Is Sharavan being passive aggressive? - Page 2

Originally posted by: .Veritaserum

Hi guys! Thanks for your replies. I also feel that Suman must have done something which pissed Shravan off but it may not have been such a big deal for her from her PoV. She does come across as unintentionally abrasive towards Shravan's feelings but she always means well which is exactly why she feels clueless as to why Shravan's deliberately ignoring her whilst remembering every other minutiae of the times spent with her during their childhood. I also hope they unfold the reason soon, and yes, I can't wait for the story to kick in full glory!

Hey I dont agree with you that Suman is clueless about his behavior. Based on the few scenes & FBs Suman knows that Shravan is angry with her & she also knows why. In 1 of the FB she is shown shouting & chasing after him but he quickly gets into the car & leaves. Also in the precap she says Sorry to him & you can see Shravan's face getting angry & furious. My guess is that:
1. Suman knows the reason for Shravan's anger.
2. She feels its not that great an issue & is ready to apologize.
3. What she is clueless about is not Shravan's anger but rather the depth & intensity of it. She feels simply saying Sorry will mollify him but doesnt understand that Shravan is very deeply hurt by her actions. Today she is in for a shock since i think Shravan will explode with all his pent up anger 😭

Originally posted by: Angels11

Hey I dont agree with you that Suman is clueless about his behavior. Based on the few scenes & FBs Suman knows that Shravan is angry with her & she also knows why. In 1 of the FB she is shown shouting & chasing after him but he quickly gets into the car & leaves. Also in the precap she says Sorry to him & you can see Shravan's face getting angry & furious. My guess is that:
1. Suman knows the reason for Shravan's anger.
2. She feels its not that great an issue & is ready to apologize.
3. What she is clueless about is not Shravan's anger but rather the depth & intensity of it. She feels simply saying Sorry will mollify him but doesnt understand that Shravan is very deeply hurt by her actions. Today she is in for a shock since i think Shravan will explode with all his pent up anger 😭

Originally posted by: sravss

I don't think he will explode at her instead act cold with her, like saying are you still stuck there...etc..

Hmm that is also possible. He might act all cold & detached. But somehow looking at his expression feel he might be more vocal. Either way today's episode is gng 2 b really interesting. Cant wait for it 😊

Originally posted by: sravss

I don't think he will explode at her instead act cold with her, like saying are you still stuck there...etc..

It is already clear that Shravan in not indifferent to Suman. What happened 10 years ago has left him hurt. He is still pissed at her. He is definitely being passive-aggressive. Shravan doesn't seem like he is one prone to outburst. His way of showing anger and frustration is somewhat silent. He is deliberately being cold instead of showing he is angry. If I were in Suman's shoes, I would rather he burst out his anger by shouting at me then give me such a cold shoulder.

The bottom line is his passive-aggressive attitude is more effective. It is hurting Suman to a great extent. He is definitely taking his revenge for her slight 10 years back with great style. Why care to shout to intimidate someone when you can intimidate better by acting cool?!

Originally posted by: PlainJane

It is already clear that Shravan in not indifferent to Suman. What happened 10 years ago has left him hurt. He is still pissed at her. He is definitely being passive-aggressive. Shravan doesn't seem like he is one prone to outburst. His way of showing anger and frustration is somewhat silent. He is deliberately being cold instead of showing he is angry. If I were in Suman's shoes, I would rather he burst out his anger by shouting at me then give me such a cold shoulder.

The bottom line is his passive-aggressive attitude is more effective. It is hurting Suman to a great extent. He is definitely taking his revenge for her slight 10 years back with great style. Why care to shout to intimidate someone when you can intimidate better by acting cool?!

Totally agree on the shouting part. Right now even Suman is hurt more only due to his indifference

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

The nonchalance is an act. The moment his cousin said her name his whole expression changed. He remembers every little thing about her and his association with her I am sure. But feigning ignorance is his way of even pretending to himself that he no longer cares.

I will go out on a limb and say, the reason he didnt come back to India in so many years was mostly due to her. I think he had a big crush on her as a teenager and maybe even loved her. Today that feeling has only festered and grown in the background while he pretended it doesn't mean anything anymore. But it definitely does.

I think Suman did something really big. We can see that she had the "Devil may care" type attitude and she may have gone too far one day. Something she did deeply hurt him and he cut her loose from his life and never looked back. That is only possible if someone breaks your heart or hurts you in a really bad way. Whatever it was, it was big, and he is going out of his way to punish her for it. (Hence the coming late to lunch, and pretending to forget her etc).

I just cant WAIT to know what she did, and see how they mend their relationship. After a very long time I am SO excited to see the next episode of a show! Great thought provoking post BTW! Maybe finally I have seen a couple that will inspire me to write an FF again!