I don;'t why people are so pissed at Kunj - Page 2

He is being self-righteousness and not supporting Twinkle when his mother is berating her for no reason. Usha is clearly not enough of a confidante for Manoher to share this info with her, maybe she should analyze her relationship with him rather than hating on Twinkle? And same for kunj--they're both just projecting all their insecurities and fears onto Twinkle so they don't have to deal with the fact that Manoher didn't share this problem with them because he didn't think they would believe him or support him.

Originally posted by: couchyC

Well they have indeed butchered kunj's character . He keeps on saying my family my family, n i don't know why it doesn't feel like he includes twinkle in that family too. What about all the promises n vows he made to twinkle, her mother n to himself that he'll never leave her, always think about her first, take care of her? n all this infact applies when twinkle would have really made a mistake n kunj wud have behaved like this but here toh he's behaving like this when she hasn't even made a mistake. What he would have done by knowing about the truth? Apart from getting hurt n if he would have talked to his father about this , manohar would have again insulted him n he would have ended up just getting hurt. What wrong what mistake she did by hiding the fact from him. According to her she solved the problem n she actually did but alas, anyway so she didn't want him to get hurt n all worried for no reason n not to forget manohar asked her not to tell anyone!

It feels like kunj has lost it , at least this is what cvs are showing us. I agree, that had to bring a separation track to keep the story going but that doesn't mean that they can convieniently manipulate n mold the characters the way they want to. Kunj is just not thinking rationally , infact he isn't thinking at all. He really thinks this situation could have been avoided if he knew, UV would have still leaked out those photos easily.

And even if this logic is not enough for him, at least think how many times twinkle forgave u! That UV kid drama track where u didn't trust her, n u hid the fact from twinkle that her father is alive n made her believe on a false drama , yea leela told u not to tell her n u did it for her sake but the same twinkle did. N the way u behaved with her during Maya track, without trying to know why she is behaving like that , u kept misunderstanding her n scolded her in front of maya in that restaurant , taking maya with u n leaving ur wife like that?! But still, still she forgave u, not once she complained to u for anything! N now when She did a silly mistake infact truly not even that n u left her just like that?!

I don't know why we have created an image of kunj being the mature , understanding guy n twinkle the immature one? To me nowadays she seems much more matured n understanding.

But yea this is the thing of her that annoys n irritates the most. She forgives way too easily ,just once her mother says that its not kunj's fault n she without thinking anything agrees n rather begins to feel guilty herself! She goes too far for her loved ones, especially kunj that she forgets her self respect, dignity, her original, real self everything n like goes completely blind. n isn't her mother making her weak n a bit too dependent. She should have taught her to be independent n live lige with full self respect n dignity, the way she lived, rather just teaching her about how to be good wife n importance of marriage! nyway thats a diff topic altogether !

But i guess, a girl wants a guy who scolds her for her mistakes, make her understand n not leave her for her small, stupid mistakes.

N yet u say why ppl are so pissed at kunj, who knows even sid is pissed at his character?

Anyway that was my POV completely.

cheers

Originally posted by: couchyC

Well they have indeed butchered kunj's character . He keeps on saying my family my family, n i don't know why it doesn't feel like he includes twinkle in that family too. What about all the promises n vows he made to twinkle, her mother n to himself that he'll never leave her, always think about her first, take care of her? n all this infact applies when twinkle would have really made a mistake n kunj wud have behaved like this but here toh he's behaving like this when she hasn't even made a mistake. What he would have done by knowing about the truth? Apart from getting hurt n if he would have talked to his father about this , manohar would have again insulted him n he would have ended up just getting hurt. What wrong what mistake she did by hiding the fact from him. According to her she solved the problem n she actually did but alas, anyway so she didn't want him to get hurt n all worried for no reason n not to forget manohar asked her not to tell anyone!

It feels like kunj has lost it , at least this is what cvs are showing us. I agree, that had to bring a separation track to keep the story going but that doesn't mean that they can convieniently manipulate n mold the characters the way they want to. Kunj is just not thinking rationally , infact he isn't thinking at all. He really thinks this situation could have been avoided if he knew, UV would have still leaked out those photos easily.

And even if this logic is not enough for him, at least think how many times twinkle forgave u! That UV kid drama track where u didn't trust her, n u hid the fact from twinkle that her father is alive n made her believe on a false drama , yea leela told u not to tell her n u did it for her sake but the same twinkle did. N the way u behaved with her during Maya track, without trying to know why she is behaving like that , u kept misunderstanding her n scolded her in front of maya in that restaurant , taking maya with u n leaving ur wife like that?! But still, still she forgave u, not once she complained to u for anything! N now when She did a silly mistake infact truly not even that n u left her just like that?!

I don't know why we have created an image of kunj being the mature , understanding guy n twinkle the immature one? To me nowadays she seems much more matured n understanding.

But yea this is the thing of her that annoys n irritates the most. She forgives way too easily ,just once her mother says that its not kunj's fault n she without thinking anything agrees n rather begins to feel guilty herself! She goes too far for her loved ones, especially kunj that she forgets her self respect, dignity, her original, real self everything n like goes completely blind. n isn't her mother making her weak n a bit too dependent. She should have taught her to be independent n live lige with full self respect n dignity, the way she lived, rather just teaching her about how to be good wife n importance of marriage! nyway thats a diff topic altogether !

But i guess, a girl wants a guy who scolds her for her mistakes, make her understand n not leave her for her small, stupid mistakes.

N yet u say why ppl are so pissed at kunj, who knows even sid is pissed at his character?

Anyway that was my POV completely.

cheers

Originally posted by: couchyC

Well they have indeed butchered kunj's character . He keeps on saying my family my family, n i don't know why it doesn't feel like he includes twinkle in that family too. What about all the promises n vows he made to twinkle, her mother n to himself that he'll never leave her, always think about her first, take care of her? n all this infact applies when twinkle would have really made a mistake n kunj wud have behaved like this but here toh he's behaving like this when she hasn't even made a mistake. What he would have done by knowing about the truth? Apart from getting hurt n if he would have talked to his father about this , manohar would have again insulted him n he would have ended up just getting hurt. What wrong what mistake she did by hiding the fact from him. According to her she solved the problem n she actually did but alas, anyway so she didn't want him to get hurt n all worried for no reason n not to forget manohar asked her not to tell anyone!

It feels like kunj has lost it , at least this is what cvs are showing us. I agree, that had to bring a separation track to keep the story going but that doesn't mean that they can convieniently manipulate n mold the characters the way they want to. Kunj is just not thinking rationally , infact he isn't thinking at all. He really thinks this situation could have been avoided if he knew, UV would have still leaked out those photos easily.

And even if this logic is not enough for him, at least think how many times twinkle forgave u! That UV kid drama track where u didn't trust her, n u hid the fact from twinkle that her father is alive n made her believe on a false drama , yea leela told u not to tell her n u did it for her sake but the same twinkle did. N the way u behaved with her during Maya track, without trying to know why she is behaving like that , u kept misunderstanding her n scolded her in front of maya in that restaurant , taking maya with u n leaving ur wife like that?! But still, still she forgave u, not once she complained to u for anything! N now when She did a silly mistake infact truly not even that n u left her just like that?!

I don't know why we have created an image of kunj being the mature , understanding guy n twinkle the immature one? To me nowadays she seems much more matured n understanding.

But yea this is the thing of her that annoys n irritates the most. She forgives way too easily ,just once her mother says that its not kunj's fault n she without thinking anything agrees n rather begins to feel guilty herself! She goes too far for her loved ones, especially kunj that she forgets her self respect, dignity, her original, real self everything n like goes completely blind. n isn't her mother making her weak n a bit too dependent. She should have taught her to be independent n live lige with full self respect n dignity, the way she lived, rather just teaching her about how to be good wife n importance of marriage! nyway thats a diff topic altogether !

But i guess, a girl wants a guy who scolds her for her mistakes, make her understand n not leave her for her small, stupid mistakes.

N yet u say why ppl are so pissed at kunj, who knows even sid is pissed at his character?

Anyway that was my POV completely.

cheers

i feel like his mother is terrible influence on him and is stopping him from doing or saying what he wants too. if it wasn't for usha I'm sure he wouldn't have kicked her out

Originally posted by: JennyPenny

What they are showing is pretty real. Any person would have reacted the way he is reacting and let's not forget, he's surrounded by his mother who is a complete nut case.

I am right there with you. I feel both Kunj and twinkle are justified in their own perspectives if we were in their shoes. I mean look at his situation since we are talking about Kunj. Is dad is in a coma, his family reputation is at stake, his mother tried to commit suicide, the girl he loves hid something huge from him.