The pursuit of happiness !

Originally posted by: yawfeh

i agree to each and every word of yours...😊👏

Originally posted by: FrozenRain

agree..nothing to add more...👍🏼

Originally posted by: -Loveberry-

Moral of the story...
"Being Selfish is the Ultimate SelfLessNess."
Coz, No one knows What you need Better than you 😊

Originally posted by: Happy_hippy

If you could kick the person in the pants responsible for most of your trouble, you wouldn't sit for a month."
Theodore Roosevelt

I came across this statement yesterday and couldn't control my laughter . It's true for sure ! And when I was watching old episodes of SH yesterday , i could relate it to Sandhir!

Though both of them have made mistakes in destroying their relationship , somehow I feel if they dig deeper within themselves they might realise most of their problems are self created.

Right from season one Sandhir were looking for acceptance . Sanyukta wanted to be accepted as an equal in the male dominated society. Randhir was looking to be accepted and loved the way he is! When they met the inevitable happened! Both fell in love but never ever left their quest for acceptance . Sanyukta still wanted Randhir to accept her dreams and Randhir still wanted her unconditional love . But both never really accepted themselves as individuals .

Sanyukta has enough intelligence to win battles on her own . She doesn't need a ASR or Nirman to tell her she is good enough , She has to accept herself for her strengths and weaknesses and then she would see the world is at her feet!

Randhir has to love himself first . He has to love the intelligent , caring and adorable guy that he is! It has to come from him first! He is on his way to loving himself as he is shown working really hard and giving his work importance resulting in Nirman appreciating him. Hope it continues .

I also believe one doesn't need others to be happy from within . If you accept and love yourself thats enough to be happy . And then you need others in your life to share that happiness. The two new characters Sanaya and Aryan exhibit this philosophy . Sanaya is happy with who she is and that's why she spreads her happiness and keeps Randhir happy .

Aryan may not seem too cheerful but he is happy with who he is even if he is a hacker!

So I hope Sandhir continue to find their happiness this season !

Also what if for some reason Sanaya fails to give her attention to Randhir? Will she be branded as a selfish woman too? What baffles me though is that if he demands attention of such epic proportion, how come he is the one to have or at least tried to end the relationship with Sanyukta thrice. Every time their relationship hit a roadblock, it was him who pressed the eject button first.

Originally posted by: muller

In red- True, insecurities has seeped deeper into Randhir and has affected his life more than it affected Sanyukta. He is still uncertain about what truly makes him happy and holds on to people to seek happiness, right from Karan to Sanyukta to Sanaya. How i wish Sanyukta had coaxed him more to join that company in California and not stopped him, it was only a matter of one month they could have figured out something later.

Also what if for some reason Sanaya fails to give her attention to Randhir? Will she be branded as a selfish woman too? What baffles me though is that if he demands attention of such epic proportion, how come he is the one to have or at least tried to end the relationship with Sanyukta thrice. Every time their relationship hit a roadblock, it was him who pressed the eject button first.