But for her beloved grandmother whose unequivocal support she enjoys, Anjali has rarely been the beneficiary of the gentle affection that Ridhima enjoys. Not only is she deprived, she also notices the subtle difference in her father when it comes Ridhima, so much so that her primal instinct is to assume that she is the adopted child.

Anjali can and will only understand the language of love. Rebuke bounces off her skin, unless it is from her father, which then affects her without her seeing any logic in his reproof. All she hears is the harsh tone. The words may well be uttered in an alien tongue.

Whenever someone has tried to speak with Anjali omitting severity as one would to a little child, she has responded with ardor befitting a person of much emotional depth. Classically captured in the scene where Atul offers to take over her patients when she is anguishing over the whole adoption issue, Atul's ridiculous analogy would have elicited a reaction we are more familiar with, Anjali scoffing at him or telling him off for offering to help her. But the tenderness and care that poured forth, broke even the sturdiest of walls Anjali has built around her and she gracefully accepts his assistance.

With further attempts from Atul in his usual gentle unassuming manner, can we dare to hope for a more extensive melt down of our ice queen? Can we fervently hope that we see the softer, more vulnerable side of this emotionally castled woman? It remains to be seen what the creatives have in store for us. Maybe for now, we shouldn't place our hopes too high and just pray that she does not go the usual villainous way.

Edited by vaarti - 18 years ago

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Wow after reading ur post..i got to see the real world of anjie 👏 ..her true self....i always found her a complicated person...too hard to penetrate into her thoughts ,in her heart 😳

Yeap now i am optimistic, there is some hope for atul - anjie Love track 😳 😳
😍
Can't wait to see her falling 4 Atul 😍 😍*fingers crossed*

cheers
❤️Kai❤️
Edited by Kai_Hiwatari - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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@ kai...all we can do is hope. i really want the creatives to give us a show with no truly evil character. thats like life itself. we all have little devils buried in us, no one is completely possessed. and when the evil rears its ugly head, it is more often than not, with adequate reason. whether the reason is justifiable or not is a matter of debate....
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Posted: 18 years ago
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@Aarti - I am so glad you made this post and I guess I was expecting this too... coz I read somewhere you were planning to... on Notty's request.!!!

I have quite a bit to chip in, but am really tired, the medication is really zonking me... will get back after I watch the episode....

I hope that is ok...!!! 😳
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Posted: 18 years ago
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@ sareeta...of course that's ok!!!!! i've left a lot out..waiting for u to chip in and please take care!!!
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Another great post, Vaarti!

Angie is usually under a lot of flak on the forum, so it's great to see a well thought out analysis of the many layers to our dear Ice Queen.

I feel Shashank is to blame for a large extent to the wall Angie's built around herself. His overcompensation towards his adopted daughter has left Angie with no choice but to build a defense mechanism of a harsh and cold personality most of the times.

What I'm really intrigued by when it comes to Angie are those little moments when she's with her dad...and her eyes light up with all the love she feels for him. I don't know if it's Sunaina's fantastic portrayal or my sympathy for Angie in those moments...but I'm always touched by the moments when her inner child craving for attention from her father comes out.

And you're right...Atul is the one we're all pinning our hopes on when it comes to melting the heart of the ice queen😳...Although, I do feel Angie's reaction in the scene you mentioned was more so because she was preoccupied with her worry over the adoption issue...but nevertheless I'd still like to look at it as a ray of hope 😃 😃
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kai_Hiwatari

Wow after reading ur post..i got to see the real world of anjie 👏 ..her true self....i always found her a complicated person...too hard to penetrate into her thoughts ,in her heart 😳

Yeap now i am optimistic, there is some hope for atul - anjie Love track 😳 😳
😍
Can't wait to see her falling 4 Atul 😍 😍*fingers crossed*

cheers
❤️Kai❤️

Hi!

I agree 😆... Vaarti your post has helped me understand the 'reel' Anjie so much better... I think I might even start to like her now the way you have explained it... I totally understand where Anjie's coming from being the way she is... Underneath all that 'I don't give a damn' (sorry for the "language") attitude there lies a woman still as vulnerable & afraid as a child...

Thanks and Kai I agree with all your points its exactly what I was going to say 😛... You saved me from writing it 😃...

Anyway...

Thanks!

Love, Hope & Best Wishes

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Well said!! 👏

Thank-you on behalf of Angy!for not making her a regular soap vamp..she is all that you said and more(good or evil thats for the creatives to decide)..

Now for Armaan and Angy ...Though much as we would like to think that Armaans softy corner for Ridz makes a better man out of him dispensing magic words of wisdom err sometimes purely out of frustration 😆 ,we are doing injustice to his general good self.He is equally wise in despensing similar wisdom and in a subtle way too to Angy.And whats better Angy takes it better from him without any melodrama.There may be more accounts as proof to this.I have noted two.
One was when Ridz was leading the race for the intern of the month and that wasnt going down well with her big sister coz she had scored the least.And what ensued for a unecessary display of not so sisterly affection with Angy getting angry on Ridz and making no bones abt it.Now this was very very smooth on Armaans part when he let it slip to Angy that the fight was because of her while they were breezing in the locker room.Angy surprisingly only asked if he really thought so!And then he purposely brewed the storm carefully insisting the Ridz is the choti behen and apologitic and Angy is the elder one.And it hit the two sisters where it should have,their hearts.

Another incident was when Ridz had her daura again and rudely walked away from the table when Armaan joined her and Angy.Armaan was so concerned about her state that he just forgot to be angry and asked Angy why the former was so down.And Angy matter of factly said sth abt adoption or sth to the affect and said its a minor problem.Armaan was quick and right to correct her instantly that maybe knowing abt real parents is not such a small thing.And viola Angy was cool with this response.She didnt take offence at being corrected so.

Angy does not take criticism well but with Armaan she lets down her guard.She is normal around him and not trying to defend herself.

At the same time her guards are up around her Dad.She tries her best to please him or sometimes irk him probably a habit developed during earlier years in an attempt to gain his attention.Though i dont think she is completely an innocent character.She is a quite a bit on the grey side and its been darkened further by her fathers preference of his other daughter who as she has found out now incidently adopted.But such is her insecurity as you rightly pointed out that she automatically assumed that she was the adopted one.

I only hope Atul is able to get thru to her somehow before she starts to discover her darker side.Like Armaan's patience,support,love and guidance is showing Ridz the way,Atul can be a guiding light in Angy's life.She would need his calm to pacify the whirlwind in her.


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Posted: 18 years ago
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Sareeta..take care dear!

Originally posted by: sareeta

@Aarti - I am so glad you made this post and I guess I was expecting this too... coz I read somewhere you were planning to... on Notty's request.!!!

I have quite a bit to chip in, but am really tired, the medication is really zonking me... will get back after I watch the episode....

I hope that is ok...!!! 😳

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Notty, you have voiced out my thoughts exactly... I couldnt have expressed it any better myself...

Second your thoughts completely!! I noticed the bit Anjie letting her guard down in front of Armaan and the reason why I find Armaan more of the true man that he is, that much as he is the guiding force for Ridzy he has always driven sense into Anjie... albeit subtly... but right thru where it is meant to be... and thatz what makes me respect him as a true man... totally...

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