Originally posted by: BeingAnonymous
No it didnt what i am trying to say is society will pick up only if girls put their foot down not justify that someone is doing something bec he is been misguided or because he is deep down good , bec i do believe deep down everyone is the whole Indian tv has seriously romanticised idea of women falling in love with her opressor to extent it creating problems in society today
Being seen it and how i really get annoyed when ppl say oh he is deep down good not because i dont wanna see good in him but i have seen something very terrible happening in real life with close friend and that did shake me up and question why but yes TV is whole responsible as they do need to bring change but whole lot of ppl justifying UV (not u) saying he is good and Kunj tickled bad in him i beg to differ , challenges bring the best in u if u are bad u take bad rout e otherwise u take good not everyone in UV situation turns murderer or rapist na , so that is UV who thinks Twink would have never left him she left and hence reaction and it is not UV men like them exist who think girl should be theirs no matter what they do , upbringing do make difference but then it oils to u 2 ppl in same situation react different way even Kunj seen his dad being abusive he decided to be otherwise whereas UV decided to plan with Anita so difference
I agree- to see a change, you have to be the change. If girls want to see a decrease in mistreatment, they need to stop justifying or tolerating. Yeah, most, if not all, Indian shows are based on the hate-love plot line and with the amount of people who watch such shows, it can profoundly affect thinking. I'm sorry to hear that you had to observe something as such in your life. I agree- Kunj has nothing to do with Yuvi's actions. You bring out a great point of Kunj seeing his father because his mother- I did not think of that. At the end of the day, Kunj and Yuvi are two different people who handle things differently. With Yuvi, I just sympathize because he is destroying not only the lives of others but his own life too in this futile mission to regain Twinkle. I just want to him to come to an understanding that this not love but an unhealthy attachment. Out of curiosity, what would you think if Yuvi completely redeemed himself? Oh and what did you think of the mirror scene? It brought some more points to mind but I'll probably make another post on that.
- Meghana
