Originally posted by: sweet_diksha
<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">Harshu, like I said, I haven't watched the episode... so no fresh comments from me... but I m again posting my points here, what I had posted 2 yrs back...and frankly I m not writing as Jo or Pari fan...but if we see from every angle in this situation, again I ll say, Jalal is not wrong, but Jo isn't wrong either...
anyway, here r few points...
Good episode... but the way it turned , i
didn't like... I really don't like to see Jallu to be proved wrong one more time when
this track will be over... coz when he blames her for betrayal, and later
when the truth comes out that she was doing all this for saving him, then one
more repenting time for Jalal... and i hate to see him feeling
ashamed for thinking wrong of her, or insulting her, and then apologizing and
asking for forgiveness for MU her... no , I want to see smart Jalal who will
solve the entire puzzle, in his own right way, without hurting Jo... coz that can be the only way their faith /trust in each other will be reinstated...
else... ???? but we all know it's not going to happen, and Jallu will be begging for forgiveness from her...
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<font color="#0000FF" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">Jodha
giving up haram</font>
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<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">first thing, Salima had adviced Jo to leave harem, if u remember,
on polo match day.. i know Salima asked her to do it for another reasons, but
Jo took the decision for her own reasons... and i will say she is not exactly
wrong... if she can't do justice with her work, it's better to give up than
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<font color="#0000FF" face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">Was
it public insult?</font>
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<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">no... it wasn't public insult... it was inside four walls of
harem, not in DEK... public insult is what Jo faced in DEK while Ruku MC track,
or Ben track...
Jodha was insulting the vote of the harem and her role by resigning without
telling anyone and that to citing personal reasons that her husband does not
even know- can Jalal not show his displeasure?
surely he can... but nothing new in it... he every
time does it... and apologizes later... even that we r used to, by now... coz
same thing is going to happen here too...</font>
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<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">Beyond all this, again Jodha had not lived up to his expectations
yet again- I heard more disappointment than insult </font>
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<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">right, Jo has not lived upto his expectations yet again... but has
he? remember he has said her, after that slavery track, that he will trust her
no matter what..he was all thankful to her, when she saved him from Ben...but is his trust so shaky, that coz he sees her with some
unknown person 3/4 times , every night, and just coz she isn't telling him, so
he loses his trust... then sorry, he doesn't know what trust means...</font>
<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3"> I know this is a point for debate that how can a married woman in that era do such thing, and still thinks that she won't be blamed...but that's the difference btw Jo and Jalal and the word trust btw them... Jo is feeling guilty for not telling Jalal the truth...but never once she is thinking, that if he gets to know by anybody, then he will feel that she is cheating him...this is trust...she is so sure that now where their relationship stands, her husband will understand her and support her , even when she has to hide something from him...and frankly speaking, Jalal doesn't deserve such trust from her...
coz if seen this way, his track record is much worse, and if seen to that Jo
should never trust him in her entire life...coz one tricky situation btw them
and he is the first person to back off from so called trust, and start
humiliating her. that too publically , in DEK.. Jo hasn't backed any time...
coz frankly speaking he hasn't given her much reason to trust him... </font>
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<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">and as for his disappointment, then he was the one who pushed her to take
charge of harem... secondly, that election time also i had said, that she cared
more for Jalal's reaction , and his dilemma btw her and Ruku, and she tried to
solve it by putting him out of dilemma...<font color="#FF0000"> for her he comes first, harem and
every other thing comes later... same thing is happening here.. suja has told
her that somebody wants to kill Jalal, and so her priority has changed... it's
Jalal's safety, than harem's well being...</font> <font color="#FF0000">and abt her telling him abt her
meetings, then what she can tell him? that she is meeting suja... first thing
she will be held responsible as traitor... second thing, few days back when she
tried to talk abt suja, Jallu has brushed her off saying he doesn't want to
talk to her abt suja... so how can she tell him?</font></font>
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<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">the main difference was one more thing... till date Jo never
flinched even when his word was at her neck , not even that first time while
practicing with him...but today she flinched... what does it mean... AkDha
relationship, back to square one... ???</font>
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<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">i wish he takes HB's advice seriously... he will be saved from
being proved wrong one more time...</font>
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<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">If
he shows anger in private, I am more than happy.
good for him to keep it btw two of them...</font>
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